[QUOTE=H11diaz;258970]Because my gf gives me mix signal she says she likes it but she hardly ever does it. Ladies have any advice??[/QUOTE]
Only your girl can answer your question. So my advice would be to sit down on the couch with her and talk. Communication is the key in a relationship :)

[QUOTE=H11diaz;258970]Hello everyone I'm new here but I always had this question for the ladies.band wanted to know there honest opinion!! Do woman really enjoy giving oral sex to men or do they not enjoy it but do it just to please him??? [/quote]
Welcome to the forum! Read around and you will find that there certainly are women who find it pleasing. And there are also a lot who simply want to please. And some who don't do oral sex at all. Take a look at the index as well, some real good info can be found there!

My feelings towards oral sex are in fact slightly confusing: I absolutely love to see him enjoy himself. It's a real turn-on for me to see it in his eyes! :) That's a reason to give a bj for sure. I also love orally pleasing him while he pleases me; it's really overwhelming to feel his pleasure and mine! Only having him inside me can top that feeling. I like warming him up a bit more before he gets inside me. That gives a great feeling to me as well! :o So you see; I like giving oral to him, yet I do not particularly fancy the act itself

Obviously "do women enjoy" is nonsensical. You don't think all women feel and act the same, so why ask? I really love oral sex; it fascinates me and I enjoy it on every possible occasion. The cock is a beautiful thing, its shape, its sensitivity, its rise and fall. I love to give a man pleasure by licking and sucking him and having him come in my mouth. But he has to do the same for me - many times over.
A great friend of mine, who I work with and have known since nursery school thinks the whole thing utterly revolting and bordering on paraphilia. She will have nothing to do with any man who likes this sort of thing.
Now - do you suppose there's an answer to your question?

Maybe your girl-friend love you and enjoys giving you pleasure. Rather like scrubbing the kitchen floor - you hate the job but love the effect it has.

I agree with you chloelin,i don't particularly enjoy the act itself but to see the ecstacy on his face and then have him return the favour "BELLISIMO"(WONDERFUL)

[QUOTE=RedRoses;258976]...women who find it pleasing
...who simply want to please
...who don't do oral sex at all...[/QUOTE]

There are also people like me who start out at "no way, Jose", work through "do it just to please" and end up at "it's a turn on". Introducing mouth to genitals can be an acquired taste/desire. I started out "Oh, hell no." These days giving him BJs sometimes actually makes me wet, or keeps my motor running right after he's manually helped me reach an O. There are also times where he starts talking about how incredibly good it feels, and I have trouble not grinning so big my technique suffers for a moment :D

Having said that, I also can't get past the taste and rarely take the shot. So there truly are all kinds.

A close friend of mine confided in me that she can have an orgasm whilst performing oral on her man without any other stimulation. It just endorses the old addage that the brain is the biggest sex organ in the body.

I always wanted my husband to come in my mouth so i could see his reaction when i tasted/swallowed him but he was never patient enough to let me finish him off.Now after 17yrs of marriage 9 of them living apart ,and still having occasional sex i was finally able to get him to come by giving him a handjob,then finishing him off in my mouth,and swallowing his come.It was a bit thick and slightly bitter,but i didn't not like it,actually it wasn't too bad at all.

Some women do enjoy "feeding off the male" and some do NOT enjoy it.
Their reasons are irrelevant. Once NO has been said then NO it is until she changes her mind on her own.

I found out I'm ok with it actually. Recently saw my man for the first time in like half a year and we had so much to catch up on. I have been rather hesitant about oral, but it entered my mind as of late since he has been willing to do it for me, then I need to be just as giving...

This was decision became easier when we both took a shower (not together, but we were in the bathroom together after a whole nice night of intimate catch up)

I started out with a hand-job and then i had this need that made me want to bring my bf to come. i found out that a hj/bj combo did the trick nicely and he told me when he was about to come, so that it wouldn't end up on places i didn't want to.

Overall...I actually did like it...and I'm kinda shocked that I'm admitting this. it wasn't bad at all. i didn't think i could handle him but giving oral does not mean deep throating.

i guess i'm at a stage where

I just enjoyed sucking my man off, but not enough that we do this every time we meet. lol, we still have to catch up on multiple outings and stuff before visiting the bedroom arena again

Good for you, dear Goddess! :)
And I must admit I never found it "bad" either. I find that a penis is really not that different from other parts of skin, not even much change in smell (I really expected that first time). Instead: I was pleasantly surprised about the soft skin; soft as a baby :) And like you said: you could easily prevent getting his stuff in places you don't want to. I gradually took steps on giving oral sex. I always feel like a man giving oral to his woman has little less opportunity to get used to it gradually, since a man is confronted with mucus and stuff from lick 1.

About "needing to be just as giving": I can relate to that feeling. I have in fact sometimes pushed myself further, cause I felt like "staying behind" and luckily my bf is the one that stopped me the second he noticed. Which I feel is right. The primary need should be about "wanting to do it" (like you also describe). So personally; I wouldn't expect him to do the same for me in "exchange". And the other way around: I wouldn't want him to expect this of me. Off course having sex means you both need to make an effort. But you are celebrating love and pleasure! So let's focus on giving that, instead of the techniques involved. After all: you can not "trade" it like cows on the market or weight a hand full of "pleasure" like you'd do with vegetables ;)

i have heard a lot of girls say they love it and a lot that say they hate it, so it all depends on the girl. me for insteads have no idea i tryed giving oral once didnt really like it much, but that could have been the fact i had no idea wat i was doing lol. i mught like it now or in the future i dont know all i know is that i would for sure never like a guy cuming in my mouth ever

I thought some women love to give blow jobs. I love to eat a woman. It sounds as though women doesnt really love performing the act but the results of the act.

Now I have to ask my wife if she has been fooling me all this time, I thought see really liked sucking me!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you think we're saying "as a rule, women don't like giving bjs, they only like getting him to come from them", you're misinterpreting.

The thing to take away from this thread is that it depends on the woman.

Which shouldn't come as a surprise. An affinity, or lack thereof, for ANYTHING sexual, depends on the person/people in question.

I agree which is why I need to ask my wife.

[QUOTE=goinsouth;261569]I thought some women love to give blow jobs. I love to eat a woman. It sounds as though women doesnt really love performing the act but the results of the act.

Now I have to ask my wife if she has been fooling me all this time, I thought see really liked sucking me!!!!!!!!!!!!![/QUOTE]

It is interesting to know what goes on in your partner's mind and sharing things may bring you closer together :)

But... your post seems more like your feeling disappointed/betrayed by the mere possibility... Your question is stated in almost blaming way, instead of open. Why call it "fooling", when you've apparently never asked? :confused: All I'm saying is; I wouldn't go asking such questions with a negative attitude, but with an open mind.

Thanks for your advice Roses.

In all my posts I try to portray my lack of selfishness which is genuine. I never speak to my wife in the bedroom with a negative attitude. She knows my goal is to treat her as the godess she is. We speak openly while in the bedroom about things.

I guess "fooled" was a poor choice of words. I should have said I misunderstood the driver of BJs. Thanks again Roses

should ask him if he enjoys eating her pussy

[QUOTE=raunchy gal;260147]I always wanted my husband to come in my mouth so i could see his reaction when i tasted/swallowed him but he was never patient enough to let me finish him off.Now after 17yrs of marriage 9 of them living apart ,and still having occasional sex i was finally able to get him to come by giving him a handjob,then finishing him off in my mouth,and swallowing his come.It was a bit thick and slightly bitter,but i didn't not like it,actually it wasn't too bad at all.[/QUOTE]

I would love to hear you describe to me, what your favorite characteristics were in a load of my Semen!!!