i recently gave my girlfriend oral sex for the first time, and while i was doing it i could tell she was enjoying it, but she didn't moan or anything...so i couldn't tell if she had an orgasm or not. is there any way to tell?
Wed, 03/16/2005 - 23:17
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Did she reach it?...
I agree wholeheartedly! ASK HER! And if she says no .. dont get discouraged.. it might open up a dialog and then you can find what she REALLY likes!
Here's a suggestion.. dont just dive in all tongues on fire... feel around with your finger or tongue. Explore a little.. ask her while youre doing it if thats what she wants if she isnt the talkative type. Tell her you want her to cum for you and want to know what she likes.
If she is ok with it.. have her masturbate for you.. thats another way for you to ascertain what part, motion, speed, etc she most responds to. Most guys like this a great deal, so youre killing 2 birds with one stone here!
ask her, and remember- practice makes perfect
Well the most surefire way is to ask her.
Yep, we really cant answer this for you. Communication in a relationship is of extreme importance. A circumstance like this proves that fact. I think you need to be more open and talk to her about these sorts of things. It may be scary at first, but it will improve things in ways you might not imagine.