Hi there! I'm hoping you might be able to offer me some ideas here...
I'm 5'5", and my new partner is 6'3" or so. The height difference and difference in our body types is so drastic that it's basically impossible (so far, at least) for us to go any extended period of time or to great effect in a position other than girl on top or reverse cowgirl (although these are excellent, but my legs do eventually get sore after marathon sessions! :p). In particular, I'm a big fan of doggy, but it can't be done standing (again, he's just too tall) or even kneeling (same) without my laying chest down on the bed... and even then it's tough.
So, in a nutshell: Can anyone suggest very effective positions for a short lady and her tall guy?
Thanks! :cool:
If your bed isn't too fashionably low try kneeling on the edge of that while he stands on the floor. If that's still a few inches too low you could always get a 2nd mattress to put under the one you have already.
If the bed is just too low... how about the sofa.... a chair.... anything reasonably comfortable that'll get your knees (and therefore more relevant areas) fixed higher than your lower legs can raise them. Unless you're very unlucky.... SOMETHING around the home will work for ya. If you have to resort to a table or workbench.... remember to get cushions/pillows to kneel on.
Depending on the height of the things you find... some might be useful for you going on your back too. Guy standing/gal horizontal, while not a million miles removed from missionary is still different and has the bonus of the guy's hands being free.
You should look into erotic furniture (at least I think that's what it's called) It seems like that may help you...if not..try fashioning pillows to give you some height...
My wife is 5'2" and I'm 6' - proportions are therefore in same range. But difference in height has "never" been an issue, let a lone a "problem", in 15+ yrs of happily frolicking away together! Spooning, her on top, even 69 work well and come naturally. Not really sure what problems can be.
Try the "X" or "Y" position(s) in which the two of you lie on your sides facing each other. The difference between the two is in the placement of the legs.
BTW, these are excellent positions during advanced pregnancy.
Have you tried you on your stomach and him behind you kinda like doggy style but you are lying down it's easy and you really don't need to worry about height in that situation. and maybe... if he's so tall lol don't think this to.. funny but maybe you should sit on like a counter or drier or something like that. it might work who knows.. ;) good luck oh btw you don't always have to be the one doing the work while on top. you can usually just hold yourself up a little while the guy just basically humps you. works for me and i'm certain others do it too. but yeah i think that's all i've got. hope it helped a bit!
[QUOTE=amby6996;155816]Have you tried you on your stomach and him behind you kinda like doggy style but you are lying down it's easy and you really don't need to worry about height in that situation. and maybe... if he's so tall lol don't think this to.. funny but maybe you should sit on like a counter or drier or something like that. it might work who knows.. ;) good luck oh btw you don't always have to be the one doing the work while on top. you can usually just hold yourself up a little while the guy just basically humps you. works for me and i'm certain others do it too. but yeah i think that's all i've got. hope it helped a bit![/QUOTE]
Believe it or not, that from behind (even on the knees) doesn't work unless I'm somehow elevated. (Yep - the height difference actually affects it... lol)
We've figured out a few others... One I actually really like is him sitting on the edge of the bed, and me half standing /sitting back on him (facing away). Good control from there... :cool:
- MM