OMG this has to be our steamiest of nights when we start talking dirty too each other. It is something else to completely get out of the role of wife and mother even if only for a night. But, man do i get turned on! I too eDJ turn to errotic stories or even my hubbies mags to get ideas. It has reignited our love life time and time again. And to know that i still can turn him on is a turn on. I'm always looking for little things or ways that are a little different to say or do to spark the fire....... Wow and the orgasmisms that follow... I also agree eDJ that with a little to drink it helps one not feel so selfconcious or silly about what they do or say and makes it more comfortable, sexy, kinky and dirty and able to explore things that you normally wouldn't

I'm flattered and delighted Tessie I used to practice my hottest talk in Yahoo Adult chatrooms just for fun. Ah cyber,
I love it.

Maybe if we get that erotic stories thread going here...hmmm?

eDJ

Damn eDJ that turned me on!

I like it if its one of those really hot nights, then anything can fly out of my mouth. If I start talking dirty he is sure to follow close behind.

Several years ago when my girlfriend and I were out of town we decided to try something different for our entertainment.  We had our usual daytime thing but wanted to try some adult stuff.  It would be the starting of our learning how to talk diry to each other.

We went to this Adult store with the video booths, magazines, adult toys, etc.  We went in the wee hours of the morning when there was hardly anyone there.  I had several rolls of quarters to place in the video machines and we found some of the booths were for couples.

When we had seen enough she wandered over to the counter where a guy was at the cash register.  She wanted to buy some butt plugs and try anal as we had viewed, yet the guy sort of made her reluctant at first.  I dared her and teased her(I noticed the guy was openly gay earlier) so she finally approached the guy to talk to him.  They were enjoying talking very much so I stayed back to let her have the fun I thought she might have with him.  She had him explaining how he had anal sex with his lover and explaining and recommending lubes etc.  He had provided her with a selection of plugs in various sizes etc.  He was flattered that
she wanted to talk to him about it.(why I stayed my distance)

Before leaving she purused the magazines, but wasn't that enthused.....she had seen mine.  The real jackpot was when she found the "Dirty Paperbacks".  She was an avid reader but had never seen these anything like these.  Just down and dirty starting with the first paragraph and page.

As we drove back to the motel room she was reading from pages of "Boy Hungary Librarian", "Big Bike Girl", "Slash of Lust", Teacher's Pets", and "Hottest lips on the Block".
As she read the hot dirty talk aloud to me while I drove we were both becoming aroused.  I suggested we pull over and find a private place to get it on, but she was having so much fun reading the lines of text she didn't want to stop.  A state of arousal she enjoys lingering in.

When we got to the room and got in bed she nuzzled up to me and said "I wish I could think of things like that to say".
So I told her to read the books and learn the lines so that she could use as a base of things to say. Practice them and be able to say them when the right time comes.

She has since been able to learn to "put on the whore" as she says when she wants to.  She still likes me to engage her with my hottest talk,  If I ply her with some wine or mixed drinks it is easier for her to slip into the sexually aggressive woman role.

So now we make an art form out of it.  Even look for new verbage in the dirty paperback novels to build on from there.
She likes it when I have her naked in nothing but her strap high heels and dangling ear-rings and press her against the wood panneled wall, gripping her breast  in my hands and gently rubbing her nipples against the wall talking  dirty to her and rubbing myself against her back.

These events leave us at each other for about three hours.  It's nice for the rainy days and evenings when we can take the phone off the hook and know we will be alone.

eDJ

"Reignited" that is a stretch I bet.......

Have any of you ever felt silly when talking dirty or when you tried it for the first time? Every time I think about doing it, it just sounds ridiculous in my head lol. The most I can seem to manage is the random naughty text to him. Though maybe thats a good starting place to work up to it from?

Naughty text is good. Very good.

It doesn't have to be nasty or vulgar. Just use the right tone (verbally) and tell him what you have thought of all day. What you want to do to him and what you want him to do to you.
Word to the wise, being from the Metro Detroit area, careful what you write or say using his company voicemail, texting or cell phone. Your company pays for it, don't have them have it come back on you.

What if you own the companies????

[quote=constantlylearning;221577]What if you own the companies????[/quote]I would think it's good material for an employee to use if they wish to blackmail the owner?:eek:

Food for thought there...........

[quote=constantlylearning;221581]Food for thought there...........[/quote] Hope your only thinking and not in trouble! Any good shopping these days?

yeah, good thing my boyfriend only has his own cell phone. Its crazy how much companies can know about their employees if they want to... email and phone tracking, they can even put hidden cameras in on you if they want... beware if you ever get the urge to get frisky in your cubicle!

Ohhhhhhh, why not have a little fun at times. Life is meant to be enjoyed.....
Sera, this thread seems to "hit Home" a little with you (merely an observation
from the cheap seats).......Perhaps, you have experience in this methology....LOL
EEK, is not even fun to tease ...........I was teasing her in another thread and I
actually think she took it literally...........LOL

[quote=constantlylearning;221598]Ohhhhhhh, why not have a little fun at times. Life is meant to be enjoyed.....
Sera, this thread seems to "hit Home" a little with you (merely an observation
from the cheap seats).......Perhaps, you have experience in this methology....LOL
EEK, is not even fun to tease ...........I was teasing her in another thread and I
actually think she took it literally...........LOL[/quote]

I used to send my former fiance a racy text while he was in a boring meeting and he did the same to me--he traveled a great deal.

Additionally, he left for a business trip and I had put a pair of panties in his computer case. Accidentally he took the cables out in a board meeting, the panties flew out since he did not know they were there.

Later when he traded his computer in [on lease] for a new one, he did not know a pair was in the case [I snuck them in] & he was called by the IT department with a group of employees laughing that he "forgot something important in his computer case & the company did not need it".

I used to also send him "product ideas" from a sex toy site; during one presentation in a board meeting he was using Power Point. Well, he forgot to close MS Outlook...it showed/popped up; "Message; my name--please look at the tied down straps on bettersex.com. Well this message pops up, fades out, and everyone viewed it before he could stop it. That was the last time he ever left his email open when in public view! One woman burst out laughing...I did not do that on purpose though!

CL if you own the company the only way I can see it coming back at you is if someone wants to say you harrassed them. I'm sure a supoena can get those texts or vm messages released. If you don't want you mum or dad to hear it don't record it.

Hey CL I can take a good teasing. As long as instead of Kiss my A-- you can handle kiss my lily white one.

Yes, I can handle it................Lily white you say????

yes CL my bum is lily white. being irish and scottish and having the auto immune system disorder I have I have lots of red, but my bum is lily white.

Bum as in hiney????
Well, maybe some sun is in order.........if that is what you enjoy of course.

;):p:D mmm Dirty Talk

do tell Nutty........

Gotta love it!.... a random dirty text just a few minutes ago has now resulted in us spontaneously arranging for me to take a 3 hour drive to go see him first thing in the morning...and we will have all day and all night... yay!
Maybe I'll take the opportunity to actually SAY something dirty to him... :D hehe wish me courage ;) lol

yes bum is another word for hiney.

nude sunbathing? my skin hates the sun, maybe i'll go get it, and the rest of me, spray tanned. but, hee hee hee, having a lily white hiney is fine.

I on other hand like the sun for a variety of reasons..............LOL

Oh I love the sun, it's my skin that doesn't. I burn very easily so I have to be careful. As a kid, before this dermatomyosytis crap, I lived outdoors. Skiing in the winter and swimming in the summer. I was inside as little as possible. And I still admire the view, on a beach, lots of sun screen, under a big hat and a beach umbrella.

Keep the dirty speak down Chik people will start to TALK............

By all means............

Beach umbrella, big sunglasses, checkin out the guys. Things that make you go hmmmmmmmm.

And there should be a ban on speedos. They are so 70's

Speedos.............not cool. The fashion this summer is LONG trunks especially
in the beach bum community (that is not an endearing term). But Bikinis are
ALWAYS IN STYLE.

I miss my pool, the privacy, and skinny dipping.

The ocean is better for that pursuit..............hint of danger coupled with the
salt water.......PRICELESS.