03-15-2011, 05:03 PM
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its complicated
can people help ive got a problem. im dating a girl i love alot but another girl likes me and i like her too. who do i choose?
 
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03-15-2011, 05:19 PM
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You say you are in love with your girlfriend, but you are contemplating leaving her for a girl who just likes you?
I am afraid this isn't love but simply infatuation. Perhaps step back out of the relationship and re-evaluate your wants and needs.
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03-15-2011, 08:14 PM
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There are two answers:
A#1. You do not choose. A#2. You choose all. What do I mean? Please read the articles listed in the Index that discuss dating, specifically "open dating". This means that you do not date one person exclusively; instead, you date more than one at a time openly without strings. Dating does not begin and end with the first person to come along who expresses and interest in us. Dating is a process and this is discussed in at least one of the articles. By dating openly, you eliminate much or all of the drama and trauma associated with breaking up if a relationship ends. By dating openly, whether with one woman at a time, or, more than one at a time, when a relationship ends, it presents much less heartache. So, please learn how to date and embrace the process.
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03-15-2011, 10:19 PM
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It sounds like, the way things are going with girl 1 you'll be breaking up with her eventually. But I think if you're dating someone, yet looking at other people, it's a pretty good indication about how you really feel towards that person. If you're unsure of how you feel about her, then give yourself some time to think it through. Do not consider the other girls or your feelings towards them. Consider what you and your girlfriend have in common, what you enjoy about her, and your relationship and whether or not you think it's going to last. Once you figure that out and act on that decision everything else will follow suit. If you choose to stay with her, you need to move on from girl one, and quit focusing on girl three in that way. It's completely unfair to your girlfriend to do this.
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03-19-2011, 07:22 PM
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BOTH - jeez! How many times do we have to say it?
Date them both until one says STAND & DELIVER - in effect.
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