Oh Boy

[iloveyou49]

ok im in this new relationship with this amazing guy. we have had sex 2 times once on my bed and 2nd on his bathroom floor :P but the first time. we used a condom , but it didnt work and broke or there was a rip/tear in it somewhere. I Realized i was pregnant 2 weeks after and i really got morning sickness and then i didnt tell him for about another two weeks which made me 4 weeks in, i know i should of but i was scared he wouldnt want me, like all the other guys who have said theyd be there. and left. i went to my friends house cuz it was his birthday and my boyfriend was up in a tree and my friend punched my in the stomach, an hour or so later i started feeling pain . then that night i went home i started bleed from... well you know... so i went to the hospital and he put it down as a misscarige now the doctors saying i bled and had pain cuz im going to have twins. and i cant get rid of them, because im two far along. but yeah im having twins. i know one is a girl idk bout the other one. but Ezabella and Jessie if both are girls or Ezabella and Austin if the other one is a boy. <3 i dont wanna do this at my age.. we still have to tell our parents and find a place and its just to much for a 15 year old to handle . you know.. im soo stressed and moody and i hate it.

[raunchy gal]

I do know what you are going through hun.I had the same thing happen to me. I had sex with my boyfriend in my room.The condom broke and i got pregnant with twins.I thought i had miscarried also.I bled about 8 wks into the pregnancy.But i had the twins a boy and girl,and my boyfriend and i got married.I wish we hadn't now because i'm getting a divorce.I was older than you,but it was really hard.My parents supported me,maybe yours will too.You don't have to live with your boyfriend if you don't want to.And i know it might be a hard thing to do,but how about considering adopting the babies out.Ultimately the decision is yours no matter what you decide to do.

[Brandye]

GET TO A WOMAN"S HEALTH CLINIC IMMEDIATELY. Some of your story makes sense; some not. Whatever, you need professional medical advice right now.

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by iloveyou49

ok im in this new relationship with this amazing guy. we have had sex 2 times once on my bed and 2nd on his bathroom floor :P but the first time. we used a condom , but it didnt work and broke or there was a rip/tear in it somewhere.

It is nice that you had sex, or made love; although, I'm sorry the experiences did not work out as planned. Why did you not use a condom the second time? Why did you not use a second form of birth control? Sex is an adult activity. When you engage in the activity you have to be adult about the probably consequences.

Here is a rule that you probably did not learn in any sex ed. class or from your parents: Look out for A#1--you; protect thy self. If you do not wish to become an unwed mother and have the future course of your life forever changed, use b/c, be it the pill, some other form of highly reliable product--or at the very least, a spermicide. If the guy is not prepared to become an unwed father and to have the future course of his life forever changed, he should wear a condom--as well as use a spermicide. Always, otherwise, what's the point?

I Realized i was pregnant 2 weeks after and i really got morning sickness and then i didnt tell him for about another two weeks which made me 4 weeks in, i know i should of but i was scared he wouldnt want me, like all the other guys who have said theyd be there. and left.

It is very likely that you will now learn just how amazing this boyfriend is. Do not be surprised if he runs away, also. If he does stand by you, what will he do? At this stage of life, what can he realistically do to support you? The two of you need to talk. You need to tell your parents as does he. Something to give strong consideration to is to give these babies up for adoption so that they can be brought up in a supportive family that can provide for their needs over the next eighteen (18) years. DO NOT expect your parents to raise two more children, or place them in this predicament!

i went to my friends house cuz it was his birthday and my boyfriend was up in a tree and my friend punched my in the stomach, an hour or so later i started feeling pain.

I hope you will begin choosing your friends more carefully. What caused him to do this? What this young boy has so far not learned is that you do not lay your hands on a woman--certainly, you do not punch her. If you still consider this kid your friend, think again.

i dont wanna do this at my age.. we still have to tell our parents and find a place and its just to much for a 15 year old to handle . you know.. im soo stressed and moody and i hate it.

Please look into adoption. Ask a school counselor or minister about what services are available where you live for unwed teen mothers. Take a parenting class and learn how to care for two infants. Whether you do or do not, enlist the help of your parents, now. If they are good parents, they will become your first line of needed support. When you inform them of your condition, they may be mad and upset--expect that they will. In time they will calm down and rally.

If you believe "it's" too much for a 15 year old to handle, then do not try to find a place and live together, taking care of a house, also. You simply are not mature enough or prepared enough to do this without a lot of third party support. Here is something for the two of you to read and discuss:

I think we are ready to live together!!
We frequently hear about people living together who later find that one, the other, or both are not happy living together. Similarly, we frequently read a post in which a couple is contemplating moving in together and looking for a suitable residence. Here is an initial Check List.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

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[Brandye]

Forget all the other stuff. GET TO A WOMAN"S CLINIC. NOW!

[jessica roy]

I agree with Brandye get to a clinic now. Kicking yourself and stressing will do nothing to help. you messed up now see a real doctor and get the advice you need. The longer you wait the harder it will get, the rest of the problems can wait. You have about 8 or 9 months do decide what to do with the kids, but now you need to take yourself of yourself. Still you may want to tell your parents first there support could be invaluable