Im dating a non-virgin and im really conscious of that.
I know it might sound weird and we have been dating for a while but it kinda bothers me.
It bothers me bc i know her and her ex used to do it all the time.
Am i crazy or is it normal? is it supposed to bother me that much?
At some point in life, around the age of 20, it can be assumed (accurately or not) that a partner is not a virgin. Beyond that, it is none of your business.
What is the big deal?
Again, please read through the Index and read the following article:
HELP! S/He is more EXPERIENCED! To which I say:
Stop with this veneration of the virgin nonsense! In no other area of human life do we reward IGNORANCE. Frankly, you should be ashamed of yourself for even thinking about her and her ex - it is none of your business. Consider if she were to put your past life and associations under a microscope - how would you feel about that?
If you're enjoying her company - let that be enough.