My man and I talk dirty to each other all the time.  We work together and we spend time on the phone during the day talking sex...what we want to do to each other, going through it play by play.  He might start out describing something he wants us to do and I'll add to it.  Or I'll call him and tell him that I was remembering the last time we were together and how gorgeous his cock is, how good it felt when he touched me, how yummy his cum was, etc.  We also write notes during the day.  (I promise, we do get SOME work done!)  We also do online chat with each other when we're apart.  By the time we actually get together, we're more than ready to live out some of the things we talked about!  He's really opened up a side of me that I thought never existed.  I love it!

Nothing turns me on more than dirty talk. My boyfriend started with this lately and nothing he says offends me, cause I know it's in the heat of the moment. Even now, I can't remember anything he specifically said last time, but when he said it, I exploded.

ok i know that the direction of this so far has been about talking dirty but not so much on what actuley to say. what do you say? i tryed a cupple things that poped into my head the first thing i said was a pritty normal one so i didn't feal original. "do you like my dick in your pussey?" and then i tryed some thing that just turend her off and i can see why after she explaned it to me. i said "ill make you walk like you have been riding all day". this mistake made me not want to say any thing else in fear of messing up. im here looking for some thing to try and get my confadince back. because she has told me she likes it dirty and i want to give that to her for better stimulation. just on the fact that pleasing her will get me off. new question is that weard that inorder for me to get off or have really good sex i have to know that she is sharing the felling?

December?! Oh you brat, you are so lucky! My hubby comes home from Iraq in April... Needless to say, I have some time to plan.

Is he Army, Navy, Air Force, or Marine Corps?

If you want advice... detailed advice, just send me a message. I would be more than happy to help. Good luck doll, and have fun!!!

Kathleen

Loverboy, "Pumps" are another term for womens high heel shoes. The term gets used loosly depending on who you talk to and what part of the world. Many women feel sexier when they wear them as they adjust the female posture where the calves of the legs are "pumped" up for a better leg line when wearing stockings and the legs are exposed. They also lift the ladies bottoms upward which some suggest signals a mating posture.

Look at the photos the link below takes you to and ask yourself if you've see women wearing these type of shoes
very often?
Examples of Womens Pumps
If you have watched "Sex In The City", you will surely notice
the character "Carrie"(the one writing the story) and her obsession with her $400+ a pair Manolo Blahniks. Her sex appeal seems so tied to these shoes.

If anyone would like to delve into the psychology of womens shoes you may find this book used or maybe at your library. Titled "Shoes Never Lie" it is cartoon illustrated and loads of fun. I've noticed shorter girls go for this footwear and the tall girls wear "flats"(almost no heel) and go for the jewelery.
Shoes Never Lie, by Mimi Pond

eDJ

My girl has been in Italy for four months. I just like her to tell me what she likes that I do to her, that is enough for me. I don't need her to be like "F*** ME!" We don't do phone sex or anything, but I do get incredibly horny, and so does she. I am just afraid to get her all horny because I am not there to take care of it, but plenty of other willing men are, since she is a blonde american girl. I hope she doesn't screw around, but anyway, she comes home in a week and it's gonna be crazy. I'm sure when your husband comes home you will jump his balls so fast, you wont even have to worry about breaking out of the "good girl" thing because it'll all be so built up that it'll just happen.

If ya don't have any lingere, some of the fancy hair dressings (ribbons etc), chandilere ear rings, make up, lipstick, perfume and nothing but some throw me down and f*** me pumps on the other end will work for most guys. Garter belts and stockings would be the next move....and remember the stockings with the sandal foot(reinforced toes and heels with the seams up the back) arrangement gives most guys the big rush. I'd suggest the mid thigh length which comes higer up and enhances the leg line. It's what most of the models wear in mens magazines and Porn.

Yes, I'll bet he'll be glad to see ya!

eDJ

Coming home dec 25th? better start planning!!!

Definately go for the lingerie - dont know any men who dont get turned on by that. but, it should turn you on too! shop online, go to the store, whatever. if it makes you wet thinking about it, it will turn him on too!

I personally like garter, stockings and come f*** me pumps (dont forget the shoes!!!) remember you are sassy and slutty!

Talking dirty to a guy is a developed skill for a girl. It can start with learning some phrases and practicing them. Most people have learned their lines from porn novels or Gothics
and experiment with them to arouse their lovers. Those Porn paperbacks are a wealth of dirt an dirty talk. In these novels it seems all the girls are experts at talking dirty to men.

The art of it all is bringing these techniques(phrases) together in a clever manner to a point where it sounds believable. This is the magical part where the techniques merge so tightly together that the art emerges. Practice and learn to breathe feeling and some passion into your delivery of the words and phrases.(making damn sure you don't blow your lines !) This isn't something to take lightly and could be perceived as the insincerity. So ge good and ready before trying it.

I've lerned to do this and cybered in chatrooms to gain practice and experience.(where with anonymous strangers) It does work too, especially if you are creative and done some your homework. You can incorporate them into your sex play(cyber). Most guys won't know where you get it or why you're so hot...but they'll love it. Most, I'd bet, will just sit there and wank till they drop.

If you wish to view a book and its reivews....The Fine Art Of Erotic Talk : How To Entice, Excite, And Enchant Your Lover With Words, by Bonnie Gabriel

Google list many websites which teach it too.

Good luck and best wishes.

eDJ

I think there's another post dealing with this but...you can't have too much dirty talk as far as I'm concerned.  

I think a lot of people who approach talking dirty as this learned entity find it really hard to start doing. As if there's the right things to say and those key phrases that work like a charm. But it's a lot easier than having to 'find' or 'look for' things to say. It could be as simple as talking about his cock, your pussy, how what he is doing to you makes you feel, or just tell him what you want to do to him, or what you want him to do to you. Just slut it up a bit and you'll be golden.  

One of my most recent favorites to use is...
If he's kissing you or biting/licking your neck say: "Put that tongue to good use" implying that you want oral.

Have fun!

just be who you are! if it made you uncomfortable, you would not feel turned on by it! So, you must like it. It is not a matter of being a good girl or bad girl, you are just having fun! But of course, being a bad girl is much better in this case!!!!

With my wife & I we also like to talk and email dirty, but i think there are different kinds...talking dirty just to get hot and talking about real fantasies. I think you should get your husband to describe his fantasies for you and you should tell him yours. When he comes home, surprise him with one of his fantasies.

What do you consider sassy & slutty? What would you do to show your husband sassy & slutty? Will he like it?

PS: Hope he is safe & sound!

i just reacentley heard a new one that my girl said to me and she was telling me how i should cum and how she liked it

can someone please describe "pumps" for me. I've heard the word alot, but I'm still not exactly sure what you are talking about...
Thanks,
Drew