best way to meet a girl

[Thecalliton]

I know this is kind of a pathetic topic, but I really have no idea how.

I can weave words like crazy, but I never know where to meet girls, or even how to tell if theyd be willing to be in a relationship with me. Maybe ive got a wrong outlook on things or something, but I just dont know what to do to find a nice girl.

[Brandye]

Find an interest that also attracts women and get involved - clubs, sports, book groups. Any young man who is willing to take dancing lessons will be in a wonderful setting for meeting more women than he knew there were. Dance recitals often have ten or more women for every man on the stage! And, touching, god forbid, is even built into the activity!

[EvilEvilKitten]

A 'nice girl'? Well, okay, I suppose I'll let that one slide assuming by 'nice' you mean kind, thoughtful, not self-centered and so on, as opposed to virginal and always saying no.

The Library, the bookstore and dancing - all good situations.

Ride a motorcycle. (It always worked for my husband when he was in school.)

Doc and I added a bit onto the How to Meet Men thread about how to meet women.

[cflknr83]

the best way to meet a girl is to start a band. thats how i did it

[Thecalliton]

wow... alot of those things I want to do (dancing isnt one, but i might try)
im a biker already.

Thanks everyone, hopefully ill be on the way to a good relationship with that little bit of advice

[EvilEvilKitten]

Seriously consider dancing because it is the easiest way to get a woman alone and into your arms. Nuf said?

[Thecalliton]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Seriously consider dancing because it is the easiest way to get a woman alone and into your arms. Nuf said?

yeah, its just im a bit clumsy outside of karate, but ill try it as soon as i can.

[EvilEvilKitten]

IT is only clumsy because you haven't practiced it.

[big916]

It is no different cal, practice so your "muscle memory" gets better. You couldn't do a certain move like a windmill kick in the beginning of training. You also couldn't pass the ride test when you first got on a motorcycle, I couldn't either. This is no different and you just don't want to feel like an idiot when practicing dance. No one is going to make fun of you in the dance class, or someone that is willing to teach you.