okay, I've never actually started a new thread before, because I havent really had any questions. But, the other night while making love, my boyfriend said, "talk dirty to me," and I was at a loss.
I know this is a topic on the Sexinfo101 website, and I read through it, but I wanted to hear from the guys what a girl could say that would really turn you on, and what she could do while saying it.
I fumbled for what to say to my lover when asked to talk dirty, I could tell he was a little suprised at my lack of creativity. (Im usually pretty good at making sex interesting). All I could come up with was "Spank me," and "You feel so good inside me," which at the time seemd okay, but now seem alittle lacking.
So are there any suggestions? :o
I really think that you cannot rehearse nor memorize "dirtytalk"....dirty talk is something that is hidden subconsciously and while your "doing" the nasty..I mean making love....those deep voices rise to the top and you let go what you really have been hiding...ride me like Seattle Slew...or...ride me like a rented donkey...:D
That really wasn't a bad start with it coming up all of a sudden. Just changing the words a little could increase the intensity. Instead of "you feel so good inside me", it could be spiced up with 'I love the feel of your cock inside me" or I love the way you f**k me. Just describe what you like or want done and use some "dirty" words in the sentence. Instead of saying "I want to give you oral sex", it intensifies with "I want to suck your cock", or "I want you to f**k me with your tongue", or "I want you on my pussy and after that I want your hard cock in my ****". Have fun with it. It may be hard to use these other words, but I think that is what your bf has in mind.
Say "I want to be ****ed like the prostitute with your massive horse genitals, yeh yeh" Thats what a girl said to me once I never am so hornay.
i'm not great at it either. i seem to say the same things over and over. but i LOVE it when he talks dirty to me. he's better at it anyways.
My boyfriend is also better at it than I am. But last night, he asked me again and I think he was really satisfied with my confidence and I think more improved 'dirty talk'. (The tips really helped, coveresid, and thanks to everyone else, too).
He told me he loves to hear me say anything really, It turns him on because I would never say something like that normally. And until recently, I never had. It turns me on when he whispers dirty things he wants/likes to do to me, too. It really helps me to reply back with something dirty.
Talking dirty for the first few times can be difficult but the more you say it the easier it gets.
You could start by saying 'I love the feel of your hard, rigid cock inside me' or 'I'm feeling so wet baby, come & thrust that dick of yours hard into my hot, wet pussy'
Hope that gives you a few ideas, as I said it gets easier & you may find you also get turned on. Or how about sending him a few dirty texts messages
I like the dirty text message idea. I'll have to try that sometime.
Text messages, like email, are off in the netherworld someplace and sitting on a server. Good rule of thumb- if you're OK with anyone and everyone reading it, go ahead and send it.