Thats it

[Wrave]

Pardon the rant.

This girl decided to go back with a girl. This was the same girl I hurt a year ago.

One thing I can't stand is being led on. You take my virginity and then three weeks later you want to leave me for a girl?! That just pisses me off.


I have had issues with girls using me in the past. Whether it was for teasing or what not.

I just had a feeling this would happen because things had been going too well for me.

I am depressed, angry, sad and just plain sick right now.

I gave up a job in another state for this girl. She was a HUGE reason that I didn't want to leave and now she leaves me high and dry.

If anyone can find any good in this situation please let me know.

[Brandye]

"Same girl [you] hurt a year ago."

Hmmm.

Now you are even?

[Wrave]

I mean physically hurt. There should be a thread in the new to sex forum. I screwed up

Every time I want to pursue a relationship with her, she gives me the boot to go with the girl.

[llovell]

Hang on, the same girl?

The same girl who already two-timed her girlfreind with you, and then dumped you?

Hm, I hate to say it but based on your previous thread it sounds like this was pretty inevitable. She had already proved she was happy to take advantage of you, and happy to cheat on her girlfreind.

Why were you still giving her time of day?

I think you need to sever contact with this person and move on to a new group of associations with slightly more grown-up attitudes.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Wrave - welcome to the snake-pit. Now you know what to look out for when hunting for a girlfriend. Someone who is NOT like her.

You have also learned another valuable lesson. Do NOT leave a good job for someone to whom you are NOT married.

You have also, I hope, learned WHY you date as many women as you can talk into it. If you hadn't been so fixated upon this one, you would not have made the errors you did.

Another thing you have learned is to NOT put sexual availability before all other considerations when it comes to selecting women. Sex is important, no doubt, but that can NOT be your first consideration.

AND, yes there's more, STOP pursuing 'relationships'. Pursue, in a relaxed manner, WOMEN and let the relationship(s) grow or not as it/they will.

So, yes, there's a LOT of GOOD in what has happened.