Okay...so I know someone posted a similar thread about two days ago, but this one is a bit different...Me and my girlfriend were having sex earlier tonight...everything was going great, plenty of foreplay, both over the edge ready, and i was on top....no probleems, then my girlfriend switched places with me, and started with inverted missionary, and then sat up into cowgirl, and thats when it went downhill...it felt as if my penis was being bent to the side, and there was a lot of pressure on it, if felt as if it was trying to become a contortionist. I didnt say anything cuz she looked like she was enjoying it, (just grinding against my hips) and then she stopped and like we went back to me on top missionary. She had a sort of upset look, and when i asked what was wrong, she said she felt too much pressure, and it started with the cowgirl position (when it felt like someone was trying to bend my penis)....
Basically what i would like to know is.....what happened? i thought perhaps the cervix, which would explain why it felt like i was being bent and it was too much pressure. but we have done cowgirl before, and pretty rough at that, and there was no problems.
Does anybody have the slightest idea?
Have her stop sitting straight up and more of a leaning over you type position! Do so so you are close body wise, nearly face to face, and she can kiss you...
You were doing what I told you NOT to do - you were going above her cervix instead of below it. Please take a careful look at your anatomy book - the area on top of the cervix does NOT expand and there is no room for the full length of a man's penis. Depending upon the strength of her tissues you could have gone right through her vagina, penetrating into her abdomen and possibly involving her intestines.
IF IT DOES NOT FEEL RIGHT - STOP
Adjust your positioning by first finding her cervix and carefully making sure that you stay below it. She should also note this and practice making adjustments herself. Remember the posterior fornix? That's where you want to be when fully inside of her.
BTW the repair hurts like hell
ok thanks sera and eek. I thought it had to do with the cervix in some way. Yeah im definitely gonna stop if it doesnt feel right, cuz the last thing i want to do is hurt her...or myself...just read that post on penis sprains :(
Did you knw that you can "break" a penis? What you do, since there is no actual bone, is rupture the veins causing blood to seep out into the penial tissues making it swell. But it also hurts so it isn't as much fun as that might sound. Penises never really heal right either.
Yeah I just figured that people joked until i read that thread....i mean aye yi yi...i used to love when my girlfriend was on top until i read that post this morning....no more me on bottom i gotta be in control lol
Glad to hear the saying is "break a leg" not "break the penis"....sorry could not help myself!!!!:eek: :o
oh my god thats terrible lol
Hate to tell you this Ducy - but your being in control will make your chance of achieving multiple orgasms nill. Give it up guy; just mind the details - you'll be okay.
lol...yeah i guess...but the only way I have ever been able to have multiples is when I go four orgasms non stop...by the time I reach the fourth i reach multiples but i dont think my girlfriend could go that long. :(
Tsk tsk tsk - periodically add lubricant, vary the approach, insert bouts of body worship - and she'll gradually increase her stamina. You may be creating a monster.
"Hate to tell you this Ducy - but your being in control will make your chance of achieving multiple orgasms nill. "
I must be missing something. How does the guy being on the bottom limit his ability for multiple orgasms? Also I'm assuming by multiple orgasms you aren't cumming multiple time right? Thanks.
EEK-good or bad monster?
Langston...being in control means being on top. by a guy on top, he has to thrust, and he cant come multiple times since his body would basically be unable to move.
That depends, Ducy, upon whether you like sexually participative, even aggressive, women. Men find it much easier to have multiple orgasms when they can devote ther attention to themselves hence they have to relinquish control to their partner.