Guy Gamer and Fun

[tobes1231]

Hi

I will remain anonymous for now, but I may become more open when I figure this place out. :P

I'm basically a bit of a geek. But I love having fun I go out loads and hang out with friends. But for some reason the girls I meet hate me when they see I have consoles and a mac. Hmm Do girls really hate this kind of thing?

I love girls with converse or Dr Martens cause I wear them myself nd they look so cute on a girl. I always always always let her know I'm thinking of her if I'm away or tell her I love her randomly in the day. Cause I really do miss girls I love and am dating.

When it comes to sex, not to sound big headed but I do get my fair share of sex and I've been told that I'm good, and oral I'm amazing. But even this don't seem to keep em. Lol. I must be a special case.

No one wants me! lol

Hope someone can shed light...

Toby xx

[g-dubz]

I think you're just dating the wrong girls. As a fellow gamer myself, it can be frustrating at times to find decent women who aren't turned off by gaming but keep at it. Someone will come along eventually.

[big916]

The girls that you describe are certainly out there, I have a bunch I them on my fb friends list. They are all really cute too(think jess from the show new girl). I like games but I wouldn't consider myself a gamer. I think there just needs to be a balance with your time. You seem like you can manage that so just be on the hunt for your kind of girl. They're out there man.

[EvilEvilKitten]

You can find girls but you can't keep them - is that it?

The answer is obvious - make the girls believe that they are more important to you than gaming. No girl wants to think she's "second" to a game. How would like it if the situation were reversed? "I'd love to have sex with you "gamer" but there's this new game I've just GOT to play." Or go out or hang out with friends whatever - but if you pay more attention to what's on the screen than what's living and breathing right beside you - then you end up with nothing more than that screen and a series of one-night stands and three week relationships.

Every now and again, I'll play a game or two - - small ones - like Flow. But as compared to life in all of its grandeur -give me life!

[g-dubz]

I think the real problem is the fact that the very moment that girls even see his game consoles, they just up and leave despite the fact that according to the OP, that he is a decent lover.

Again, I think the solution is that you should be pursuing women (not girls lol) who are more interested in gaming or who are open to it at least.

[tobes1231]

Thanks people. I mean I have never ever been on my Xbox in the first stages of my relationships cause I understand how important it is to make sure the girl knows I'm serious about her and the relationship. But as time progresses and the relationship strengthens I feel should be ok to be in the same room but not constantly attached, I'm sure its good to feel relaxed between each other. I won't give up. This site is actually very insightful, I might open up a little more now.

Tobes xx

[EvilEvilKitten]

Sorry, gamer, but you should begin the relationshiop as you mean to go on with the relationship. Why? Because the relationship itself will modulate over time - so you two have to remain constant if the relationship is to endure.