Flirting..... please any advice on how to go about it

[EvilEvilKitten]

Because HOW to FLIRT is something most children learn by the time they're 4 when we call it CUTE. Then we tell them to stop it and that it is 'leading them on' and its bad. So all anyone has to do is to remember what they did back then - perhaps watch a 4 year-old to refresh your memory - and then do that again.

I've been able to observe small female children in action and I can tell you they lay it on with a trowel! It makes me laugh and it makes the object of their flirting smile. Spreading joy is all flirting is and if you can also be irrepressible - so much the better!

[Aphrodite_66]

Yes you are right DD2,but I do appreciate the replies given.EEk you asked what can I do to make myself difficult to resist.Well that's why I want to know how to flirt because it has never come naturally to me.I am not used to doing the chasing,men have always pursued me and I never had a problem getting a date if I wanted one.But I do find it hard to chase the one thing that I want ,which is a woman to share things with that I can't do with my man.Someone who will become my best friend and lover,who I can laugh with,cry with and confide in.I can do all these things with my partner of course,but I don't see him all that often and want that soft sensual touch of a woman's hand when I need it.

People I meet do say that they like how natural and down to earth I am,and that I am accepting and understanding as well.But I think that part of my problem is that I can be a little too accepting and understanding sometimes.I am also very open and honest,and always upfront about what I want.I do tell women I meet that I have a male partner,but a few get put off by that as they think that it automatically means that I want a 3some,but I make it clear that's an optional extra only if they are fine with it,and it doesn't have to occur straight away.He has been very understanding and supportive of me and lets me go out alone which a lot of other male partners don't like.It would be nice if he could be involved in some way,but I like to leave that up to the other woman to decide,but so far it hasn't happened yet.