Would you to be in a relationship with a girl like this??? .......

[Caramel_Gal_Loves_Vanilla]

..... with someone whom you met online and performs oral sex on you on the first night and then sleeps with you the second night (the reason why the girl does not sleep with you on the first night is because she is still going through the termination of a pregnancy of some other guy she met online and slept with on the first date).

This is my friend I am talking about. SHe has a tendency to pick up men on a social networking site, (there is an online dating app on there) go on a date with them and sometimes the first date will be at her home. She has an 8 month old baby as well- of whom is in the home when she brings these men over.

Recently, she picked up a man from the website, he stayed with her for a few days in her flat, not in a hotel and he was paying substitute father to her child!!! She posted and tagged him in pictures of her hold the child! I think this is wrong, surely you would want to get to know someone before you introduce them to your children.

A few days later he suddenly had to go home 100 miles away because his mother was taken ill in hospital. More like he went back to his wife probably!

I have tried talking to my friend about not putting herself at risk by bringing strangers to her home.. but she will not listen.

I need a man's perspective on this one... would you play happy families with some woman's child who you met online and you do sexual things together... surely you would think that if she is so quick to suck this bloke off and have sex with him on the first encounter you would probably wonder who else she was with prior to you. Would you just play happy families just so you can get your leg over?

Have you ever met a woman online, told them everything they wanted to hear and then just drop them like a cold bag of sick?

She now thinks she wants to be with him but does not want to spoil it by asking him.

I am thinking like a bloke now.. do you think he just wants a quick no frills fumble?

Thanks

[big916]

Wow this girl needs to realize that her actions really endanger her and her child. Your friend is way too clingy and thinks sex is the only way to get a man. Was her child conceived this way as well? So she had a bad experience with having intercourse on a first date and she thinks waiting a few days until the next date is better? Come on!!

As for the scenario; it is really sad but true that there are guys that would do or say anything for sex. Is she looking for financial support from a guy? She needs to realize that she is not 11 and needs to stop playing house. And if this guy is really serious about playing house than that is even more scary to me.

As for my opinion if I was in this situation, I would be put off that she moves so quickly. Frankly, I think any guy would be sticking their dick in crazy if they were with her. It is most likely he just wants sex. And I have never treated a woman like this but that doesn't mean there aren't those that would.

[EvilEvilKitten]

There are men that would - yes.

Have you asked her why she doesn't listen to you?

[Newtolove]

yea she needs to wake up, reminds me of a profile I saw on a dating website. It went something like this: I have a child of "x" months and I'm expecting a second by a different father and he don't want to know either, please don't judge me by my past. I quickly moved on from that profile, and I'm a bloke.

Even without much experience my thoughts are: easy women are nice as it's no hard work but if they are that fast on me/you then they could get bored just as fast and get another guy fast and really I'd like to find someone more mature that has something more to offer than sex alone.

Of course plenty of men will play her along, they don't care. And if she is so easily led to bed they will hardly feel guilty either.

[Ducy]

NO, NO, NO! She is being incredibly irresponsible. Ok so sex on the first date. No big deal. But pregnancy on the first date? Bad. She has a child at home and is bringing random men around the baby? Terrible. I would be more thinking about child services if her actions continue to become more dangerous. Your friend needs a severe wake up call.

[Uncut_with_Girth]

Sounds kind of like a woman that I knew that believed that if a man spent the night, it meant that he loved her.

She apparently thinks that the sex is love.