Me and hub have used orajel a few times and it does work quite well. At first it tastes a bit strong but a bit of water helps, and u get used to it. Both of us find it totally f'g hot when I can take it full length and hold it gently teasing it with my throat muscles and tongue. We get off from each other's reaction!
is a matter of comfortability and practice. If you like going down on guys, you'll be good at it, as oppose to someone who is doing it just as a chore.
They say practicing on ice cream pops and such work, but I've always found that practicing on the real thing is so much better. You'll get the added bonus of knowing when you're doing something correctly with sighs and moans. That's a powerfully positive tool.
Oh, and any guy who gives you a hard time about it, is immature. Any
real man knows that the more relaxed their girl is, the better and more comfortable it will be for her, thus making it so much more enjoyable for
him.
I don't think it has a huge bearing but I'm sure it matters to some degree that I'm bigger than average but I have only found one woman in my life who could deepthroat and since then I have always found myself desiring it again. Some have tried but failed and it hasn't had an ill effect on our relationship as I don't weigh it that heavily(that would be weird). I can only say that once I had been deepthroated I found mself thinking about being deepthroated again. By itself it can be special but combine it with one hell of a handjob and bj and that's magic. I suppose if everyone could do it I might not think it was so special, yeah I would, it's amazing.
I can't wait to do this part of oral sex, I think it's a very trust worthy part of sex, it looks a little uncomfortable at first though. I'm sure it's that way for all women.
getting off subject....sorry, I love to deep throat......1 problem though, my nose always starts running. Why? So here I am trying to breath while giving head......any suggestions?
After many years of practice;) i have finally mastered the art of d/t
don't know exactly what im doing differently but but i think it has something t o do with the angle of your head... i find if hubby lies on his back and i get beside him i can get it all in and then proceed to lick his scrotum whilst rubbing his underneath .... the look on his face whilst i do this is worth more then all the riches in the world
I have never had deep throat. It may be it may not. I would like to know rather than read or hear about it. I had one girlfriend back in college who said she could do it, but never did it on me. Still she did fit more of me in her mouth than anyone before or since and having more than 2/3 of my length in here was incredible feeling and looking!
Well, I just practiced on mt ex (he was current at the time) his penis also curved upwards when hard, so I had to kinda get in the 69 position, to get him all the way down, or sideways in his lap-even though I wasn't always receiving. Sometimes its position and the key is to just relax. Good luck!
Deep Throating is only a visual thing not a stimulating thing so you only really need to do it a couple of times anyway purely for theatrical purposes.
My fiance and I have been together for over 1 1/2 years and since we have been together deep throating is what he likes, but I also have problems because when we do that he likes to hold my head down and it makes me back off and not want to do it. Any suggestions?
[quote=bearyquiet;205863]My fiance and I have been together for over 1 1/2 years and since we have been together deep throating is what he likes, but I also have problems because when we do that he likes to hold my head down and it makes me back off and not want to do it. Any suggestions?[/quote]Yes, tell him.
Yes Tell him not to do it. my past had given me a phobia of being touched when I was performing oral sex , because of the holding of the head forcefully...
[QUOTE=bearyquiet;205863]My fiance and I have been together for over 1 1/2 years and since we have been together deep throating is what he likes, but I also have problems because when we do that he likes to hold my head down and it makes me back off and not want to do it. Any suggestions?[/QUOTE]
my prob exactly. I've told him but occasionly he'll forget and do it again. Since I know this is something he enjoys i want to be able to do but i just can't get my reflexs to relax. Help PLZ i want to make it as enjoyable as i can for both of us?
Why is it so hard to just DO THE RIGHT THING? Be nice to people PERIOD.
If someone is special enough to spend time with then why not show them
the respect they deserve.
[quote=constantlylearning;206348]Why is it so hard to just DO THE RIGHT THING? Be nice to people PERIOD.
If someone is special enough to spend time with then why not show them
the respect they deserve.[/quote]Seems to be the question of the Century which you pose? Why is it so hard to just do the right thing and be nice? When you find the answer, please let me know!
My current guy definitely gets off on hearing me choke and gag on his dick. I think lots of guys are into that. He likes to force me down on his cock too, but he knows I get off on that - obviously not for everyone.
I'm terrible at deepthroating - seriously, awful - but he just likes to watch me try.
[QUOTE=TJ;91256]I can't seem to stop gagging. I am able to go *down 2 or 3 times without gagging but no more. I want to be able to go down and stay there to suck. Any suggestions???[/QUOTE]
The trick to not gagging is to breathe through your nose when it hits the back of your throat. My boyfriend has a tendency to jam it in my mouth when he's really turned on but breathing thru my nose really helps.
[QUOTE=bearyquiet;205863]My fiance and I have been together for over 1 1/2 years and since we have been together deep throating is what he likes, but I also have problems because when we do that he likes to hold my head down and it makes me back off and not want to do it. Any suggestions?[/QUOTE]
You could try what my bf does, tell him not the back of the head but the shoulder, then your still in control and he's telling you what he wants you to do.
My girlfriend doesn't want to go down on me anymore because she thinks shes not good at it. Truth is that she is great, and I don't know where she got this idea from. How can I help her feel more confident?
[quote=CleverName;217282]My girlfriend doesn't want to go down on me anymore because she thinks shes not good at it. Truth is that she is great, and I don't know where she got this idea from. How can I help her feel more confident?[/quote]
Confidence is built through providing feedback as to what you like and to demonstrate you are enjoying all she is doing...how to change her thoughts? Encourage her and let her know how much you enjoy fellatio verbally and with physical signals. If she is not receptive, discuss it out of the bedroom!
You don't need to practice, just try to deep throat him in a position where his penis will easily slide down your throat, and take a deep breath before hand
Hmm.. I've been in plenty of positions where it has gone down easily..doesn't mean it hasn't still made me gag.. on a positive note though, it definitely has been getting easier the more I try it..and judging by the naughty little text he just sent me earlier tonight mentioning the "oral magic" I performed last time, I must be doing something right :D lol I can't wait to pleasure him again..and I used to HATE giving oral! oh if only he wasn't so far away :(
i found that lots of practice helped, being aroused by the gag itself, and when i gaged i didnt back off like your normal reaction is. i let myself gag with his dick in place so when my throat relaxed it relaxed more open. if that is confusing let me know ill try to explain better.
My guy likes me to give him head while I am on my kness and he is standing facing me. I love to do it but find that i can't deep throat him. Any advice?
Try it with you sitting on a sofa or chair, or putting several pillows under your knees, anything that puts you higher up than when you are just on your knees, so that you will be able to come at him from more of a downward angle. I find that its easier to take more of him in that way than when trying to come from straight on. The angle is more comfortable as far as the gag reflex goes, and it goes down easier. Your head might block his view a bit more when doing it this way, but I think its a fair trade.
I Found My Bf Reali Likes It When I Deepthroat But I Tend Not To Like It As Much As I Seem To Gag After Doing It Just Once, He Finds It Funny And Keeps Doing It, How Do I Relax My Thrat Muscles?? Anyone Got Any Sugeestions?? :confused:
I love to deep throat my BF and almost always I seem to master it without a gag. He normally HAS to tell me beforehand that it's going to be deepthroat session. I find that although his cock is huge (about 8"), I can swallow him by doing the following: I let my head lay backwards and downwards over the edge of the bed and he than can straddle me from the top. He controls the penetration and I control the breathing. It is very deep as his balls normally come to rest between my nose and upperlip. When he ejaculates, he first gives me a mouthful to swallow before intensely thrusting to get the last drop down my throat. It's a sensation that can't be described, only felt.
all i can say is to suck a bannana or a hot dog or some kind of food that is shaped like a penis and practice as much as possible and after a while you will be able to go deep and stay deep it worked for me and my sister and my best friend and it works well
[COLOR="Sienna">I think its all about practice. relaxation and knowing your [size] limitations. I have also found men love oral when its extra wet [lots of saliva].[/COLOR]
My gf has gotten good at this by practice, little by little and lots of saliva mixed with precum. Finally, she is able to dt me in the 69 position and even tongues the base while doing it.
Never ceases to make me cum and she does love the taste.
We always repeat but finish the second time inside her.
[QUOTE=Brandye;91258]You say you want to take him down your throat and then suck. Well, the part of the penis that is sensitive to the sucking is the head. If it is down your throat, the sucking is irrelevant because the head will be stimulated rubbing in your throat. I have heard of "Hum jobs" but have never deepthroated myself so do not know much about that.
It seems to me that the added dimension of sucking and using your tongue (neither of which you can do with your vagina) should be pretty great alternatives.
I know people still want to do the deep throat thing. I have never gotten around to learning.[/QUOTE]
It took me ages to master the deepthroat, with many bad experiences, but here's what I did:
I got my bf to lie on the bed, and I gave him oral from the side, kneeling at the side of the bed, if that makes sense. He's really long, and quite wide, so if I tried simply facing him, it was just too wide for me to deepthroat. But from the side it was so much easier, it just went right in!
Also, if you wanna practise on inanimate objects, I suggest trying to find something bigger than he is, so if you kinda even half-master that, it'll be much easier during the real thing! But nothing beats practising on the real thing, and I'm sure he wouldn't mind either ;) All I have to say is "I wanna practise that thing..again" and he's undressed ;)
you control the pace when giving head. if he forces you down where he pushes you down with his hand, stop and tell him not to or else no head. simple as that.
it may be harsh, but he can't give head to himself. (normal men can't give head to themselves)
I don't know about you girls, but I rock at deep throating, I learned from a great website I found a few months ago... just typed "how to give head" into Google and then it was the first result that came out
Me and hub have used orajel a few times and it does work quite well. At first it tastes a bit strong but a bit of water helps, and u get used to it. Both of us find it totally f'g hot when I can take it full length and hold it gently teasing it with my throat muscles and tongue. We get off from each other's reaction!
is a matter of comfortability and practice. If you like going down on guys, you'll be good at it, as oppose to someone who is doing it just as a chore.
They say practicing on ice cream pops and such work, but I've always found that practicing on the real thing is so much better. You'll get the added bonus of knowing when you're doing something correctly with sighs and moans. That's a powerfully positive tool.
Oh, and any guy who gives you a hard time about it, is immature. Any
real man knows that the more relaxed their girl is, the better and more comfortable it will be for her, thus making it so much more enjoyable for
him.
I don't think it has a huge bearing but I'm sure it matters to some degree that I'm bigger than average but I have only found one woman in my life who could deepthroat and since then I have always found myself desiring it again. Some have tried but failed and it hasn't had an ill effect on our relationship as I don't weigh it that heavily(that would be weird). I can only say that once I had been deepthroated I found mself thinking about being deepthroated again. By itself it can be special but combine it with one hell of a handjob and bj and that's magic. I suppose if everyone could do it I might not think it was so special, yeah I would, it's amazing.
I can't wait to do this part of oral sex, I think it's a very trust worthy part of sex, it looks a little uncomfortable at first though. I'm sure it's that way for all women.
You have to learn how to breathe with something in your mouth.
Now, I've never given a man head, but I can tell you that you should learn how to raise your soft pallet and breathe through your noise.
getting off subject....sorry, I love to deep throat......1 problem though, my nose always starts running. Why? So here I am trying to breath while giving head......any suggestions?
Practice (on him) makes perfect!
After many years of practice;) i have finally mastered the art of d/t
don't know exactly what im doing differently but but i think it has something t o do with the angle of your head... i find if hubby lies on his back and i get beside him i can get it all in and then proceed to lick his scrotum whilst rubbing his underneath .... the look on his face whilst i do this is worth more then all the riches in the world
I have never had deep throat. It may be it may not. I would like to know rather than read or hear about it. I had one girlfriend back in college who said she could do it, but never did it on me. Still she did fit more of me in her mouth than anyone before or since and having more than 2/3 of my length in here was incredible feeling and looking!
Well, I just practiced on mt ex (he was current at the time) his penis also curved upwards when hard, so I had to kinda get in the 69 position, to get him all the way down, or sideways in his lap-even though I wasn't always receiving. Sometimes its position and the key is to just relax. Good luck!
**BookMark**
I cant wait to read this whole thread....I want to deep throat my husband so ****ing bad...but I keep gagging...
I can't wait to do this part of sex
Deep Throating is only a visual thing not a stimulating thing so you only really need to do it a couple of times anyway purely for theatrical purposes.
Deep Throating is only a visual thing not a stimulating thing ???????
I don't own a penis, but I do think your statement is probably 100% wrong.
Nutty, you can buy one I bet...........
[QUOTE=constantlylearning;205581]Nutty, you can buy one I bet...........[/QUOTE]
ehheheh ummm well i own a few :p
also my husband has one :eek:lol which he says is mine. but
I dont have one permanantly attatched heehheheheheh
You are set then..........LOL
[QUOTE=constantlylearning;205599]You are set then..........LOL[/QUOTE]
mmm I sure am;)
Yes, you are indeed........
[QUOTE=constantlylearning;205634]Yes, you are indeed........[/QUOTE]
indeedy I am well and truely set :cool:
My fiance and I have been together for over 1 1/2 years and since we have been together deep throating is what he likes, but I also have problems because when we do that he likes to hold my head down and it makes me back off and not want to do it. Any suggestions?
[quote=bearyquiet;205863]My fiance and I have been together for over 1 1/2 years and since we have been together deep throating is what he likes, but I also have problems because when we do that he likes to hold my head down and it makes me back off and not want to do it. Any suggestions?[/quote]Yes, tell him.
Yes Tell him not to do it. my past had given me a phobia of being touched when I was performing oral sex , because of the holding of the head forcefully...
I am over it now so all is good:D
[QUOTE=bearyquiet;205863]My fiance and I have been together for over 1 1/2 years and since we have been together deep throating is what he likes, but I also have problems because when we do that he likes to hold my head down and it makes me back off and not want to do it. Any suggestions?[/QUOTE]
my prob exactly. I've told him but occasionly he'll forget and do it again. Since I know this is something he enjoys i want to be able to do but i just can't get my reflexs to relax. Help PLZ i want to make it as enjoyable as i can for both of us?
Why is it so hard to just DO THE RIGHT THING? Be nice to people PERIOD.
If someone is special enough to spend time with then why not show them
the respect they deserve.
[quote=constantlylearning;206348]Why is it so hard to just DO THE RIGHT THING? Be nice to people PERIOD.
If someone is special enough to spend time with then why not show them
the respect they deserve.[/quote]Seems to be the question of the Century which you pose? Why is it so hard to just do the right thing and be nice? When you find the answer, please let me know!
My current guy definitely gets off on hearing me choke and gag on his dick. I think lots of guys are into that. He likes to force me down on his cock too, but he knows I get off on that - obviously not for everyone.
I'm terrible at deepthroating - seriously, awful - but he just likes to watch me try.
[QUOTE=TJ;91256]I can't seem to stop gagging. I am able to go *down 2 or 3 times without gagging but no more. I want to be able to go down and stay there to suck. Any suggestions???[/QUOTE]
The trick to not gagging is to breathe through your nose when it hits the back of your throat. My boyfriend has a tendency to jam it in my mouth when he's really turned on but breathing thru my nose really helps.
Here's some information from a pro on how to throat **** - much of that will probably help with deep throating as well.
http://tinyurl.com/3fyarw
EDIT: Well, why in the hell do you censor the word "****" on a sex forum? lol
I replaced the link with the shortcut because the original has the "F" word in it. lol Ridiculous.
[QUOTE=bearyquiet;205863]My fiance and I have been together for over 1 1/2 years and since we have been together deep throating is what he likes, but I also have problems because when we do that he likes to hold my head down and it makes me back off and not want to do it. Any suggestions?[/QUOTE]
You could try what my bf does, tell him not the back of the head but the shoulder, then your still in control and he's telling you what he wants you to do.
My girlfriend doesn't want to go down on me anymore because she thinks shes not good at it. Truth is that she is great, and I don't know where she got this idea from. How can I help her feel more confident?
[quote=CleverName;217282]My girlfriend doesn't want to go down on me anymore because she thinks shes not good at it. Truth is that she is great, and I don't know where she got this idea from. How can I help her feel more confident?[/quote]
Confidence is built through providing feedback as to what you like and to demonstrate you are enjoying all she is doing...how to change her thoughts? Encourage her and let her know how much you enjoy fellatio verbally and with physical signals. If she is not receptive, discuss it out of the bedroom!
You don't need to practice, just try to deep throat him in a position where his penis will easily slide down your throat, and take a deep breath before hand
Hmm.. I've been in plenty of positions where it has gone down easily..doesn't mean it hasn't still made me gag.. on a positive note though, it definitely has been getting easier the more I try it..and judging by the naughty little text he just sent me earlier tonight mentioning the "oral magic" I performed last time, I must be doing something right :D lol I can't wait to pleasure him again..and I used to HATE giving oral! oh if only he wasn't so far away :(
i found that lots of practice helped, being aroused by the gag itself, and when i gaged i didnt back off like your normal reaction is. i let myself gag with his dick in place so when my throat relaxed it relaxed more open. if that is confusing let me know ill try to explain better.
My guy likes me to give him head while I am on my kness and he is standing facing me. I love to do it but find that i can't deep throat him. Any advice?
Try it with you sitting on a sofa or chair, or putting several pillows under your knees, anything that puts you higher up than when you are just on your knees, so that you will be able to come at him from more of a downward angle. I find that its easier to take more of him in that way than when trying to come from straight on. The angle is more comfortable as far as the gag reflex goes, and it goes down easier. Your head might block his view a bit more when doing it this way, but I think its a fair trade.
I Found My Bf Reali Likes It When I Deepthroat But I Tend Not To Like It As Much As I Seem To Gag After Doing It Just Once, He Finds It Funny And Keeps Doing It, How Do I Relax My Thrat Muscles?? Anyone Got Any Sugeestions?? :confused:
I love to deep throat my BF and almost always I seem to master it without a gag. He normally HAS to tell me beforehand that it's going to be deepthroat session. I find that although his cock is huge (about 8"), I can swallow him by doing the following: I let my head lay backwards and downwards over the edge of the bed and he than can straddle me from the top. He controls the penetration and I control the breathing. It is very deep as his balls normally come to rest between my nose and upperlip. When he ejaculates, he first gives me a mouthful to swallow before intensely thrusting to get the last drop down my throat. It's a sensation that can't be described, only felt.
Daaaaaam i seriously need 1 of u women in my life lol .
all i can say is to suck a bannana or a hot dog or some kind of food that is shaped like a penis and practice as much as possible and after a while you will be able to go deep and stay deep it worked for me and my sister and my best friend and it works well
[COLOR="Sienna">I think its all about practice. relaxation and knowing your [size] limitations. I have also found men love oral when its extra wet [lots of saliva].[/COLOR]
My gf has gotten good at this by practice, little by little and lots of saliva mixed with precum. Finally, she is able to dt me in the 69 position and even tongues the base while doing it.
Never ceases to make me cum and she does love the taste.
We always repeat but finish the second time inside her.
[QUOTE=Brandye;91258]You say you want to take him down your throat and then suck. Well, the part of the penis that is sensitive to the sucking is the head. If it is down your throat, the sucking is irrelevant because the head will be stimulated rubbing in your throat. I have heard of "Hum jobs" but have never deepthroated myself so do not know much about that.
It seems to me that the added dimension of sucking and using your tongue (neither of which you can do with your vagina) should be pretty great alternatives.
I know people still want to do the deep throat thing. I have never gotten around to learning.[/QUOTE]
haha, good advice Sarduchi
Watch some porn. Many girls now a days easily deepthroat, they seem to have the technique down.
try the banana thing, practice with it. i had used it for practice too and now every time i make it to my guy it always turn him on a high level
It took me ages to master the deepthroat, with many bad experiences, but here's what I did:
I got my bf to lie on the bed, and I gave him oral from the side, kneeling at the side of the bed, if that makes sense. He's really long, and quite wide, so if I tried simply facing him, it was just too wide for me to deepthroat. But from the side it was so much easier, it just went right in!
Also, if you wanna practise on inanimate objects, I suggest trying to find something bigger than he is, so if you kinda even half-master that, it'll be much easier during the real thing! But nothing beats practising on the real thing, and I'm sure he wouldn't mind either ;) All I have to say is "I wanna practise that thing..again" and he's undressed ;)
you control the pace when giving head. if he forces you down where he pushes you down with his hand, stop and tell him not to or else no head. simple as that.
it may be harsh, but he can't give head to himself. (normal men can't give head to themselves)
I don't know about you girls, but I rock at deep throating, I learned from a great website I found a few months ago... just typed "how to give head" into Google and then it was the first result that came out
besides practice with the real thing and not a toy this is a VERY affective way to control that gag reflex....
[url=http://www.ehow.com/how_2098053_control-gag-reflex.html]How to Control Your Gag Reflex | eHow.com
it works!
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