Ok so i am a 13 year old boy and i have been dating my g/f for about a year. A couple of days ago she asked me if i have ever thought about having sex with her, I said i'm not sure. She keeps on asking me what my answer is but i just say i'll get back to you later. I'm not sure what my answer is, so all you guys and girls out there can you tell me what sex is like.
thanks.
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That thread is "am I ready for sex?" from a girl's POV, but I am sure a lot can apply to a guy as well.
Has your g/f ever had sex before? I mean of course you guys are at that age when you become curious about this kind of thing. but no one here can tell you if your are ready or tell you exactly what sex is like.
If you are hesistant...I would conclude that you probably aren't ready...which is ok,, you are still young... you have plenty of time for that sort of thing. Not to mention all the paranoia and stress that comes a long w/ it lol.
If anything, I would suggest maybe if you and your g/f are wanting to maybe move to the next level... do so by fingering/hand jobs.... then if ready.. move onto oral....and if after that... then maybe sex! Don't ever just jump into anything.
There are TONS of threads on here about first time sexual experiences, Oral, and Fingering/Hand jobs. Just read everyone's experiences.. the good and the bad... then when you've educated yourself about it all... then you can make an educated/mature decision.
Good luck!
[QUOTE=zacham;176143] so all you guys and girls out there can you tell me what sex is like.
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That is a tough question to answer. That is like asking someone What does ice cream taste like? If you've never had it, you don't know what you are missing. It is too hard to describe. At 13yrs old, I wouldn't get too worried about experimenting with sex. First and foremost, learn how to treat a girl with respect and how to have fun with them. The sex will come soon enough and frequent enough...so i say just stick with the pistachio flavoured icecream!
well obviously your not ready for that step because you arent sure. you will know when your ready because the time will be right.
have sex with her once, and if u like it do it more, but if u dont like and your not ready, you will atleast have experience for the future
Disregard the poster right before me. First of all, if you really aren't sure about it, your body probably won't respond.
Are you comfortable with oral sex, and other non-intercourse activities? If not, it's generally a good idea to become familiar with your partner's body before you have sex.
Do it when it seems right. You shouldn't have to put too much stress on losing your virginity; it should feel natural, not contrived.