Hello everyone,
My new boyfriend mentioned that he likes "Digital stimulation". But umm, I'm not sure really what that is. Please, would someone explain this to me? Any suggestions on how to do this? Is it to be done to a man or woman?
Thanks for your help!
Miss Tammy
(yes, I'm new here. hehe)


digital stimulation = porn on the internet?
digital stimulation = a hand job?
Guess that meaning depends upon whether you are "new school" or "old school".
"Digital" or "digit" also refers to the fingers.
Guess you'll have to ask him which school of thought he belongs to.
My first thought was handjob also. Yet I think of it more for a girl b/c digital being fingers = fingering.
For a guy.. it's like the whole hand LOL.
Unless he likes some anal stimulation?!?!
Ah good ol' urban dictionary lol
[QUOTE]1. digital stimulation
a sexual act in which the hand and/or fingers are used, usualy on the lower regions of a male or female.
i really enjoy my partners digital stimulation, especialy on my balls.
[/QUOTE]
To me, dligital stimulation means stimulating the prostate by fingering the anus.
But I say, if you're comfortable enough with him to have sex, you're surely comfortable enough to ask him just what he means!
ahh, ok. Thanks to all of you for taking the time to explain to me. I've asked him before about it and he wasnt too clear. Guess I"ll have to ask again.
Thanks so much!
Tammy
> I've asked him before about it and he wasnt too clear. Guess I"ll have to ask again.
Well, Tammy, good luck with that. If he is still tongue-tied, you can inform him that "digital stimulation" means different things to different folks (you have written proof of this) and that you are not a mind reader. If he wants you to know what this means to him he will have to communicate. He has to learn that communication is key to a successful relationship.
If you are still left wondering then I suppose if you want to take the initiative, you can tell him you will show him what the term mean to you as you understand it--and then proceed to have your way(s) with him. I don't know what else to suggest.