08-01-2011, 07:16 AM
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ok erm not sure how to know if she is really only a mate
this girl i know is now my best mate but everytime we hug i get a really bad timed hard on. She just says behave and smiles but im not sure if shes really likin me back the same way ?. I have asked her out she says she will not risk wat we have im goin mad with love with her and have for the last year. help plz
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08-01-2011, 09:33 AM
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What we seem to have here is a Fw/oB, that is, you enjoy a friendship with each other, however, there is no emotional or physical connection sufficient to form a sexual attraction on her part. Jack, after this long it is important to understand that the relationship is what it is. **
If she wanted a sexual relationship it is pretty much guaranteed that she would be letting you know in no uncertain ways. That she is holding your advances at bay simply means "she's just not that into you" as the ol' saying goes. > everytime we hug i get a really bad timed hard on. This is so normal! Males of the species are able to become "turned on" from a variety of stimuli: sights, sounds, imagination, touch, smells * A guy can walk down the street, see a pretty woman and get an erection * A guy can walk into a department store and see a mannequin and... * A guy can brush by someone walking in the mall and... * A guy can smell something that reminds him of something or someone, and... * A guy with a healthy imagination can daydream about someone or some occasion and... * and so it goes--much to our distraction and possible embarrassment > She just says behave and smiles To whom is she saying "behave": to you or your erect penis that she feels pressing against her?  > im not sure if shes really likin me back the same way ?. I have asked her out she says she will not risk wat we have ** A year has gone by and you do not have an answer, yet? The answer is: she likes you as a friend and enjoys the pleasure of your company. > im goin mad with love with her and have for the last year. help plz 1. Stop trying to pursue her and enjoy what you have between you. 2. Please start dating other women. Dating does not begin and end with the first warm body who expresses an interest in us. Dating is a process that is all about finding Ms./Mr. Right. You do this by becoming closer with someone than able to by just being friends or acquaintances. While dating people we learn about each others character, likes, dislikes, goals, ideals, quirks, values, morals, and more. Some dates may only last one time, others a few, a few much longer, yet in the end, all but one or two will fall by the wayside. So get out there and date one or more women at a time, have fun with each for as long as possible/practical while learning. 3. Your strong feelings for this person are understandable, yet are now misplaced. Find someone who wants to reciprocate those feelings. After a year of trying it is time to explore your options with others while continuing to enjoy her friendship. Please read the articles listed in the Index regarding dating. I hope this is of help. Got questions? -doc Last edited by dancingdoc2; 08-01-2011 at 09:38 AM..
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08-01-2011, 10:20 AM
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thanks
erm tbh i think shes talkin to my dick when she says behave lol. This all started because of one time we hugged and she jumped on me and wrapped her legs round me it was so intense. then it got worse she jumped off me and then would not talk to me for a while ? y did she do that ? help
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08-01-2011, 10:23 PM
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"Why?"
Relationships, including the sexual part, are partnerships. Communication and feedback are both critical to the relationship's success. None of us are mind readers, this being the case, talk to your girlfriend. She is the only person with expert answers. > i think shes talkin to my dick when she says behave lol. The girl does have a sense of humor! As for what you stated, above, regarding the hugs and bulge in your pants, perhaps what I used to do will work for you: bend a bit at the waist so there is a bit of separation below the belts when hugging. -doc
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08-02-2011, 07:22 AM
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Talk it out with her. Only the two of you are aware of the dimensions of your relationship. Go where the discussion goes and you may be satisfied or gratified or both.
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Brandye Don't wear cheap bras!
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08-02-2011, 08:09 AM
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She has already answered your question.
FRIENDS ONLY Date additional women.
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08-02-2011, 08:49 AM
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Quote:
-doc
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08-03-2011, 11:27 AM
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IF you LISTEN to the women in your life, you just may learn something esp if you see it from her point of view and you think about it.
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