Hey guys... new here, and I have a quick question. :-)
I'm a virgin (and a girl...just for the record) and I used to get horny/wet really easily. Watching sex in a movie, even slightly racy books, it would just happen.
I horseback ride alot, and about 6 months ago I started jumping consistantly - occasionally falling on my crotch after a jump. It's never bled - but occasionally I was kindof sore.
Now, however, I don't get wet at all, and I don't feel any sort of stimulation if I touch myself. I don't get how women can "masturbate" - I haven't tried alot but "feeling around" is about as stimulating as touching my knee.
Is it possible to deaded any sensitivity?
I'm ready to have sex but I'm just worried that I won't be wet and the whole situation will be really difficult.
Sun, 07/10/2005 - 06:51
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De-stimulated?
maybe theres an underlying issue to this.
Like the fact its swore so you may assocaite this with pain, making it harder to get yourself stimulated.(I know spelling, terrible right?).
Or maybe have done some damage :S I dont know how the female body works lol
You do not know how a female body works at nineteen. You shall be living in one for another eighty years or so. Time to start reading and the women's health forum is a good place to begin.
You certainly have been active in your first day on the Board; perhaps cool it and see what you can learn.
[QUOTE=Brandye;269584]You do not know how a female body works at nineteen. You shall be living in one for another eighty years or so. Time to start reading and the women's health forum is a good place to begin.
You certainly have been active in your first day on the Board; perhaps cool it and see what you can learn.[/QUOTE]
why join a forum and not be active?
I know some but not much, mainly differences in women. I plan on staying with my one and only heh.
Thanks for the advise though its much appreciated :D
Why answer threads that you don't know the answer to? I'm not saying that you shouldn't answer unless 100% sure but when you have 20 posts in less that a week then you should learn to take a step back. Brandye never said be inactive. She said cool it. You answer every post even if its just to say something as simple as "so and so said it best"
Okay - step back for a bit. You've just started jumping and you not too often land incorrectly because you're not using your legs as shock absorbers because you're more concerned about hanging on (grip) then you are about your 'seat' when back on all four legs.
You haven't done any permanent damage to your clitoris, etc.
Your problem is based upon your fear that you might have.
You haven't so you may stop being afraid.