[SIZE="3"][COLOR="Purple"][FONT="Palatino Linotype"]I have been wondering about the differences between cumming. If there is suppose to be one anyways. When I am with my man and I have an orgasm, they are multiple, small burst one after another. Then at the end I have a large one that just drains me out of all my energy. It feels like I have a million little explosions then at the end one big one.:D I'm wondering why is there a difference between orgasms from when I am with my man and when I masterbate by myself. When I am by myself ( I use toys, b/c it's the only way I can get off) I only have one orgasm and it is so intense that I can not keep going. I have to stop right after I have had an orgasm. The wierd thing about it is that when I get in the middle of the orgasm I have to ease off slowly with my toy (on my clit) b/c it is so intense that it in a way hurts.
So my question is, is there suppose to be a difference between orgasms or why am I having a difference?[/FONT][/COLOR][/SIZE]
Because the stimulation is different. Btw, what you feel as "pain" is a false signal. What happens is the stimulation becomes so intense it overloads the nerve-endings and this the brain interprets as pain. If you breathe deeply and relax at this point without ending the stinulus, you will have more orgasms - massive multiples.
Next: there are three areas that willi nduce orgasms if properly stimulated and you permit yourself to climax: the clitoris, the G-Spot and the Posterior Fornix. Relaxing while being thoroughly aroused and stimulated should help you experiecne all three assuming your man is clever about it.
That being done - there does come a point when you become incandescent and ANYTHING at all will cause an orgasm - a breath of wind on your skin, a kiss on your elbow, anything at all! WOW - that's fun!! Relax and let the feelings run through you!
and people wonder why I LOVE sex so much!
A beauty of being a woman is that we have all sorts of different orgasms that can be equally satisfying although quite different from one another. Keeps things interesting.
The intensity of the orgasm can vary enormously, the kind of stimulation can vary enormously (although most women come with clit stimulation), but the actual physiology of the female orgasm is the same no matter how powerful or how you got there.
Thank you for your responses. I didn't know that there were different types of orgasms. Well not that many different types anyways. I know it has puzzeled him because he will say you acted really different this time, or I could tell that you had one but what else were you doing?. Lol. I just tell him what it felt like. And it's just like a million small bursts inside me, that intense feeling that you get right after the orgasm starts, the WHOLE time. I love it. Lol. The difference between them and the ones I get by myself are huge. I rather though get my orgasms with him though, they're better ;). And there are more.
Just another reason why it's good to be a woman!