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Do women enjoy giving blow-jobs?

I, probably like most guys, enjoy getting a blowjob. My girlfriend says that she doesn't like it a lot, so I don't ask her for one very often, and if she gives me one randomly, that's awesome. I'm curious if (and it probably depends on the woman) if women enjoy giving blowjobs? Personally, it seems like there isn't much in it for them. Is there something that women like about giving them besides making their guy really happy? (i know i do things just because I like to see my girl really happy and I like the feel of her parts)

I LOVE giving my boyfriend a blowjob. You knwo those forwards about what guys dream of? (ir-getting blowjobs cuz they're stressed, or to put them to sleep, or for nor eason...) I'm like that. All the time. Since we don't have sex yet, it's my main form of pleasuring him. It's an art form to me, and I love to explore and try new things. My boyfriend enjoys it too, so it's perfect!

if only i could get my gf into a little private spot for a few hours...

I don't mind doing it once in a while, because he likes it, but if it takes too long... not cool. My jaw gets really sore after a little while.

Lol...I like it best when it's only about ten minutes...my jaw has developed hellish muscles over time, but I prefer to make it quick, but make it good. Making him multi when I give him a blow-job is fun too.

Considering that most prostitutes will tell you that married men wanting blowjobs is their biggest business, I would estimate that no more than half of all women do it. Those of us who have it as one of our tricks are split between those who really enjoy it and those who do it once in a while because their partner likes it.

Personally, I do not like the taste nor the consistency of semen. I enjoy performing blowjobs because my partners enjoy it so much. I have learned to like the act inspite of the taste. Besides, if I want him to go down on me, especially at "that time," I should reciprocate.

Am I going to be one of the only ones to say that I LOVE giving my boyfriend blowjobs? I love seeing and feeling how he responds to me. I love hearing him moan. I love just exploring everything. Actually, it builds my self-confidence to see how pleased he is!

I love it too bunny! The reactions I get from him I dont even get during sex, so it makes it worth the slightly unpleasant consistancy of semen. I'm glad to make him happy, and he's always willing to return the favor!

I also enjoy giving them. I didn't at first but eventually did as I got better at it! It's a beautiful thing!

[QUOTE=bunnygirl]Am I going to be one of the only ones to say that I LOVE giving my boyfriend blowjobs? I love seeing and feeling how he responds to me. I love hearing him moan. I love just exploring everything. Actually, it builds my self-confidence to see how pleased he is![/QUOTE]

I was the first! Lol...best thing ever.

i don't mind giving blowjobs for the most part.

here's my reasoning:
i believe that when a girl gives a guy a hand job he sits there and thinks
"wow, you're really not that good at this."
of course, he most likely won't tell a girl that,
but with the blowjob it's something that guys don't [normally] do to themselves.
i also enjoy seeing my guys reaction to the blowjob.
it's much more stimulating on my part.

although, i have to admit after a certain amount of time
i really just do not wish to do it anymore..
not because i don't like it, but because my mouth tends to get sore.

[QUOTE=ditzydoll]
here's my reasoning:
i believe that when a girl gives a guy a hand job he sits there and thinks
"wow, you're really not that good at this."
of course, he most likely won't tell a girl that,
but with the blowjob it's something that guys don't [normally] do to themselves.
[/QUOTE]

Being a male, I will confirm that you are absolutely right. You will never be able to give a guy a hand job as well as he can give himself. This is not to say he won't enjoy. Guys can't give women better hand jobs then they can give themselves either. It's just the nature of the beast. While going through the road of sexuality a person develops there own method and rythme for masturbating. It is impossible for another person to follow the exact same pattern.

Only 4% of men can give themselves a blowjob. I have tried and it killed my back trying to bend that way, so I would assume those lucky 4%ers arn't very satisfied by it either.

I find that to be not true (guys can't give girls better, or girls can't give guys better hand-jobs.)
My B/F does better for me than I do myself almost every time. And I KNOW I do at least as well, if not better for him with my hands...I'd just prefer to use my mouth. I love the taste and feel.

I love it. I love everything about it. seeing my bf's expression, hearing him moan...it's great. I love pleasing him, could do it for hours, I should be thankful my jaw never gets sore or stiff ( HE should be too!)

I can go for that once in a while when I am with a guy I enjoy. I am bi so I am not with men all the time but when I am a blowjob is not out of the question. I am not a prostitute but am as good as one or two of them.

As to whether or not women in general like giving blow jobs, I can not say. However, one female friend of mine loves to do it. She says she would rather give one than have penetration. She always gets off to an amazing climax when she is doing me. Many times I have asked her if she wanted me to do her, and she simply stated that she had several orgasms while performing on me.

I love giving my BF blowjobs. It makes me really really wet. My favorite is to surprise him with BJ's when we are out somewhere - like in the parking lot before going to the store, in a dark corner somewhere at a party, etc. He seems to enjoy this too. He likes it when I start kissing his chest and run my tongue all the way down his stomach, and lick and nibble around the creases in his legs and his pubic area before finally starting to give him a BJ. I usually make them last pretty long. I like to tease him. I can always feel when he is getting close to cumming and usually I will back off a few times and change up my technique before I finally let him finish. When we are alone together I love giving him BJ's as foreplay. The whole act is really sensual, and I get so excited just hearing him moan and eventually hearing him beg me to f*ck him. I don't even mind the taste or texture of semen. I don't really understand girls who have a problem with it. I think at first my BF was a little worried about cumming in my mouth, thinking I would want to spit it out, but I just swallow it. I think that's better than holding it in my mouth to spit it out. Plus, I think he likes the feeling of me swallowing while he is cumming.

I enjoy it alot because it makes him happy, but he needs to give something back. ;)

luv giving head.... also luv receiving

I enjoy giving blowjobs

I really enjoy giving my b/f bj's. It excites me to see him being pleasured by me. I don't expect him to return the favor, I just love pleasuring him

I love getting blowjobs and my gf is abosolutly amasing at it, she's just a natural. We are both our first's, she is just too get at it, she makes me multi, she can make me last forever, she makes my eye's roll in back of head. I know she loves giving them becuase she tells me all the time I tell her I love getting them and I love giving her oral.
ditzydoll, that is not true, she is better at then me. Yes I can do it quicker and get him to shot farther but she is way better at it then me, it's becuase her hands feel way better then mine.

Definitely *love* giving a man head!! :-)) Such a major turn-on--it gets me all tingly and wet.

BTW, this afternoon I was watching one of those Sinclair DVDs on "Better Oral Sex Techniques" and actually had to *shut it off* 'cause watching these gals blowing their partners was PO'ing me as I wanted to be doing it to these men myself!!
:(

(Memo to myself: this abstinance thing of mine must end *yesterday*!! LOL!!)

wow it seems all the females here love it!! for the sake of trying to tip the scale to the other side i'll give my input.... i USED to like it wen i did it 2 guys other than my current bf (unfortunately) i had no problem going down on them and stopping just before they cum ...coz i dont like the taste at all...makes me feel sick. :eek: with my current bf unfortunately he gets PE almost straight away so the taste comes immediately and it really puts me off. i've tried doing it with a flavoured condom but he says its just not the same. (once i'm saying this does anyone have any suggestions on how he can delay PE or perhaps....how can one possibly get used to the taste?? i feel sick just thinking about the taste) :( i really would like to return the pleasure to him since he is very giving to me!

[QUOTE=bunnygirl]Am I going to be one of the only ones to say that I LOVE giving my boyfriend blowjobs? I love seeing and feeling how he responds to me. I love hearing him moan. I love just exploring everything. Actually, it builds my self-confidence to see how pleased he is![/QUOTE]

No you are not, I too LOVE IT! And like you and Lackadaisical, it's become an art for myself and my boyfriend. We too do not have intercourse yet and I'm one of those women who CONSTANTLY want to give mine a bj, to the point where he actually has to tell me no. hehe.

sexy_angel, the best way for me to avoid the taste (which does depend on the guy's diet), is by putting him as far back as I can so he doesn't actually get much on my tongue but straight into my throat. This might not be effective if you have any gag reflexes.

man i wish a had a girl like one on these forums..

sheez.

Lone dissenter, once again

I feel obliged to speak up for all women out there, including me, who do not enjoy it. This forum is supposed to be for all preferences or points of view without a sense of censure (unless you start flaming others). Based on personal experience, and that of several friends, there are plenty of women who do not like to perform fellatio nor do they care to receive cunnilingus. The REAL problem is when partners disagree on this. When one wants something the other doesn't like... Then you have to decide how important an issue this is to each of you and to the relationship.

Sexual preferences can't necessarily be "explained" or changed. Forcing yourself to do something you don't desire to do, or doing it just to please the other person---well I guess that's an individual decision.

While I LOVE Spinach, I HATE Broccoli--and I always will.

[QUOTE=Revirginated]Sexual preferences can't necessarily be "explained" or changed. Forcing yourself to do something you don't desire to do, or doing it just to please the other person---well I guess that's an individual decision.

While I LOVE Spinach, I HATE Broccoli--and I always will.[/QUOTE]

Well put.

I feel like I should add that while I love giving my guy oral, I NEVER EVER allow him to do the same to me. I just can't stand it, and my boyfriend doesn't enjoy doing it. It works both ways.

Mmmmmmmmmmmm...I absolutely LOVE giving my man a BJ! It gets me so wet hearing his moans, feeling his cock stiffen, seeing the head all red and swollen, feeling his hands on my head, in my hair, pushing me farther down on his cock while he thrusts upward to fill my mouth with his cum..... Oooh! I'm sure missing him right now!!!

Sometimes I like it, sometimes I don't ... sometimes it's the guy, sometimes it's other stuff that has nothing to do with him ... sometimes it feels really good, sometimes my jaw hurts *SHRUG*

Sometimes I like to floss my teeth & sometimes I don't :rolleyes: :p

yes I love it!

omg im obsessed with giving head i wont allow my b/f not to get it atleast once a day lol but it always different and i can get off on it too :)

I LOVE to give bj's!!!! I get sooo hot! That being said, my husband does NOT like them. :( He does not like giving me oral. At all.

My girlfriends do not like to give them. I'm not sure about their husband's preference (I didn't ask).

[QUOTE=Revirginated]I feel obliged to speak up for all women out there, including me, who do not enjoy it. This forum is supposed to be for all preferences or points of view without a sense of censure (unless you start flaming others). Based on personal experience, and that of several friends, there are plenty of women who do not like to perform fellatio nor do they care to receive cunnilingus. The REAL problem is when partners disagree on this. When one wants something the other doesn't like... Then you have to decide how important an issue this is to each of you and to the relationship.

Sexual preferences can't necessarily be "explained" or changed. Forcing yourself to do something you don't desire to do, or doing it just to please the other person---well I guess that's an individual decision.

While I LOVE Spinach, I HATE Broccoli--and I always will.[/QUOTE]

I think that the above post is a more realistic response. Obviously, 90% of the people on this board are WAY more sexual than the average human being, so naturally, you're going to get a lot of women on this board claiming that "oh, I absolutely LOVE giving head!!!"

That's just not reality. I think most women do it at some point while they're dating and then after they've settled into marriage, there is no longer any incentive to keep performing an act which they loathe.

Despite the fact that I've given my wife oral literally hundreds of times, she never returns the favor. It's obvious that she has no interest in it. Honestly, I don't care that much for it either but that's probably because the only head jobs I've ever received were half-assed efforts. I've had one good head job ever and that of course took place when we got engaged - there's no need for her to do it now! :D

I agree.... However, I'd alos like to add that that one's affinity for sucking a man's penis can fluctuate -- some days I like it, some days I love, some days I have absolutely no interested whatsoever ... then, too -- sometimes I start the day a bit repulsed by the idea & finish it really desiring to give him a BJ.... There are no absolutes & I believe that puting any pressure on one's self or one's partner to give a BJ is more likely to cause the opposite effect.

Long as the area is CLEAN and DONT STINK, Im for it

I find it turns me on!!!

I love giving my gy one before the main event in foreplay, it turns us both on.

I really love doing it!!!! :)

Not all grls lke it though, so don't be pushy about it, slowly work her up to it

bugs

Hey, I have recently started giving my boyfriend blow jobs, and I love it more then anything else we do. I love the warmth and softness of his penis in my mouth. I love running my tongue over his head, I love holding him in my hand. I LOVE the noises he makes and the way he wimpers and pulls my hair and moans my name.. I also enjoy it when he cums in my mouth. How he pushes he cock into my mouth as he is about to cum, and just ahhh... how he loves it. I abslutely LOVE giving my guy head..

[QUOTE=ua322]. I've had one good head job ever and that of course took place when we got engaged - there's no need for her to do it now! :D[/QUOTE]

:D Uhhhhhhhhh that's why a bride smiles soooooooo much on her wedding day...cause she knows she's given her last BJ....:eek: :D

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Okay it's a joke ...people...I'm joking!! LOL

Well - I've only given a couple, but I actually really liked it. I thought it was really hot to see a guy that turned on by something I was doing.

I also don't have a gag reflex, so that helped I suppose.

It's a crazy amount of power and enjoyment to be able to watch your guy enjoy something like that...I say yes- I love to give them:)

[QUOTE=FlynSunshine]It's a crazy amount of power and enjoyment to be able to watch your guy enjoy something like that...I say yes- I love to give them:)[/QUOTE]

But I think a lot of women would say that it's an even greater power that allows them to never give a BJ and still get everything they want.

I guess it depends on your perspective.

[QUOTE=FlynSunshine]It's a crazy amount of power and enjoyment to be able to watch your guy enjoy something like that....[/QUOTE]
I haven't thought of it that way -- it's a nice spin & although I'm beginning to really love my partner's penis, this thought could only help ;)

I actually love giving them as well. Watching my man's face and hearing him moan with pleasure because of me is awsome. I like to suprise him alot, too. Just random Blowjobs for no reason are great because he feels good about them, and so do I. It is a self confidence booster too.

I also really enjoy receiving, haha.

the last time we had oral she was amazed at the way i acted after she was done. i asked her to take everything off and i went to town on her. she talked about it the next couple of days and i thought maybe she is turning the corner on this. but nope that was like 2 weeks ago and things havent changed. so i guess i no deep down she will never like it no matter how much i dont pressure her about it. maybe this sint the right place for this post. i guess you guys will let me no if i messed up posting this here.

It is great that you ladies love to give BJ's. As a male I love to get a BJ. Just watching my partner do her thing on my penis is a great visual experience for me. The feeling is another thing I love about BJ's. For me it shows a great deal of acceptance of me by my partner since it is something only she can give. She doesn't like to swallow so I miss out on that aspect. She has allowed me to ejaculate some times in her mouth, but usually will end the BJ before I get to that point. I guess you may ask if it is really a BJ if I don't ejaculate or is it just oral stimulation sex? She does really like me to ejaculate in her though and so she usually wants me right in her when she stops the orall. I love returning the favor on her and getting her to orgasm from oral. Just being able to taste and suck up her juices is highly desirable for me.

One of the B's to a man's heart...

Sure its ok, i don't mind it,... allthough i prefer giving oral to a female....there are several B's to a mans heart.... "Blowjobs"... Back Rubs,... Baking,... Breakfast in Bed,...ect....i could go on all day.Even though I don't get totally turned on by giving head,... i will give it as long as i get some too....

I don't think I ever responded to this but I love giving him a blowjob. I love pleasing him and it turns me on to see him turned on. And all the noises and heavy breathing he does gets me going and him rubbing me everywhere certainly doesn't hurt either. lol.

It also doesn't hurt for him to tell me that I'm really good at it. He was my first person to give a blowjob to, and he is still very impressed with that. And I've apparently gotten better at it (and he's the only one I give them to), which he likes to tell me as well. So I guess in a way it's good to be reminded every now and then that I'm at least good at something when I seem to suck (no pun intended) at a lot of other things. lol.

[QUOTE=Lisa15]Sure its ok, i don't mind it,... allthough i prefer giving oral to a female....there are several B's to a mans heart.... "Blowjobs"... Back Rubs,... Baking,... Breakfast in Bed,...ect....i could go on all day.Even though I don't get totally turned on by giving head,... i will give it as long as i get some too....[/QUOTE]

My wife skipped over the letter "B", apparently. :D

[QUOTE=ua322]My wife skipped over the letter "B", apparently. :D[/QUOTE]
ua322...you kill me pal !!!

I love doing it. And the more you like it the beter for me.
I'll keep going and going 'til I can't go anymore. Take a
little break then go right back to work. And guys just
because it fells good, don't expect it all the time. Extended
blowjobs can make our mouth and neck hurt. Be considerate
give her a nice neck rub while she's down there.

I love giving my bf head, love everything about it. Seeing (and hearing) how much it turns him on only turns me on more. Can't say the same for most girls I know though. There's always something about it they don't like, if they do it at all.

I love multis also, my record for him is 3xs in one day.

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