She needs help

[rodethepole]

I recently had a relationship/fling with this girl.........it ended badly

She has "Borderline Personality Disorder" google it.....

It is impossible to be with her, yet I feel so broken without her....I cried for ages when we broke up.

How can a person with her disorder get help?

[RedRoses]

Answered in your other thread; I lost my virginity, but I am still empty inside

Originally Posted by RedRoses

How do you know this? You shouldn't believe everything people tell you...

I happen to know what Borderline is. And not true that it is impossible to be with someone who suffers from it. People with borderline are emotionally demanding on their partners, that's true.

It does depend on the degree of severeness. These people have a (very) low self esteem and see life in extremes; it is either perfect or worthless. This causes them to live in extremes as well at times. They usually suffer from angst (such as the fear of being deserted). It kinda resembles manic depression in a way... It can be coped with, usually with medication.

There are more severe cases of people who get extremely manipulative towards their environment, mutilate themselves, who disassociate from reality, get suicidal, etc. There are those that take medication and life-long-therapy.

[rodethepole]

Originally Posted by RedRoses

Answered in your other thread; I lost my virginity, but I am still empty inside

Thanks, I need more info and help about this.....cause I really love her, but I am so confused. But I am afraid she hates me now!

[jessica roy]

the main question is if you can love her with this condition. You cant controll her actions but you can comit to doing anything it takes to getting her back. (Even if it took weeks monthes years to gain her full trust). Working day by day accepting the drawbacks and reveling in the sucsess, and accepting all along that it may be pointless but...it may not be. thats up to you

I stated that in your last post why did you start a new post about the exact same thing...