Trimmed as a minimum, but shaved with a small trimmed patch is better. Totally bare is fun and is great for awhile, but I prefer just a little trimmed patch.
[QUOTE=SmilingInside]shaved or trimmed or what? i know they dont like natural but is trimmed ok?[/QUOTE]
Depends on the man, man. Lol.
Some men like their women fully shaved, some like it trimmed up nice and neat, and some don't care. I trim it but it's a bitch to maintain so Daniel better love me for it in the near future ( :P ).
whats the easiest way to deal with the ? i am usually trimmed, but sometimes i like to shave bare, but i find it stubbly that can be uncomfortable for my bf,,,?
[QUOTE=nursefluffykins]whats the easiest way to deal with the ? i am usually trimmed, but sometimes i like to shave bare, but i find it stubbly that can be uncomfortable for my bf,,,?[/QUOTE]
Waxing! It's very painful the first time but after that it doesn't hurt as much.
how do you go about finding a place that does a brazilian wax? i know it'll hurt, but it'd be worth it to be completely hair free for longer than a day. does anyone know how much it costs?
Waxed feels so good... Waxed or removed with chmicals. It's hard to get as good result with shaving.
No hair at all is the best IMO. Trimmed is good too, and if the girl doesn't have that much hair down there, natural is also good. Never seen a girl with a lot of hair, but I very much doubt I'd like that.
Lately the wife hasn't been keeping up on the shaving like she used to. So it is now short and the patch she leaves doesn't get trimmed since she used to do both at the same time. I find I do miss her smooth and bare and a nice trimmed patch. I realise it does take her time to keep it up and she has been real busy, so I won't say anything. But I just hope she finds the time to put in a new razor and pull out the trimmer and take it back off.
[QUOTE=nursefluffykins;147302]whats the easiest way to deal with the ? i am usually trimmed, but sometimes i like to shave bare, but i find it stubbly that can be uncomfortable for my bf,,,?[/QUOTE]
I also shave bald..but i grow fast...so pretty much shave like every other day. You may want to try bikini wax, lasts longer. ;) Just the pain is ridiculous.
[QUOTE=orchid;147875]how do you go about finding a place that does a brazilian wax? i know it'll hurt, but it'd be worth it to be completely hair free for longer than a day. does anyone know how much it costs?[/QUOTE]
I live in South Carolina and had a VERY difficult time finding a place that waxes in the Columbia area. I only found one place and that was after calling up almost every tanning/waxing place in the phonebook. I soon came to a day spa... something I didn't think of right off the bat. Usually you have to call waxing places and directly ask them ... if they don't do it, ask them if they know a place that does. That's how I found the day spa.
It cost me $60 for the brazillian and that's probably because no one else did it. It hurt on the main strip right in line with the clit a lot... brace yourself for that part. The rest is easy in comparison. For instance, there are places where you can get a brazillian for half that price if not less.
I prefer bare, though I'm sort of a recent convert to that, and it's not a major issue. Clean, trimmed or natural are all be okay -- I wouldn't pick someone on that basis, though if I could choose, I'd go with clean.
The advantage of clean is kind of like the advantage of cleanly shaved legs: more smooth, sensuous skin surface available for the eye and touch, and in a highly strategic place to boot.
The reasons I preferred some hair until fairly recently are kind of funny, actually, as I think of them. There are two:
1 - Cleanly shaved women do kind of look like they're 12, until you adjust to the whole idea. Of course, the same might be said of guys with cleanly shaved faces. Once your mind adjusts, it's not so much of an issue.
2 - The Playboy factor. I don't know if I'm the only one who's experienced this one. You have to be over a certain age. In the very first issues of Playboy I ever saw, the women did not -- so far as you could tell from the photos -- have anything at all between their legs. A strategic bit of drapery, a pillow or a crossed leg always hid the whole area. Then, about the time I started getting most interested, the big breakthrough occurred: Playboy started showing pubic hair! I think this created some sense, in me and maybe a generation of others, that the hair itself was something inherently exciting in itself. Kind of weird, but there it is.
On the technical side (realizing that I haven't actually done this, but just know someone who has): laser removal. It costs up front, but it leaves a permanently and perfectly soft and smooth finish.
The rage during the past decade or so is for all feemale teens and older to shave their pussys bald. Personally this is very sexy! Ive been with other girls where we we went to the mall, went into a womens colothing store, where there were several female teens, hovering over a rack of thongs, one of whom says:"Do I need to go bald while wearing these? Will James like it? But If I wear these they are comfortable, and I hope he likes it". I dont understand this thing with thongs, so girls, please explain.
What don't you understand? Why they like them? Why guys like them?
Thongs are sexier than other underwear to a lot of people just because they are scimpier and you see more of their ass...
Most thongs would probably look best if the girl is shaved or trimmed because since the thong is scimpier, then you don't want pubic hair showing on the sides.
Trimmed as a minimum, but shaved with a small trimmed patch is better. Totally bare is fun and is great for awhile, but I prefer just a little trimmed patch.
I maybe telling my age but i will kill for a full bush ! I luv a women with a full mound of pubic hair .
Thank goodness for men like you Patrick, or I would never get any.
Thank you Brandye for your answer ! It made me feel good that a women would say that , thanks patrick .
[QUOTE=SmilingInside]shaved or trimmed or what? i know they dont like natural but is trimmed ok?[/QUOTE]
Depends on the man, man. Lol.
Some men like their women fully shaved, some like it trimmed up nice and neat, and some don't care. I trim it but it's a bitch to maintain so Daniel better love me for it in the near future ( :P ).
It's not really neccessary, but (for me anyway) shaved bare is a big turn on.
I like a little patch of hair above but shaved everywhere else
theres also a ton of other threads identical to this, so if you want more answers, i would check them out.
And i like shaved or trimmed.
whats the easiest way to deal with the ? i am usually trimmed, but sometimes i like to shave bare, but i find it stubbly that can be uncomfortable for my bf,,,?
[QUOTE=nursefluffykins]whats the easiest way to deal with the ? i am usually trimmed, but sometimes i like to shave bare, but i find it stubbly that can be uncomfortable for my bf,,,?[/QUOTE]
Waxing! It's very painful the first time but after that it doesn't hurt as much.
how do you go about finding a place that does a brazilian wax? i know it'll hurt, but it'd be worth it to be completely hair free for longer than a day. does anyone know how much it costs?
Waxed feels so good... Waxed or removed with chmicals. It's hard to get as good result with shaving.
No hair at all is the best IMO. Trimmed is good too, and if the girl doesn't have that much hair down there, natural is also good. Never seen a girl with a lot of hair, but I very much doubt I'd like that.
Hygiene is way more important than trimming.
Lately the wife hasn't been keeping up on the shaving like she used to. So it is now short and the patch she leaves doesn't get trimmed since she used to do both at the same time. I find I do miss her smooth and bare and a nice trimmed patch. I realise it does take her time to keep it up and she has been real busy, so I won't say anything. But I just hope she finds the time to put in a new razor and pull out the trimmer and take it back off.
[QUOTE=nursefluffykins;147302]whats the easiest way to deal with the ? i am usually trimmed, but sometimes i like to shave bare, but i find it stubbly that can be uncomfortable for my bf,,,?[/QUOTE]
I also shave bald..but i grow fast...so pretty much shave like every other day. You may want to try bikini wax, lasts longer. ;) Just the pain is ridiculous.
I would like my gf to go bald just to see what its like but she wont for now.
I prefer shaved or trimmed. Natural is fine but I really like that smooth skin that any liquid can just flow on ;)
[QUOTE=orchid;147875]how do you go about finding a place that does a brazilian wax? i know it'll hurt, but it'd be worth it to be completely hair free for longer than a day. does anyone know how much it costs?[/QUOTE]
I live in South Carolina and had a VERY difficult time finding a place that waxes in the Columbia area. I only found one place and that was after calling up almost every tanning/waxing place in the phonebook. I soon came to a day spa... something I didn't think of right off the bat. Usually you have to call waxing places and directly ask them ... if they don't do it, ask them if they know a place that does. That's how I found the day spa.
It cost me $60 for the brazillian and that's probably because no one else did it. It hurt on the main strip right in line with the clit a lot... brace yourself for that part. The rest is easy in comparison. For instance, there are places where you can get a brazillian for half that price if not less.
Good luck on your search =)
Just another data point:
I prefer bare, though I'm sort of a recent convert to that, and it's not a major issue. Clean, trimmed or natural are all be okay -- I wouldn't pick someone on that basis, though if I could choose, I'd go with clean.
The advantage of clean is kind of like the advantage of cleanly shaved legs: more smooth, sensuous skin surface available for the eye and touch, and in a highly strategic place to boot.
The reasons I preferred some hair until fairly recently are kind of funny, actually, as I think of them. There are two:
1 - Cleanly shaved women do kind of look like they're 12, until you adjust to the whole idea. Of course, the same might be said of guys with cleanly shaved faces. Once your mind adjusts, it's not so much of an issue.
2 - The Playboy factor. I don't know if I'm the only one who's experienced this one. You have to be over a certain age. In the very first issues of Playboy I ever saw, the women did not -- so far as you could tell from the photos -- have anything at all between their legs. A strategic bit of drapery, a pillow or a crossed leg always hid the whole area. Then, about the time I started getting most interested, the big breakthrough occurred: Playboy started showing pubic hair! I think this created some sense, in me and maybe a generation of others, that the hair itself was something inherently exciting in itself. Kind of weird, but there it is.
On the technical side (realizing that I haven't actually done this, but just know someone who has): laser removal. It costs up front, but it leaves a permanently and perfectly soft and smooth finish.
wow, i've never heard of laser removal! ...thanks for the new idea! ^_^
Laser removal? How does that work exactly..
The rage during the past decade or so is for all feemale teens and older to shave their pussys bald. Personally this is very sexy! Ive been with other girls where we we went to the mall, went into a womens colothing store, where there were several female teens, hovering over a rack of thongs, one of whom says:"Do I need to go bald while wearing these? Will James like it? But If I wear these they are comfortable, and I hope he likes it". I dont understand this thing with thongs, so girls, please explain.
What don't you understand? Why they like them? Why guys like them?
Thongs are sexier than other underwear to a lot of people just because they are scimpier and you see more of their ass...
Most thongs would probably look best if the girl is shaved or trimmed because since the thong is scimpier, then you don't want pubic hair showing on the sides.