Want to figure out how a website works?

[kievan]

Just over a month or so I joined an online website apparently well popular with younger girls
They show themselves in full splendor and no inhibitions( bear breast,anal poses, licking and doing bj) yet when I message them in appropiate manner I get nothing just a stone silence. Indeed quite a few msg me back asking for more info on my profile which I have plenty to tell and I do show it on my profile yet they still insist asking (I believe stupid questions) like "Why you are here?" I though that was obvious so again I write back and again stone silence I get frustrated unlike other sites where I get follow up and responses,

I thought WTF?
Clearly I am at loss here or am I missing something that the ladies here may help get clues and clarify this issue I have?
Apparently I have a good number of girls that like me and I am also in their fav category
Again these girls have no or do not show a long profile of substance so I can get more info on them just plain sexual overtones

Thank you

[Brandye]

I believe you stated elsewhere that you are 58. Sites "popular with younger girls" likely have a protocol different from what older folks expect.

Recently a site in Europe tracked its usage on a "girls' site" and concluded that more than one-half of those using female names were men of varying ages.

Sounds like you are a day late and a pound short; why not just move on to another site?

[EvilEvilKitten]

"Why are you here?"

translation:

1. what relationships is desired?
2. and with what sort of gal?

or even

3. what's an old fart like you doing here???? (if you are 58)

BTW, having been on such sites, most men write terrible profiles and they forget that participants on such sites will LIE LIE LIE.

[kievan]

Grant you that and otfen comes to mind the term dirty old man.
However I really have a youthful appearance little bit of puffy and wrinkle round the eyes but that is about it. Have all my blonde hair ash colour so grey hair appears in tiny streaks highlighting it.
No other facial wrinkles and no double chin. More often than not people miss my age by 10 years and I see blokes of my age that look like my granpas. So my online dating age is 50
And so are quite a few Eastern European women that preserve themselves quite well so I am told but look at former Ukrainian PM Tymoshenko she is 51 and Yanukovich he is 61 check out some images in google and you'll see.I have the same racial make up.

Grant you I do not know young girls protocols on this particular website because I am quite successful in other sites where I get meetup messages. Can't complain about my luck with women so far it is this site that I am lost.

Yes 1 and 2 that go some way explaining EEK
As far as profiles well mine isn't exactly off putting but I thought self explanatory without going into too much details shows my pic, my profession, personality , why I am on that site and some of my sexual preferences.
I also had been on a previous site with no sucess again the women out there even though varying greatly in age were as liberal in their thoughts and desires. I think I am holding back on something which prevents me from connecting with them.

[Ducy]

Most fling sites are bogus. Its usually populated with "girls" who are ready and willing but never come through. You spend money to join their site, and try hopelessly to get some. Most of these "hot women" are men, and the real women are generally ones whom guys don't want. They're too busy flirting with the fake woman to bother with the real ones.

From what I understand, plenty of fish is the go to hook up site. There are a lot of guys on the other forums I frequent that meet girls and sleep with them on a daily basis.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Okay, the stats of these websites are not encouraging. There are several hundred males for EACH female and that includes the bogus females too. The average man can expect to receive 1 real reply to 362 fake replies from professionals to men masquerading as women for some purpose or other. If you send out a note to a woman, she may not reply simply because she's plowing through 18,000 "Hey, baby" notes and there's simple not enough time in the day and besides she has better things to do with her time anyway than sit on a computer sorting through the chaff to find your note and reply to it. Sorry, but tis the truth.

Even with the best profile on earth, your chances are slim. And it doesn't really matter which website you use since the stats are pretty much uniform across the board.

The best way to get some good out of such sites is to use the chatroom if they have one and to go to any "meeting" the group might hold at some local establishment. Good luck.

[Brandye]

Or, better, get your ass off the chair and go someplace where you can meet actual women in the flesh and most questions are answered for both of you by simply looking over the other.

[kievan]

Interesting and valid points you raise EEK
I have in my profile some comparison to The Amazing Race as I may be contestant number 362 and if I make to number 1 Imay have to take a detour so I never make it there LOL!
I have written to support asking some questions they said that the girls at this point are checking me up to see if I was legit one month isn't along time for them apparently.

Anyway Brandye thanks for your colourful suggestion but I do have more success on other websites but right now I am nursing my leg after a bad infection and I have few ladies in waiting as I'm struggling to defer meetups dates

Yes thank you Ducy Pof has been recommended to me

[kievan]

The website I was referring to is kind of BETA stages so there are many bugs in script, one of them caused emails sent looping back to me. Now wonder I have not received an email reply after my initail contact.
It has taken me sometime to bypass the conventional answers from customer services.

[llovell]

I don't know anyone who has ended up with a quality individual from a dating site. Frankly, it seems to be a bit of a dumping ground. Out of the ones who ended up actually meeting and dating someone? Abusive cheaters, liars, and neurotics, the lot of them.

I tried a dating site myself breifly before I met my boyfreind, and I just don't understand how people were connecting over those profiles... they didn't just sound fake, they were boring!

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I also noticed that the men seemed to have rather high standards when it came to superficial factors. Average looking, chunky guys would say they were after 6' tall size 6 supermodels (effectively). And the attention would go to girls who had their boobs out in the profile pic (which may have been lifted from a porn site).

I didn't see any looking for women who were academics, doctors, artists...

This may sound like an obvious thing to say, but you get the kind of attention you give out. If you went there because it had pictures of hot young girls giving blowjobs, and not because of the quality of the people... you're going to find young girls who judge you in likewise superficial ways, instead of quality individuals.

I wouldn't expect them to be genuine and vigilant in their interactions, because that wasn't the quality you chose them for.