[QUOTE=Wakemeupwhenrealityends;183582]Please someone help me! I don't know what to do!

Ok so my boyfriend and I have had sex many times but I've never had an orgasm. I get achieve orgasms through oral sex or masterbation but never from sex. Now my boyfriend is getting concerned because he doesn't know what's wrong, he's never had this problem before he tells me.
I know that some women just can't orgasm from sexual intercourse but I wonder if there is anything I can do. I know of being relaxed in the right emotional state, and trying different positions. I just don't what else to do please help me. :([/QUOTE]

How the heck are we supposed to KNOW?? We've "NEVER" heard of such a situation!! You might need a different boyfriend! It's quite obvious using scientific data, that you have had orgasms on your own,but with this specific boyfriend it isn't happening..theoretically speaking using combinations and probabilities,knowing full well the CONSTANTS, it appears the "wild card" here is your current boyfriend. You may full well have to try a different partner "just" for scientific evaluation to see if you get different scientific results? Once you do this, you will then know from where the problem may lie.

This is just so much hot air filling cyberspace. Of what real help is this.

[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;183591]This is just so much hot air filling cyberspace. Of what real help is this.[/QUOTE]
It's a nefarious post DancinDoc...my bad..I'll be the bad boy(read:keeping it light)...you as always will provide the MOST educational and informational response...we totally respect your responses! Sorry Chief!! we may have to have a meeting under the "cone of silence"..out:)

> I've never had an orgasm. I achieve orgasms through oral sex or masterbation but never from sex. Now my boyfriend is getting concerned because he doesn't know what's wrong, he's never had this problem before he tells me.

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its forums.

Here is a partial quote from an earlier posting, today:

"Please read some of the other Sticky posts. You will learn if you do not already know that very few sexual positions place her body and your body in close constant contact that is required to generate sufficient friction to build and then trigger an orgasm. That said, what a considerate, compassionate, caring, lover will do is reach around and finger her while stroking.

You can give her what she wants--IF:
1. She has learned to masturbate and can climax regularly and consistently on her own
2. You finger her before, during, and/or after intercourse (or anytime really)
3. The two of you use one of the sexual positions that does lend itself to generating enough friction for her when she rubs her pieces-parts against you
4. She is relaxed and in a receptive frame of mind and not bothered by problems or outside distractions
5. You learn with her guidence how to mimic the movements, rhythms, and pressures she uses when home alone"

> I know that some women just can't orgasm from sexual intercourse but I wonder if there is anything I can do.

It is not that some women can't orgasm from intercourse; rather, that some cannot, period. Read this.

That you can means that you work together in partnership and show him how you do it by guiding his fingers several times until he learns the specific technique unique to you.

As a new member of our community, I encourage you to read through some of the posts, do an advanced search using key words, and, glean knowledge from the many Sticky posts. Here is one place to begin your quest for enlightenment.

One Stop Shopping--BEGIN HERE--w/a Partial INDEX of Sex Info 101 Sex Ed. Topics

And why is this feedback to the Board?