Was hoping for some suggestions on what guys like for their girl to do to them while they are watching porn? Do guys like to be "played with" or do they like to "play with" their partner. Please be as blunt as possible, I am new to the porn thing.
Mon, 02/05/2007 - 21:53
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Dirty Movies
cool, glad to hear it. have you ever had one like that? if so did it turn you on more? should i wait for him to ask me to do it when he is in the mood? not sure how to begin?
i enjoy being played with by my girl aswell as enjoy laying with her, i think most guys like both~ to play and be played with... cos in the end you dont really wana be the only one playing.
My wife and I love to watch group sex DVD'S during sex. We lightly masturbate together as we watch and we fantasize about what they are doing. We usually cum from oral or intercourse, but sometimres we cum from masturbation when I will cum on her boobs and she will rub the cum all over and talk about hot cum. If she starts cumming before I do, I will go down on her and after she cums, we kiss deeply sharing her juices with her. Sometimes she will masturbate with a vibrating dildo-really hot to watch. Sometimes we have intercourse in the spoon position while we watch.
One of our favorite DVD'S is forbidden Lust from Adam and Eve. It is about 2 couples who go to a sex retreat to improve their sex lives. Alexandra Silk is the instructor. There is touching, intercourse, oral, role reversal using a strap on, toys, threesomes, fouresomes and DP. Really well done. Another good DVD is Swinging in the USA from Adam and Eve.
Thanks so much for your info...I will have to try it. I asked him what he wants to do while watching the movie, he said we just do whatever feels natural. Maybe he is too shy to say he wants to be played with? Thank you both for the info. Do either of you think he would enjoy watching the movie while I gave him oral sex?
I'd like to get a blow job while watchig porn. Or suck on his nipples if he likes that while playing with his cock.
Me and my husband regularly watch porn together. We like to perform oral sex on each other while watching it.
He likes to eat my pussy while i describe to him what is happening on the film.
I'll give him a blow job and when he is ready to cum, I lay on my back and just let him unload on me, where ever he wants. This may not be to evryones liking of course, but it makes me feel like one of the women in the film and I enjoy it.
Doing it doggy style in front of the TV is also a good way to watch together.
[QUOTE=couriousgirl;166232]cool, glad to hear it. have you ever had one like that? if so did it turn you on more? should i wait for him to ask me to do it when he is in the mood? not sure how to begin?[/QUOTE]
No ive never had it. My girlfriemd dont like me watching porn.
Dont wait for him to ask you, just start off by rubbing his cock from the outside of his pants, then get into action.
[QUOTE=Sirene;166317]No ive never had it. My girlfriemd dont like me watching porn.
Dont wait for him to ask you, just start off by rubbing his cock from the outside of his pants, then get into action.[/QUOTE]
sorry to hear that! i would figure that a man would love to be able to watch it while having a blow job....maybe she just feels like you would like them more than her? I guess Im pretty confident because they are just on tv and I just want him to be "excited" and take it out on me - if you know what i mean? would you like it if she did?
In a psychological study, men who watched an hour of x-rated porn once a week for several months were reported as having a sufficient drop in attraction towards their partner.
I wouldn't like my fiance to watch porn by himself after reading that. I think that it would be different if you were to do the same study of partners watching porn together.
i hadnt thought of that....thanks for the info. I did read somewhere that I just spiced up a sex life and was just something new and exciting?
Used to watch with my ex before sex. Never lasted too long watching cause I wanted the real thing. Used to piss her off if she caught me looking at the TV while we were doing it though! Guess I can't blame her for that.
Curiousgirl;
Get a movie (raunchier the better), start watching it together but lye between his legs & put your head on his chest...watch it together and follow the movie! It's better having sex together during the movie...I've never heard a man complain about what your doing to him while you both are watching, eventually his eyes go off the movie anyways. Try to keep up w/the positions; my ex and I did that when sex became somewhat routine & boring.
great idea, thanks!
i was thinking that if i could tell when he was turned on i could start touching him and then maybe he would ask me to do something else? has this ever happen to you?
Usually it's fairly easy to tell when my lover's turned on because he either 1) gets an erection 2) starts to be really friendly or 3) starts tearing my clothes off. He's not hard to read.
hmmm, ok if/when he gets an erection should i wait for him to ask or should i just start playing with him with my hands?
I found it opens a new dialogue of what you both want to do to each other. I never had him ask me to do something different. But I found porno to be good in "newer" relationships; it removes boundries. I.e. If you are thinking about anal pick up a mixed movie where there is some in it; see how he reacts; aslo changes your regular bedroom vocabulary, sometimes it's just a good laugh. Sometimes it's easier to get into each other's minds...he'll be pulling your clothes off!
Just get playing...rub him gently and see what he does....
Who needs to be gentle? Some of the best sex I've had was initiated by me just climbing on top of him after a stressful day and getting all my stress worked out.
No need to be gentle...men do care they love it when they are "grabbed" at! I wonder why that is though?
do whatever you feel like doing if he objects then you know hes only intrested in the porn, i love a blow jobe while watching ! usually end up cumming in her mouth which she then swallows !