Taking my gf out to movies...need help...

[partylover]

ok so i am taking my gf out to movies over the weekend, and i have heard a lot that couples make out while watching movie in theater and mostly gf/bf goes to theater only to make out..i''ve never done that...so how should i start? should i just put my hand on her thighs and her stomach ?? can i go further?? will ppl around us notice?? how do couples manage to makeout while in theater? pls help...me and my gf have talked about this and she has agreed to let me put my hand on between her legs and also on her boobs and to let me go further if ppl dsnt notice.. pls tell me how can i do this without ppl noticing us? thank you ....

[big916]

First of all go to a movie you both don't care about. Also don't go to a movie's opening weekend. A perfect movie to go to is friends with benefits. How could you two not want to make out with all of the kissing and sex going on? If your too young to go to a R rated movie then buy something else and go to that movie, or walk into fwb anyways. Ok now that she has given you the okay to be affectionate in public just put your arm around her and kiss her on her spot(ear,neck,shoulder whatever). If she gives you the cold shoulder then back off. If her body language says keep going then do so. Have fun

[dancingdoc2]

This is all covered in various articles listed in the Index found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about--like yours. In addition, if you click on the site's Home Page you will find even more information.

I recommend that you read all of the articles that discuss dating and then read the articles that discuss making out. You have asked excellent questions, kudos to you. Now, having said that, you are asking for the long answer that only reading the articles can provide. Unfortunately, the forums are for relatively short answers and this is why the articles were written.

I recommend that the two of you read these, discuss what you have learned, and then add the information to what each of you already knows. There is a tried and true method of making out, starting with Necking, progressing on to Petting, then Heavy Petting, perhaps Foreplay, and much later for newbe's--Intercourse--not that you will go this far in a theater newbe or not.

Begin by cuddling, add a few light kisses, and keep your initial caresses above the shoulders. If and as things progress you can go further adding Petting, revisiting Necking and so on and on.

When you read the articles, please pay particular attention to boundaries and the subject of Implied Consent. These are important for both of you to understand.

As for where to sit in a theater, the recommended area is up high and to the left. Why? When people walk into a room, they generally look to the right. If you are sitting in the "nose bleed" section and on the left you will be less likely to be noticed.

While in public, even in the dark, keep your clothes on. Do not be tempted to expose your penis, her breasts, and so on and so forth. You do not want to fumble with clothing if someone should just decide to sit close to you. If you want to explore skin on skin, you can slip your fingers inside her bra from the top down. You can explore her crotch thru her clothing or if she permits more intimacy, roaming upward under her skirt. She on the other hand can fondle your penis thru your trousers if she desires.

Truth be told, if you have to ask these questions, you are not yet ready for anything more involved that kissing, cuddling, and caressing above either the shoulders or waist. Do not be in a rush to get to the finish line. Take a few weeks taking the "slow road" and smelling the roses along the way.

I agree, go see? a movie that you are not interested in. Freshen up before finding seats if need be and do not get any refreshments that will make your breath smell.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

-doc

[partylover]

ok thanx i;ll check out the articles....

[hot-texan]

one thing to consider is what both of you are wearing for this outing. Does she know what you have in mind? If so consider wearing something loose fitting and ask her to wear a shirt that's not too snug and a skirt.

[partylover]

yea she knows wats on my mind...we talked about this..i'll make her wear a skirt..so that its easy to put my hand b/w her legs and then on to her pussy...

[dancingdoc2]

> i'll make her wear a skirt.

Make her? Is this an unfortunate choice of words or your general attitude?

Before you proceed with your grand plan, please read the articles in the Index on dating and those on making out.