i recently had sex with a guy that was a couple years older than me. i have had sex before, but just twice and we had used condoms. anyway, the guy i had sex with did not wear a condom. he was only in me for about 30 seconds to a minute then he went soft and pulled out. he told me that he was just really nervous and he was sorry that he went soft. when i sat up i felt a lot of warm stuff gush out and i asked if he had cum, but he said he didn't. i am really worried that i might get pregnant, and i was wondering if i am just being stupid or is there some way to know if he did cum in me???:confused:
Thu, 12/28/2006 - 00:01
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did he cum or am i crazy?
I guess it's all speculation on our part...we weren't there...but sounds to me like he penetrated and prematurely ejaculated..the warm gush being the mixture of his semen and your juices(depending on how aroused you were at the time)...normally after a little bit of time..there is a distinct smell from the mixture of the two lovers juices( i like the smell)...so that might be one way of telling if he came...REGARDLESS.....the two of you didn't use contraception so I guess...LET THE CHIPS fall...you wanna play...you gotta PAY...and since you said "recently"...I'm guessing not last night...so perhaps the morning after pill is out of the question...so PROFESSIONAL help should be sought out...:cool:
well said Luvs2plzU. Also Alexis, you might want to pick out some kid's names.
Taste it - well, too late for that - so get a pregnancy test from the pharmacy. BTW what were you thinking - having sex without a condom?!?!!?
Listen - if he doesn't have..he doesn't get..PERIOD.
But sometimes guys do get nervous and go soft without having an orgasm - it may have just been your juices.
thanks so much for the info... just curious- what smell or taste should i look for?
Uhhhhh until they perfect these computer screens with the "scratch and sniff" option, I'm not sure I can properly describe the smell...:p ....and it does have a different smell with different partners...;) .....but you would definitely notice a different aroma for sure!