So I started teasing my boyfriend last night, nothing serious but just letting him get close then telling him no and things like that. He was enjoying it, it made him so horny and it made me feel good that I could get him to feel that way.
There was minimal physical contact other than the cuddles and rubbing against eachother, and we we're both really turned on.
But then when we actually started the intercourse it only lasted for a couple of minutes :( he came, but I didn't get anywhere close :o. But with him comming so quickly after teasing, did that mean that I did the job right? Just being inquisitive :)
The only mistake you may have made was not bringing him up for a second round!
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That's when you slap him (not too hard) across the face, call him a bad boy, and make him eat you out!
Ha! Ha! what for cumming too quickly? I didn't mind because it gave me a feeling of satisfaction that he was so turned on that he couldn't hold back anymore, but I just didn't know if cumming so quickly was generally what happens after a tease :S
Uhhh, YEAH! That is kinda the point, Gems! Wind him up and let him fly! Remember this talent for teasing later when he's gotten some years on him.
he!he! thanks EEK, I thought it was meant to work like that, but he seemed bummed he came so quickly so I didn't know if it was meant to happen that way, it confused me basically
He was probably bummed because
A. He didnt last as long as usual, so he figured he wasnt able to satisfy you. (Thats when you look at him with a devilish grin and say something sexy and get him wound up again)
B. He couldnt enjoy it all anymore since he came and...well you know the rest.
That can be one of the problem with teasing a guy for too long, it makes him far too ready to go. The longest teases and the lengthiest waits do tend to make the orgasm all the more satisfying.
Of course by doing this you run the risk of cheating yourself out of being shown a good time. You shouldn't NEED to do this, if fact, it's best for the guy to spend great effort getting the girl warmed up.