Hi i would just like to know if women like to be hit on their breasts and in what ways would they like it Hard ...soft ...or just to pleasure men?
Sun, 05/02/2010 - 23:31
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Do women like to be slapped on their breasts whhile having sex !!?? and why?


wow. that's kinda offbeat. I know women love having their breasts fondled and sucked. Breasts are a sensitive area to slap or hit.
I'm curious to know where you got this info
Well i see most people posting how they do it to their wives or girlfriends and i just thought i should ask cause ... im 16 and when i get older i want to be able to really pleasure my wife , i would like her to be thouroughly satisfied lol...cause i know i will care for her alot thats why im starting now...it just puzzles me as much....
[QUOTE=Narutoxxx;254506]Well i see most people posting how they do it to their wives or girlfriends and i just thought i should ask cause ... im 16 and when i get older i want to be able to really pleasure my wife , i would like her to be thouroughly satisfied lol...cause i know i will care for her alot thats why im starting now...it just puzzles me as much....[/QUOTE]
Your intent while honorable and noble is answered this way by me: "Do men like to be slapped on their scrotum and testicles while having sex!!?? and why?"
I am very glad to know that you are interested in pleasuring your future wife (and I presume girlfriend(s) along the way.) More power to you. The way to attaining that "power" in part is by reading each of the articles listed in the Index found at the top of the main screen.
Begin by learning the differences between men an women and how each views relationships, romance, and, sex. Learn how to establish each of these fundamentals and then nurture them. If you wish to become a world class lover, you must understand all of these things because romance does not equate to sex and orgasms.
At sixteen you are just beginning your journey into emotional and mental maturity. I recommend devoting a lot of time to observing and reading as much as possible.
How do you define "hit" and hitting a woman? Be it her sensitive breasts or your sensitive testicles, there is a right way and a wrong way to do this. For men, there is an article listed in the Index to read. The rule is a man does not hit a woman--period.
Now, as for playfulness while fooling around and making out, nothing should be done that could be considered or construed as abusive, or, intentionally causes pain, unless the ground rules going into this are well defined beforehand. Even so, most playfulness like this, for example: spanking, is done by pulling one's punches so while there may be a bit of a sting, there is no sold punch and no damage or intent. The operative word is "playfulness". I am worried about your use of the word "hit"! Whatever, your question has been answered. Breasts are sensitive and also a very important aspect of a woman's body and sense of self--a man would do well to treat them with care. There is more on this in an article listed in the Index.
Please learn how to treat a woman. Please learn first and foremost how to value a woman. Please learn that while you may like to horse around and have a rough and tumble session with a guy or get your brains knocked out playing sports, not so most women. While there can be some rough-housing when making out, the intent is to be playful, certainly not rough or hurtful.
There is much you can do with and for a woman with regard to her breasts. Please read the article that discusses these techniques and begin there with a girlfriend or wife.
Your next concern should be how to romance a woman, then how to make out and romance her--all before ever becoming sexual with each other.
I hope this is of help. Got questions?
If you got this from watching porn, stop.
Respect, respect RESPECT...the woman's breasts.
I say this because that is more than just sexual pleasure, if anything this is an area where you must nurture it, pleasure it...because one day, it will be used to nurture back.
Like dd2 said. "hit" or "slap" is a rather strong connoctation to do relative harm than pleasure.
My wife would NOT like that one bit. I think that act is more for BDSM play.
Thanks guys...i really learned alot for my choice of words and in no way did i mean to abuse in terms of my question....i really appreciate the advice and i will get to reading all i can in the index thansk soo much :D... i also refrain from watching porn lol...i use to but dnt do it anymore
Hi Narutoxxx,
The truth is some women do enjoy having their breasts pinched, slapped, covered in hot candle wax, temprarily pierced and other kinds of "torture". I would like to point out, however, that this is very advanced sex play and is something you might try with a partner who you know very very well personally, emotionally and sexually. These activities enter into the realm of kinky sex. Kink can be anything new or unusual, but I repeat - breast torture play is for advanced players only both for the woman and her partner. And most women will not go for that. This, like any sort of sex, should only be practiced between consenting partners. That means that she has already agreed to give this a try or already said that she enjoys it before you try anything weird with her breasts.
I recommend that you become an expert at the basics before attempting these things. You can go a long way on basic technique and both have incredible orgasms.
I stand beside Dancing Doc2's post.
Thanks soo much ...ill keep that in mind :D
Narutoxxx, just know that every woman has a preference. It is up to you to find out what that it. Don't listen to anyone that say the answer is a definite "yes" or "no" for every woman.
It totally depends on the mood my dear.
I don't suggest it unless you really know your partner.
Sex can be passionate and it can be full of romance and love. This is what I like to call making love. Then there is just straight out F**king. You will have to play it by ear and really get to know your partner by how they respond to you.
Honestly I am a woman and I can say that sometimes I do like the rough aspect. Choked, spanked, and yes I do like it when a man slaps my breasts.
It totally is the mood setting though. If you are with someone fairly new I do not suggest it. My partner never slaps to hard though and knows when the pain is no longer a good feeling. You should never hit a woman hard. You will be able to tell when it's to much and when she tells you STOP or you know it's hurting her and she doesn't like it. You stop right away!
Hope this helps a little.
Cheers.
I like sex a little rough,but slapping of any kind NO WAY JOSE!!
... but do keep in mind that most of us would dump you instantly if you tried it.
[QUOTE=raunchy gal;260643]I like sex a little rough,but slapping of any kind NO WAY JOSE!![/QUOTE]
No playful slap on the ass?
Well maybe a little slap on the ass or titty would be ok so long as it wasn't vicious and was all in good fun:p
I have to confess to being amazed at this thread. OK, this is an open Forum and all ideas and queries are welcome and inevitably answered by the professionals, or maybe endorsed/augmented with supportive comments from the rest of us.
The female breast is a pleasure-giving facility which I used to love to fondle and use in so many delightful ways. To think of slapping it about just does not tally with me.
So, I'm sorry guys. Count me out on this one. Nay Nay thrice Nay!!:(:(:(
keep in mind most of us aint 14
I know this is an old thread, but just wanted to comment ...
the main thing is, it depends on the woman ... but I wonder if my wife is unusual, as it also depends on the time of the month, for her anyway. The week before her period, got to avoid her breasts. The week before that, she'll be really turned on by gentle stimulation. And from the day after her period starts for about 2 weeks, really likes having nipples squeezed quite hard, twisted etc. And some months there's a narrow gap at the end of the two weeks when she really wants nipples pulled hard and breasts slapped during sex (maybe it's every month but I just don't notice that narrow gap!). Assuming my wife's not totally unique in changing what she needs over time, the key thing for anyone new in a relationship, you can't assume what worked at one time is good the next time, or that what was rejected one time is a 'never' ...
The comments on here are from little girls that dont have a clue, yes they like it but not hard. They like it during sex not just straight out. For example the wife loves when I slap her tits together when she rides me