friend troublee

[TwinkleToes]

i have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and we are really strong and i love him, to pieces.
im at college now and i have become friends with a girl and she goes to a local gym that my boyfriend goes to, he has a high profession and her boyfriend doesnt really do anything. recently i have noticed that she texts me aboout him all the time!!
nearly every message i get from her is about him and how wonderful he is, and i am starting to get really worried
do you think she is trying to steal him away from me or is she just trying to flirt with him??


he says he doesnt like her like that and he alweays tells me the truth...what should i be thinking right now??

[Brandye]

You should be thinking about whether your new best friend is mostly friends with you as a path to your boyfriend. You and she need to have a serious discussion.

[dancingdoc2]

I suggest that your talk with her include the fact that her constant and ongoing comments are over the top, beyond reasonable, and, annoying. If she cannot talk about anything else, don't text at all.

> recently i have noticed that she texts me about him all the time!!
nearly every message i get from her is about him and how wonderful he is

This is not that unlike: "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all," only in reverse. Enough already.

> he says he doesnt like her like that and he alweays tells me the truth...what should i be thinking right now?

Believe what your boyfriend is telling you unless and until you have proof otherwise.

Lastly, share this conversation with the girl with your boyfriend.

[jessica roy]

If he is trying to steal him she is not doing it right. I would assume its mostly flatery from a friend to a friend. Talk to her about it for confirmation and tell your BF about it so he is prepared. You dont truly have to trust her, She is a friend. But if your BF and you are strong then you should trust him. Thats what a relationship is built on, Trust and honesty. But I yea I would ask her why she does this, and let her know your fears. But DONT show fear to her girls can smell that and if she is thinking of cheating thats kinda motivational. Like your worried maybe she has a chance......

[Ducy]

If anything she is trying to get you to say bad things about him so that she can show him and break u two up. Think about it. If someone kept on and on about how great the pasta is you would eventually say well the noodles are a tad mushy, The sauce is a bit tart, or the garlic bread is a bit burnt, in and attempt to shut them up.

Next tim simply say thank you but I would really appreciate if you would stop I do love my boyfriend very much, he is amazing and I find it a tad annoying that you constantly have to tell me this, and makes me a little suspicious that your intentions of our friendship are not what I believed them to be

[Delion]

I think she is interested in him, but it sounds like you have a good boyfriend so a long as you trust him you have nothing to worry about.
Just saying though from my experiences I have had 2 guys wanna kick my ass because they said I was flirting with 2 of my good friends, so now when I see someone I think is flirting with my girlfriend I just ask them.
I think that will be the best thing just ask her.

[EvilEvilKitten]

You might try TRUSTING your boyfriend since you SAY you love him.
The ONLY thing that's at all important is what's going on between you and your partner.
DON'T talk to anyone about this since there's nothing you can say that would NOT make you look like a jealous loser.

[Qplezsthawife]

she's probably dropping hints to you with her interest in your boyfriend......i don't go out talking about my boy's girlfriend or wife like that....whatever i'm thinking about when it comes to someone else's significant, i keep it to myself

[EvilEvilKitten]

So this other girl is interested? BFD. The OP has him and this other girl is just SOL. No need for the OP to get upset.