Lately i've been finding intercourse itself completely unsatisfying.
Foreplay and everything else is fine, great on the contrary. And it has nothing to do with my girlfriend because she turns me on as much as the first time we did anything together.
Tonight we drank two bottles of wine and a couple of vodka + lemonades between us and we started having sex, everything was great, put condom on, did the deed and then nothing, i orgasmed but there was no pleasure there.
I think I'm worrying too much about how long/quick I am but I would have thought that amount of alchohol would have made it irrelevant, evidently not.
I just don't know what to do. We don't need to spice up our sexlife or anything, i just need help to try and stop feeling negative.
Oh and it also may be relevant to note that the last time we had made love was on the 1st January. We're both teenagers (18+19) so we're both still at home before we go university and so oppurtunities for sex are few and far between and a lot of the time she passes them up for whatever reason.( haha hint of resentment there but what can you do) My point being, our sessions are so erratic that I don't have a chance to build up stamina. Oh and this feeling has been coming for a while now, not just this instance.
Heeeeeelp.
Please define "stamina". What are you referring to?
At 18 or 19 you are at your sexual peak.
As for feeling negative, I recommend acting or behaving in the manner you wish to be. If you want to feel positive, act that way.
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Thanks for the effort Doc but I thought about it and I decided that the best course of action was to tell her how I felt and I got some reassuring and I figure, why would she lie?
I just gotta stop worrying, she says she enjoys it so she does and there is no need to worry.
Oh I meant sexual, delaying orgasm/ejaculation stamina.