My husband and i have been together 8 years, married 3. we just had a first son in september.
I have always found our sex life boring.... not bad but boring, until recently.
On Thursday last week. my husband finally opened up, he titty fucked me and I swallowed. it was awesome, i get puddles in my panties just thinking about it.
Now my question is i want to continue this openess he has started but i don't have many ideas . I want to feel dirty, sexy and hot. Please if anyone has any ideas of how to turn the heat up more that would be great.
thanks


Just do whatever comes to mind. What seems dirty or kinky to one person may be extremely mundane to another.
there are lots of thing you can do to help these feeling grow. The first things that comes to mind are role playing, or different oral sex positions.
Dirty:- Sex is not dirty. So you are asking to do something dirty. So you want to add spice to sex.
1. Tie a band on your eyes and call a friend of his or yours. You will not know who is doing what. May be the friend is just watching. Or may be your husband is watching?
2. YOur hubby blinding you and tying your hands back and leaving you outside hotel. Till you reach your room, you have lot of fun asking for room, going into wrong rooms, getting some money instead of correct address etc
3. Swapping your husband.
4. Call a husbands girlfriend/ boy friend and have threesome.
5 Bondage sex
6. Body worship
7. Toys etc
OMG!
Sex is neither boring nor dirty - not if you're doing it right. And sexy is a state of mind - revel in your sexuality and you will be sexy.
Please find and read - and then do - the following articles:
The Four Hotspots, The Program and Body Worship.
for further information please review the site [url=http://www.wickedwomangroup.us]Wicked Woman Group
How do I know this works? Because I've been married to the same man for more than 30 years and we are still ...ahem..."going strong", ty.
Positions? Toys? Lingerie?
Nope!
All you need is an evil gleam in your eye that promises to sexually mop the floor with him - and then DO IT!
I think 2little and her partner were doing normal sex. That too for long long years.
May be whole day job/business. Tired in eveining. Quick fuck and sleep. That makes it boring.
Plan your sex. Flowers, candles, music, aroma, touching and kiddling, talking and slowly get into rhythem.
Try new things. I thing she is calling new thing as dirty. Try anything you have never tried. See xxx together. try some of it.etc
Get a copy of The Joy of sex and read it together. That should keep you busy for the next eight years.
[QUOTE=Brandye;265145]Get a copy of The Joy of sex and read it together. That should keep you busy for the next eight years.[/QUOTE]
Brandye, author?? publisher??
The Joy of Sex is an illustrated sex manual by Alex Comfort, M.B., Ph.D., first published in 1972. An updated edition was released in September, 2008.
Not read it I'm afraid, but if Brandye says it's good, then I think it is worth a whirl!
Long years?? It's only been 8 years for her - jeez! They've barely even begun being married!
Its no good telling them to go do this or that when they haven't gotten the basics down first.
Hanging from the chandelier is all very well and good but really it won't help if she's yawning when he reaches her. Doing complicated macrame' with silk bindings and so forth - face it - she could have had a V-8 by that time.
Instead of that - she needs to open her mind to touching him, caressing him, and thrilling to doing so. They need to investigate and explore each other - how he feels against her skin, how he enjoys her ghosting over his fur, how he smells, how she smells, how he quivers when she lightly licks up his naked spine.
Y'all get my drift here?
Put the kids to bed, turn down the lights and the bed, banish sleep from your mind and start with a eye kiss or a finger caress and go on from there - taking your time with it.
Brandye is a doctor by profession But EEK is PHD doctor in Sex.
Let me start by saying 'Good for you!' Sex is an important part of a healthy relationship. As a previous poster said, what's "dirty/kinky" for somebody else is not for the next. You have to determine what is right for the two of you and that starts with COMMUNICATION and continues with communication. You need to know what your and his boundaries are as exceeding the boundaries can negatively impact your long term relationship. For example, having a threesome would be great if he (and you) are both willing to do that. However, bringing home a strange man for a threesome if he's not into it can be disasterous.
Engage him in a conversation about the titty-fuck experience. Tell him how much you enjoyed it and why. Ask him for his thoughts on that encounter.
If he opens up, you can discuss other things of interest but you probably don't want to do them all by the end of the week. Leave yourself some openings for later fun. I'm sure he'll enjoy the element of surprise!
Good Luck!
im interested to learn more about titty fucking how does one go about it what position is there interested if anyone can help i have mostly been under a rock for years any advice much obliged
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