If you are afraid that he might push your head down all the way (by having his hand on the back of your head), that's why you put your hand around his penis-it sort of acts like a brake so that doesn't happen. Especially if he is big. And you work your hand.
I learned this from a man who was 10" (swear to God---we measured) many years ago before I got married. What an experience! My husband is not quite so big so I don't have any issues taking him all in-which he loves.
Deep-throating just takes time and practice. Go a little bit further each time. Learn how to open up your throat (as if you are singing). It works on those muscles in the back.
I've been forced to DT in the past & it hurts like hell -- guys, don't you dare ever do that to anyone :mad: My BF now has only tried once & I was terrified :( I know he wants me to try it ... I want him to feel good ... hopefully with a little slow practice & patience we'll get there :o
I give my boyfriend deep throat, well i try as best i can, i havnt quite mastered it yet, but im about 1/2 an inch or so away, so im doing pretty good. plus my boyfriend is no small boy :D usually around 7 71/2 when i get him going hardcore tho .... i dont even know its just so ****ing hot when hes really horny i cant deep throat him, befor sex i can tho :o just to proove men get realy horny during sex, but if you read the first few pages saying just relax, it comes with time and practice its true. lil by lil and soon you will be able, its a team work, <3 between you and your partener, so if hes an ass like the person above just wrote about **** him he doesnt deserve anything. no girl should have to do something they dont wanna.. i know..................
having a man who loves you and will work with you for eachothers pleasure is great <3 just rememer, relax and keep practicing :cool: *CHE3CH IS GANGSTER*
I still have problems with gagging but only occassionally. The trick really is to relax and to not think about it so much. Mostly I just concentrate fully on not gagging, and that seems to work for a while.
PLEASE TYPE IN STANDARD GRAMATICAL ENGLISH -- FOR SOME PEOPLE HERE, ENGLISH IS NOT THEIR 1st LANGUAGE SO THE "short hand" DOES NOT MAKE ANY SENSE!:mad:
Thought I'd share my recent "proud moment" :rolleyes:
I've tried deep throating & always gag ... a few weeks ago we tried again -- this time with chocolat syrup & I was laying on my back with my head hanging off the edge of the massage table with him standing ... worked out MUCH better :D :D :D
Here's where having a short penis is a serious advantage. At 3 1/2 (no kidding) my partners have had NO trouble taking all of me in. No worries about gagging either! LOL! Having her take all of you in her mouth is AMAZING - so if your bf is long keep practicing - he will appreciate your efforts.
[QUOTE=Maribelle]Thought I'd share my recent "proud moment" :rolleyes:
I've tried deep throating & always gag ... a few weeks ago we tried again -- this time with chocolat syrup & I was laying on my back with my head hanging off the edge of the massage table with him standing ... worked out MUCH better [/QUOTE]
Thats a good trick. I actually tried it for the first time last night. It worked amazing. But, with him so far down, it was impossible to breathe, and I had to stop and tell him he cant be down there forever, or my face would be blue...:o But, we both enjoyed it.
[QUOTE=reiahart;152972]Question, what makes deep throating so thrilling for guys?
Also, I see the whole 'laying on the bed with your head hanging off' seems to work... I'll have to try that one soon....[/QUOTE]
The head of the penis is the most sensitive part of it. When it is in the back of your throat, it is stimulated like you wouldn't believe, and when combined with someone who knows how to use his/her tongue, it can be a very powerful combination. There is a psychological component to it as well - the visual of having your cock all the way in someone's mouth I suspect is quite arousing. lol
Lol, I suppose it would be. I've only tried deepthroating once and it wasn't a pleasant experience on my part lol. I could only handle it maybe 3 strokes before feeling like my meal was going to give way. =\
It still does interest me though... While deepthroating, how is it that you can even attempt to move anything inside your mouth? I guess it comes with experience, but for me, a novice at deepthroating {lol}, It's almost an impossible attempt.
you know what makes you gag is your tounge not the penis. If you relax your tounge and your jaw you should be fine and I have tried many many different ways and the only thing that works is relaxing the tounge and the jaw. Also you have the ability to control where his penis goes in so when you take it to the back of the throat make sure it is angled down instead of up. Try a few different ways you'll get it but also make sure you tell him to be gentle cuz ramming his penis down the throat like he can to a vagina will do some serious harm believe me Like I said have tried many times. Also you don't have to deep throat the whole time take it out and play with it on your tounge and stuff and catch him off guard once in a while. It goes for a surprise.
[QUOTE=reiahart;152987]Lol, I suppose it would be. I've only tried deepthroating once and it wasn't a pleasant experience on my part lol. I could only handle it maybe 3 strokes before feeling like my meal was going to give way. =\
It still does interest me though... While deepthroating, how is it that you can even attempt to move anything inside your mouth? I guess it comes with experience, but for me, a novice at deepthroating {lol}, It's almost an impossible attempt.[/QUOTE]
It just takes come practice. It took me about 3 weeks of practicing just about every night to learn how to relax my throat enough to allow a penis to penetrate the back of it.
I wrote about the technique I used to learn - I don't know if I'm allowed to post links to other sites or not, but if not, someone can delete or edit this:
[QUOTE=Caitlain;153006]It just takes come practice. It took me about 3 weeks of practicing just about every night to learn how to relax my throat enough to allow a penis to penetrate the back of it.
I wrote about the technique I used to learn - I don't know if I'm allowed to post links to other sites or not, but if not, someone can delete or edit this:
Thanks for that site! WOW, lot's of useful tips there....
Guess I'll start practicing ^_^!! I do have one question though. I won't mind my guy cumming in my mouth, so, me {being a COMPLETE novice...}, needs to know if when the guy cums while his dick is in your throat, will it feel so different that it will spark my gag reflex right up again?
Never had cum that far down in my throat before... so I'm not sure what it would feel like. And I doubt a banana, hotdog or dildo is going to cum into my throat anytime soon, so I'll only get the true experience when I complete this lol.
It's all in learning to relax the throat. Do it slowly to get the hang of it.I find it hard to realx my throat when he is in control...you be the one in control and it will work alot better.
Go to a sex shop or online and buy "deep throat gel" like from adameve.com it numbs your throat and relaxes the muscles...works great, they have it in mint and cinnamon
I really like to give oral to my boyfriend, but my jaw tends to go numb or locks up, is there a way to get past that, or is it just continous practice? I want to give him the best oral pleasure possible, but it hurts after a while.
(Sorry if this has already been a thread ~ I didnt get to read all of the postings.)
Try and keep your facial muscles relaxed as possible. Also, feel free to switch to your hand for a bit if your jaw gets tired; most guys probably won't mind.
My husband and I have been together over 26 years and what I like is the 69 position. Have him on top, then slower take him a little at a time until I have it all. It is quite a turn on for me and him. No gaging just shear pleasure:)
I have some great advice... I read that if the throat is relaxed and you can use cough drops to numb it, you can deep throat. Also try putting the penis in you mouth when it is starting to get hard ( the guy loves it).
My ex actually spoke of this to date...... he still wants this "deep throat" i know i certainly can't do this without "gagging" and as much as i would love to please my "new lover" by doing so.... i'm still stuck,
He however lives in a "suitcase" and most of "our time" is spent on the phone.... the phone sex is f**king amzing and i guess it's compliments to our distance.
Mind you, he makes me come three times, and i only once him. He says as long as I am "happy".. so i need help........
How do i f**king blow my lovers mind by having phone sex with him and making him cum as much as me????????
Deep thorating is a great thing.. in fact gagging is a turn on to my hubby..
I have learned positoning is huge when doing a good deep throat. Having control is key, and relaxing... finding a way to relax alows you to do incredible things to pleasure your mate..
I personally don't prefer hanging off the bed for deep throating, it's hard to have control over speed.. Being on top, and lying flat and being relaxed seems to be the best for us..
good luck.. It's a great turn on to hear how much pleasure he receives
[COLOR="Teal">i dont like my girlfriend deep throating me because it makes me feel small downstairs for some reason and i aint that small im 6.5 inches. I dont want to say out to her because i think she enjoys it[/COLOR]
[QUOTE=orgasmo316;179442][COLOR="Teal">i dont like my girlfriend deep throating me because it makes me feel small downstairs for some reason and i aint that small im 6.5 inches. I dont want to say out to her because i think she enjoys it[/COLOR][/QUOTE]
maybe she enjoys it because she thinks she gives pleasure for you? I know that's why I like it. The ONLY reason why.
I'd say, talk to her. Neither of you should be doing anything you don't like in bed. Communication helps to have even better sex, so why not talk about it?
[QUOTE=golfdiva;179087]I personally don't prefer hanging off the bed for deep throating, it's hard to have control over speed.. Being on top, and lying flat and being relaxed seems to be the best for us..[/QUOTE]
You do have to have a *lot* of trust in our partner to do it with your head hanging over the edge of the bed.
Honestly. I havent really tried it all that much. i am having the same problem as the person that started this convo. I dont like doing it because i feel like if i gag he will be like umm wow. thats weird.
but if i dont do it he will be like your a pussy..
:cool:
[QUOTE=cutepatootie;180696]Honestly. I havent really tried it all that much. i am having the same problem as the person that started this convo. I dont like doing it because i feel like if i gag he will be like umm wow. thats weird.
but if i dont do it he will be like your a pussy..
:cool:[/QUOTE]
[COLOR="Teal">if he loved you, he would understand.[/COLOR]
If you are afraid that he might push your head down all the way (by having his hand on the back of your head), that's why you put your hand around his penis-it sort of acts like a brake so that doesn't happen. Especially if he is big. And you work your hand.
I learned this from a man who was 10" (swear to God---we measured) many years ago before I got married. What an experience! My husband is not quite so big so I don't have any issues taking him all in-which he loves.
Deep-throating just takes time and practice. Go a little bit further each time. Learn how to open up your throat (as if you are singing). It works on those muscles in the back.
Don't worry I learned it myself too.
Try some guides at Deep Throat . It took some time for me. About 6 months. But can deepthroat my boyfriend now fully (hes about 9 inches).
Have fun!:)
I've been forced to DT in the past & it hurts like hell -- guys, don't you dare ever do that to anyone :mad: My BF now has only tried once & I was terrified :( I know he wants me to try it ... I want him to feel good ... hopefully with a little slow practice & patience we'll get there :o
I give my boyfriend deep throat, well i try as best i can, i havnt quite mastered it yet, but im about 1/2 an inch or so away, so im doing pretty good. plus my boyfriend is no small boy :D usually around 7 71/2 when i get him going hardcore tho .... i dont even know its just so ****ing hot when hes really horny i cant deep throat him, befor sex i can tho :o just to proove men get realy horny during sex, but if you read the first few pages saying just relax, it comes with time and practice its true. lil by lil and soon you will be able, its a team work, <3 between you and your partener, so if hes an ass like the person above just wrote about **** him he doesnt deserve anything. no girl should have to do something they dont wanna.. i know..................
having a man who loves you and will work with you for eachothers pleasure is great <3 just rememer, relax and keep practicing :cool: *CHE3CH IS GANGSTER*
I still have problems with gagging but only occassionally. The trick really is to relax and to not think about it so much. Mostly I just concentrate fully on not gagging, and that seems to work for a while.
[iz all normal trust m3 but juz try to think bout sumthin 3ls3.
PLEASE TYPE IN STANDARD GRAMATICAL ENGLISH -- FOR SOME PEOPLE HERE, ENGLISH IS NOT THEIR 1st LANGUAGE SO THE "short hand" DOES NOT MAKE ANY SENSE!:mad:
Thought I'd share my recent "proud moment" :rolleyes:
I've tried deep throating & always gag ... a few weeks ago we tried again -- this time with chocolat syrup & I was laying on my back with my head hanging off the edge of the massage table with him standing ... worked out MUCH better :D :D :D
Here's where having a short penis is a serious advantage. At 3 1/2 (no kidding) my partners have had NO trouble taking all of me in. No worries about gagging either! LOL! Having her take all of you in her mouth is AMAZING - so if your bf is long keep practicing - he will appreciate your efforts.
[QUOTE=Maribelle]Thought I'd share my recent "proud moment" :rolleyes:
I've tried deep throating & always gag ... a few weeks ago we tried again -- this time with chocolat syrup & I was laying on my back with my head hanging off the edge of the massage table with him standing ... worked out MUCH better [/QUOTE]
Thats a good trick. I actually tried it for the first time last night. It worked amazing. But, with him so far down, it was impossible to breathe, and I had to stop and tell him he cant be down there forever, or my face would be blue...:o But, we both enjoyed it.
practice makes perfect
i'm still on the practising with a banana stage ;)
my throat doesn't seem to want to play...is it worth it???
I think it is. It can be amazing for him, and you too, and definately worth the look of total satisfaction on his face once finished.
And with practice, you'll get better, dont worry about it too much.
A male masturbation sleeve?
Yeah... I don't really want it to go into my sinuses... I guess I'll push the lying-down version later on, lol.
Thanks a lot for everything!
Question, what makes deep throating so thrilling for guys?
Also, I see the whole 'laying on the bed with your head hanging off' seems to work... I'll have to try that one soon....
[QUOTE=reiahart;152972]Question, what makes deep throating so thrilling for guys?
Also, I see the whole 'laying on the bed with your head hanging off' seems to work... I'll have to try that one soon....[/QUOTE]
The head of the penis is the most sensitive part of it. When it is in the back of your throat, it is stimulated like you wouldn't believe, and when combined with someone who knows how to use his/her tongue, it can be a very powerful combination. There is a psychological component to it as well - the visual of having your cock all the way in someone's mouth I suspect is quite arousing. lol
Lol, I suppose it would be. I've only tried deepthroating once and it wasn't a pleasant experience on my part lol. I could only handle it maybe 3 strokes before feeling like my meal was going to give way. =\
It still does interest me though... While deepthroating, how is it that you can even attempt to move anything inside your mouth? I guess it comes with experience, but for me, a novice at deepthroating {lol}, It's almost an impossible attempt.
you know what makes you gag is your tounge not the penis. If you relax your tounge and your jaw you should be fine and I have tried many many different ways and the only thing that works is relaxing the tounge and the jaw. Also you have the ability to control where his penis goes in so when you take it to the back of the throat make sure it is angled down instead of up. Try a few different ways you'll get it but also make sure you tell him to be gentle cuz ramming his penis down the throat like he can to a vagina will do some serious harm believe me Like I said have tried many times. Also you don't have to deep throat the whole time take it out and play with it on your tounge and stuff and catch him off guard once in a while. It goes for a surprise.
[QUOTE=reiahart;152987]Lol, I suppose it would be. I've only tried deepthroating once and it wasn't a pleasant experience on my part lol. I could only handle it maybe 3 strokes before feeling like my meal was going to give way. =\
It still does interest me though... While deepthroating, how is it that you can even attempt to move anything inside your mouth? I guess it comes with experience, but for me, a novice at deepthroating {lol}, It's almost an impossible attempt.[/QUOTE]
It just takes come practice. It took me about 3 weeks of practicing just about every night to learn how to relax my throat enough to allow a penis to penetrate the back of it.
I wrote about the technique I used to learn - I don't know if I'm allowed to post links to other sites or not, but if not, someone can delete or edit this:
http://www.caitlainscorner.com/13/sex/sex_fellatio4.html
[QUOTE=Caitlain;153006]It just takes come practice. It took me about 3 weeks of practicing just about every night to learn how to relax my throat enough to allow a penis to penetrate the back of it.
I wrote about the technique I used to learn - I don't know if I'm allowed to post links to other sites or not, but if not, someone can delete or edit this:
http://www.caitlainscorner.com/13/sex/sex_fellatio4.html[/QUOTE]
Thanks for that site! WOW, lot's of useful tips there....
Guess I'll start practicing ^_^!! I do have one question though. I won't mind my guy cumming in my mouth, so, me {being a COMPLETE novice...}, needs to know if when the guy cums while his dick is in your throat, will it feel so different that it will spark my gag reflex right up again?
Never had cum that far down in my throat before... so I'm not sure what it would feel like. And I doubt a banana, hotdog or dildo is going to cum into my throat anytime soon, so I'll only get the true experience when I complete this lol.
It's all in learning to relax the throat. Do it slowly to get the hang of it.I find it hard to realx my throat when he is in control...you be the one in control and it will work alot better.
Has anyone tried those *good head* gels you put at the back of your throat, on the gag reflex, to make it easier for doing deep throat?
You gag when your not relax, stop worring about gaggin and you wont, just take it slow and relax!
Go to a sex shop or online and buy "deep throat gel" like from adameve.com it numbs your throat and relaxes the muscles...works great, they have it in mint and cinnamon
I really like to give oral to my boyfriend, but my jaw tends to go numb or locks up, is there a way to get past that, or is it just continous practice? I want to give him the best oral pleasure possible, but it hurts after a while.
(Sorry if this has already been a thread ~ I didnt get to read all of the postings.)
Massage your jaw muscles so they release; thus, it will decrease the pain.
Try and keep your facial muscles relaxed as possible. Also, feel free to switch to your hand for a bit if your jaw gets tired; most guys probably won't mind.
[QUOTE=kittenesque;91252]Forget the banana - Practice on him.
Start slow and work from there. Why waste your efforts on a lousy banana when you can watch him enjoying every inch of your 'practice?!'
Besides, he will show his appreciation more than the banana anyway.[/QUOTE]
LOL thats good advice:)
My husband and I have been together over 26 years and what I like is the 69 position. Have him on top, then slower take him a little at a time until I have it all. It is quite a turn on for me and him. No gaging just shear pleasure:)
I have some great advice... I read that if the throat is relaxed and you can use cough drops to numb it, you can deep throat. Also try putting the penis in you mouth when it is starting to get hard ( the guy loves it).
What happens if you throw up on him????
If you think it's going to come to that, then you might not want to try until you get some more practice...
I don't know. If a girl threw up on me, I think that would pretty much kill the vibe for me.
I also heard baby teething gel numbs the throat to allow easier access. Anyone ever done this?
My ex actually spoke of this to date...... he still wants this "deep throat" i know i certainly can't do this without "gagging" and as much as i would love to please my "new lover" by doing so.... i'm still stuck,
He however lives in a "suitcase" and most of "our time" is spent on the phone.... the phone sex is f**king amzing and i guess it's compliments to our distance.
Mind you, he makes me come three times, and i only once him. He says as long as I am "happy".. so i need help........
How do i f**king blow my lovers mind by having phone sex with him and making him cum as much as me????????
Mind you, he's fu**ing good at what he does.....
Any pointers????????
Only one thing i have to say as a guy,it's that i love it because of the feeling to penetrate deep inside,to be united with your partner.
Girls try it and you 'll see!!!!!!!!!
SEX UNITES US!!!!!!!.....
[QUOTE=darkducky;174357]What happens if you throw up on him????[/QUOTE]
Tht shouldn't happen. Even if you start gagging, you should be able to stop before you start throwing up.
i wouldnt say it doesnt happen. because it does.
Deep thorating is a great thing.. in fact gagging is a turn on to my hubby..
I have learned positoning is huge when doing a good deep throat. Having control is key, and relaxing... finding a way to relax alows you to do incredible things to pleasure your mate..
I personally don't prefer hanging off the bed for deep throating, it's hard to have control over speed.. Being on top, and lying flat and being relaxed seems to be the best for us..
good luck.. It's a great turn on to hear how much pleasure he receives
Looking up.. ie head up, mouth catching rain.
Is the best way to learn how to deep throat.. once in a comfortable position, learning how to take each bit at a time can be as fun for you as him.
you know, I'm a man, and deep throating just seems too dangerous for them... If I loose control, then what? :eek:
[COLOR="Teal">i dont like my girlfriend deep throating me because it makes me feel small downstairs for some reason and i aint that small im 6.5 inches. I dont want to say out to her because i think she enjoys it[/COLOR]
I don't like it - maybe it's just me, but I feel like my head gets pushed up against the back of her throat and it's slightly uncomfortable.
[QUOTE=orgasmo316;179442][COLOR="Teal">i dont like my girlfriend deep throating me because it makes me feel small downstairs for some reason and i aint that small im 6.5 inches. I dont want to say out to her because i think she enjoys it[/COLOR][/QUOTE]
maybe she enjoys it because she thinks she gives pleasure for you? I know that's why I like it. The ONLY reason why.
I'd say, talk to her. Neither of you should be doing anything you don't like in bed. Communication helps to have even better sex, so why not talk about it?
[QUOTE=golfdiva;179087]I personally don't prefer hanging off the bed for deep throating, it's hard to have control over speed.. Being on top, and lying flat and being relaxed seems to be the best for us..[/QUOTE]
You do have to have a *lot* of trust in our partner to do it with your head hanging over the edge of the bed.
i only got one problem and it aint gaging... its breathing O_o... i vertualy have no gag reflex, my breathing however becomes non existant :(
Honestly. I havent really tried it all that much. i am having the same problem as the person that started this convo. I dont like doing it because i feel like if i gag he will be like umm wow. thats weird.
but if i dont do it he will be like your a pussy..
:cool:
Don't sweat it too much, cutepatootie, most guys like a little gag or two. Psst... makes them feel bigger.
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[QUOTE=cutepatootie;180696]Honestly. I havent really tried it all that much. i am having the same problem as the person that started this convo. I dont like doing it because i feel like if i gag he will be like umm wow. thats weird.
but if i dont do it he will be like your a pussy..
:cool:[/QUOTE]
[COLOR="Teal">if he loved you, he would understand.[/COLOR]
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