[FONT="Franklin Gothic Medium"][COLOR="Navy"][SIZE="4"][CENTER]Well my boyfriend and I have had oral sex more than 5 times and he seems to like it but... he says he likes to give me oral more than he likes me giving him a blow job? Could this be true or does he think I'm not good at it? I've never given oral to anyone before him so I am a first timer and I feel like he just doesn't want to hurt my feelings. He seems to really like it and I do make him cum every time and he tells me he likes everything I do so I really don't know. I just want to know if it is possible for a guy to like giving rather than recieving. So the question is
Do some guys really like giving oral than recieving?[/CENTER][/SIZE][/COLOR][/FONT]
Sat, 12/01/2007 - 01:50
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Do some guys really like giving oral than recieving?
No, it's because he wants to please you.
By saying that he enjoys giving you oral more than receiving, he's trying to please you.
He probably "enjoys" giving you oral more than receiving it from you because he wants you to be happy. A lot of inexperienced people start out as pleasers.
As your sexual relationship matures, you'll both feel more comfortable just receiving pleasure from each other.
THANK YOU!!! That made me feel better.. I was starting to feel a little insecure about it
[QUOTE=gorgeous_mistake;201005]THANK YOU!!! That made me feel better.. I was starting to feel a little insecure about it[/QUOTE]
I always used to feel as an adolescent that 'the girl was letting me do this or that'. Presumably that ties in with the ideas that girls usually control the accelerator or gas when moving along the highway of sexual pleasure. It neve occurred to me that what I was trying my damndest to do was giving her pleasure as well.
Now I am in my dotage, I can honestly say that I know I will have an orgasm; what I am not sure of is whether I have devoted enough time to the lady. She is the one I am keen to please.
So, I think your guy is golden. Not for him the quick 'Wham bam thank you M'am'. Hang on in there girl!
I give my wife oral every time we have sex. She gets very wet and I like her taste and scent. I go down on her after I cum in her.
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Yes he is golden! This really really makes sense thanks so much!! I feel a lot better!
giving oral is one of my favorite things to do!
Yes, some guys do prefer to give rather than receive.
I love giving oral and recieving, depends on the guy i'd say but most people, gender irrelevant, like to give as much as receive.
I love giving more than recieving. This is mostly because I love the feeling I get when I know I am making her cum (plus I love the taste and smell, and the act itself is a major turn on.).
One other reason is because I love kissing as I am about to cum. and its a little hard to make out with someone if they are going down on you
My boyfriend prefers giving than receiving because he likes to look into my eyes as he comes. Plus he says from down there "I can see a different aspect of your body"
Some guys adore giving just because of a woman's reaction. I can't speak for every woman out there, but it's so intense, and I tend to be more vocal and move more than in regular penetration sex.
Long Live the Tongue
Cunnilingus is an appetizer for me. Orgasmic of course but still an appetizer.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;201196]Cunnilingus is an appetizer for me. Orgasmic of course but still an appetizer.[/QUOTE]
Hi EEK,
I love giving my wife oral. I really enjoy her flavor and scent. I love it when she straddles my face and mouth and masturbates. I will lick and suck her juices when she gushes. I love going down on her after I cum in her. The flavor of our combined fluids is mind blowing. We kiss and cum swap after my mouth is full of our juices, then we cuddle and snuggle and kiss some more and swallow our juices.
as a guy i prefer givin rather than recieving cause i get more of a feelin from it cause the ace and the moaning u get from them its a turn on just having my g/f breathing hard and moanin ecspcially in my ear
I do. Giving pleasure is the ultimate pleasure for me. The sounds and image of a woman having and orgasm is the best thing there is, yessireee.
I agree with all the others. I actually DO prefer giving over receiving. The fact that I'm making her cum is so intesne that I'm basically spent just experiencing her in orgasm from my mouth or hands. ESPECIALLY if she is a squirter, getting her to that point (u know, the hips buckling and going 2 feet off the bed, the legs squeezing your head when u hit the right spot, etc) is just soo much hotter than actually receiving a blowjob. The fmale orgasm is just more fun. It is all about pleasing her. If she's pleased, I'm pleased. I wont say NO to a blowjpb however.