simple things like "i want you" or "shower tonight?" or "know what i'm thinking about?" or "i want to lick your (fill in the blank)" leaves their mind wandering for hours and gets them horny as hell.

also, i don't know where you are in the emotional stages, but romantic messages that have a suggestive hint are also good. "i love you" is a sure turn on for some men (but also a terror fest for others, lol)

My boyfriend and I have silly little things we say to each other that mean "I love you" so sometimes I'll text him one of those.

Good luck. Sorry I couldn't be more help

[QUOTE=Quote (pinkpanther @ Oct. 04 2005,04:24)]hey :0)

my boyfriend and i started with dirty text messsages a few months ago and we love it! I started the idea and used to get him really really turned on by it - he said that he was amazed how much he loved them, but he wasn't very good at writing them himself then which made me really confident about writing them. however! Now he's got really good and i feel that mine aren't up to scratch anymore, basically because i have run out of ideas! also he is asking for them more and more frequently now and i just can't keep up! can anyone pls give me a website where i can find dirty text msgs, or can anyone give me examples of theirs just so that i can have a rest and maybe get a few more ideas!  thankyou very much[/QUOTE]
hey when i send dirty txts to my bf we normally tlk about oral as we havnt had sex yet...although the thought of sending sex txt messages even if we havnt done it seriously turns me on thinkin about it...what is a rlly good idea is to search the net for erotic stories...like fan fics about sexual encounters. u shd pick up some gr8 ideas from them! just make sure u describe ur feelings, wat ur body's doing as he performs on u and what ur doing to him. be as graphic as possible for the best results! ;o)

hope this helped!
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