I don't like it...it doesn't feel good at all. Like its not bad per se, but its not as good as other positions, and it doesn't go as deep :(.
Any one know why? I mean I know every woman is different and likes different positions...but generally most women AND men say they love when a girl is riding! Neither of us really like it, he says its good but there is better...for me I'd rather even do oral than be on top, and I've said before how I prefer penetration to oral. I'm not very good at it, hard to get the rhythm but I don't think it would make THAT big of a difference.
I only orgasm through penetration, not clit stimulation, and usually only when he goes really deep and hard. Think this has anything to do with it?
I'd really like some opinions from men and women on this.
My girlfriend seems to really like being on top, that way she's in control and can move as she likes to vary the angle of penetration this way. Have you tried varying leaning forward/backwards and moving side to side? (probably a silly question, so please excuse me! Just a thought, since it can stimulate the G-spot)
Bear in mind that I have less experience than most people here, but my girlfriend got me to read a bunch of her books on sex as research ;)
when i first started having sex girl on top was the least painful position for me, but it really doesn't feel good unless the guy is on top...i also get no pleasure from clitoral stimulation and it only feels good when he deeply penetrates me :confused:
The motion used when atop a man is the same as riding a trotting horse up and forward then down and back. You can also scrub rapidly back and forth without rising at all, or lean way forward and just doing what is essentially moving up and down the shaft of his penis.
But from you have said - you're not into subtlety. If the only way you can orgasm is by deeply penetrated with vigorous pounding away - well that's that, I guess. But tell me, do you have multiple orgasms? One right after another and another and another until you're so sensitive that a breath of wind can make you orgasm?
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;186556] But tell me, do you have multiple orgasms? One right after another and another and another until you're so sensitive that a breath of wind can make you orgasm?[/QUOTE]
I have made myself have multiples a few times myself, but never with someone else, in fact my partner was the first person to make me orgasm (aside from myself). I just started my period when he arrived, and its been super long because its my first period with the IUD, I find it REALLYYYYYYYY hard to finish on my period, dunno why. I've probably only finished every other time, give or take. Yes I realise thats a lot for most girls, but usually he finishes me every time :). No oral on my period, my rule! Hopefully it can happen in another week or so, when I am my most sensitive.
Btw, I have tried moving frontwards/backwards/sideways/rubbing and we even tried it with my back facing him. Another btw, he says it hurts him a bit...dunno if its because I'm tight, or just the angle. Lets just say its not a loss for either of us.
I like to have my wife ontop recently. She has control of what she needs and has been more active in moving in a way that helps her. I just like the added visual of watching her breast move as she is humping me. Then I love to grab her ass and also do some light spanking. This works out great for us. But there are times we start out this way and then she wants me ontop so I can go in her deeper.
Because in truth, when a woman's blood is roaring, her entire body becomes an erogenous zone, she becomes incandescent, and the orgasms are incredibly good as well as never-ending - but from the sounds of it, you all are happy with being satisfied as you have been. Congratulations.
At least both of you know what works and are vocal about it, that's great! From personal experience I can tell you that being a woman on top is not easy and actually takes some practice. The hardest part is keeping a rhythm and I was clueless about it when I first started and didn't want to do it at all. I didn't give up and now it's one of my favorite positions because I can control my pleasure. Hope it works out for you eventually!
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;186922]Because in truth, when a woman's blood is roaring, her entire body becomes an erogenous zone, she becomes incandescent, and the orgasms are incredibly good as well as never-ending - but from the sounds of it, you all are happy with being satisfied as you have been. Congratulations.[/QUOTE]
Last night we tried a new idea. For me to finish, he has to do it hard and fast and deep, but obviously that makes him cum too fast. Sooo...we had bought some flavoured condoms a while back, and decided to try one. He left it on when he went inside me, and because it decreased his sensitivity he was able to do it how I like for much longer, so I came ;). Instead of stopping he just kept thrusting, and it was the best orgasm I ever had...felt like it lasted for 10 minutes. It gets better though, once I had calmed down a bit, he pulled out and took off the condom, then continued. There was a huge difference w/o a condom, I guess because the layer makes the head's lip seem smaller? Anyways, he continued hard and fast so he could come, and I came again because I was so sensitive. I was moaning so loudly he had to kiss me, afraid I would wake my mom :p.
And they say condoms don't have their uses! Guess what? They do.
they REEELI do..