love, love and all about love

[chunghop]

My friend once talked about her excitement about her date. She talks about getting serious sooner. She thinks she has best dealt with her dating stage perfectly."well, I think this is what I call love" she told me. Until one day she came running to me crying. The nice guy she dated just enjoy the freedom of dating, and take no responsibility for himself if problem occur. Is there any How to tips regarding this matter?
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[Ducy]

How to what? Your question is too vague. How to deal with your silly friend? How to "date"?

First off your friend was wrong when she said "I think this is what I call love". You know when you love someone. Its not like your cooking a steak and you kinda just guess. You know these things. She made another mistake by letting her feelings overdevelop for someone with she was just dating. She should be doing the same thing. Dating around. Meeting new people. Not restricting herself to one man, woman or whomever. Only after dating for a couple months should she decide to go serious.

[EvilEvilKitten]

It is not necessary to 'get serious' when dating. When hunting for a spouse - then you can get serious but not before you've dated around enough to know what sort of spouse suits you.

Do not go looking for love. Do not expect to fall in love. You fall into infatuation which is not the same thing.

[jordan274]

I think EvilEvilKitten has pretty much got it.

When you look for love you don't usually find it(theres no doubt some expections).
I stumbled upon it. Actually I didnt like my partner when I first met her lol. Couldnt stand her, moved away for a while then for some reason we started to hang out. Then so on and so forth.

I think we all have moments of weakness and misinterpretate certain messages, maybe this is one of these moments?

But we can't say much as we'd need more info x3

- Jordan