Okay, I'm not proud of this, but it happened, and I guess I only ask that you just consider my question.
So my girlfriend is on vacation, and I hooked up with an ex. Unprotected. I'm pretty certain my ex is clean, and she's on the pill, so I'm not all that concerned. But anyway, what's interesting is, their vaginas feel SO different!
My girlfriend's vagina is rough. ****ing her too long results in soreness. But conversely, the roughness makes a second orgasm comparatively easy for me. I'm pretty sure the roughness is not due to inadequate lubrication, she gets wetter than hell, and in any case I've felt it with my finger and it is rough to the touch too.
My ex's vagina is soft, both while ****ing and to the touch. I could **** her unprotected for hours, but a second orgasm is hard, because it's too smooth.
What's up with the difference between vagina roughness? Is there a way to make ****ing a rough vagina less soreness causing (assuming adequate lubrication)? Is there a way to get more stimulation while ****ing a smooth vagina?
My question for you is what in the H-E-eleven are you doing cheating on your girlfriend, or are you just dating each other casually?
Are you going to do this when you are married to her or someone else?
Thanks for the answer doc!
...hopefully you are planning on telling your girlfriend that you cheated on her.
[quote=Jiffylube854;190211]Thanks for the answer doc![/quote]
I guess you are giving "jiffylube" a new meaning, LOL!;)
You just cheated on your girlfriend and the thing that's on your mind is how different vaginas feel? Not good. You need to get your priorities straight...
As for your question, all vaginas are different. If you don't like the roughness, try wearing a condom. That's about all I could recommend. Though I don't really think it matters at this point seeing as you just screwed up that relationship...
I think you would have gotten more answers if you didn't fully explain why you were wondering. Lol. They are right, you shouldn't be cheating on her, but you do have a question. Everyone's body is different. Idk what would make it not as sore while having sex with your gf if she is already really wet. The only suggestion I can think of is to wear a condom also. As with "the other woman" Try using a condom with ridges. They are mainly for women, but I have been told before by men, that they can also feel the ridges too. So maybe that would help, maybe not. Just thought I'd put a thought out there. Good luck.
Yeah, I guess I mentioned the circumstance because it's on my mind. Like I said, I'm not proud. I haven't cheated before.
Anyway, thanks for the actual replies.
No problem, hope it helps.
Wheeeew! Quite surprised at how judgemental most replies above are!!! A bit disappointed, have to admit frankly...
I am probably going to be lynched for this but anyway---here it is; you are not married to her. If you are in an exclusive relationship w/her, mutually & verbally agreed to, you say nothing about it unless you want the other one. If not exclusive; well, it's the laws of the jungle which prevail.
Sorry, I cannot tell you about the vagina thing during intercourse. But YOU need to use condoms.
Not by me you won't, sera!
Guy, you AREN'T married to her so you AREN'T cheating on her.
Cut it out with the 'hearts and flowers' stuff, people. Stick to the question.
Just as every man feels different from all other men so to does every woman feel different from all other women. Not better. Not worse. Just different.
The additional stimulation provided by the "roughness" would make a second orgasm easier, of course.
As to this relationship - keep your mouth shut.
Because, quite frankly, it is none of her business if you didn't contract anything - testing might be in order since you did NOT use a condom (which was stupid) but other than that - do not confess to anything until you must because of disease.