How to be the girl a guy likes to chase

[blueyeslove]

So most of my past relationships I saw myself (not at the time) as the chaser. Not the chasee. The guy liked me of course but I was the one making the calls, making the dates, etc. I found the guy would get bored of me real easy because I was easy to get. There wasn't enough mystery I suppose.

Now I've gotten older and understand the world a little bit better, that men like the chase. You gotta dangle a string in front of them. The wonderful guy I am seeing now says he loves the chase. I asked him if was 'chase able' and he said I was because I tease him and his answer to that was you tease me physically and mentally.

I find that it's hard for me though, because I was so used to chasing a guy. I always did the asking out and I even asked my bf out ( we were friends before btw) I find he won't get bored of me if I (and btw I am a bit of an over analytic individual):
- Call a few times a week, not every night , keep the conversation short and sweet, or long if it's about important things or interests and of course I know now guys love to be listened to.
- Tease him back (I say things like why would I want to talk to you or what do you want, jokingly and he has a sense of humor so he'll tease me back
- Not surround myself around him all the time (what I mean is if we are in public or around people, I won't be holding his hand every second and that I am talking to other people and hes doing the same )
-Not making myself available all the time (even though I kind of do) so I ll say want to go see a movie this day I have time aside for for you then
-as for the physical part (sex/kisses/hugs etc) I like to tease him as I'll keep my legs closed or roll over on the bed and won't face him. Or I'll pretend to kiss him and then look the other way. He laughs about it too, so I assume he enjoys that playfulness...

So yeah, please share your thoughts on this