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[tank5617]

ok im single and was dumped but i dont get it im sure im over her i know i am but im still have thoughts and dreams(non sexaual) of her WTF i dont talk to her i dont like her. plz help thx

[raunchy gal]

Well of course you are going to think about her,she was your girlfriend and you spent a good deal of time and effort on her tank5617.There must have been good times that you spent together.I have a situation where i have been separated from my husband for almost 10yrs.Until recently we were still occasionally having sex.I have met someone that i could possibly have a relationship with in the future.I have told my husband that i want a divorce,but he can't accept that our marriage is over and i want to move on with my life

[lnt1103]

It's gonna happen. Totally natural. Every time it does, change the subject. It will start to happen less and less.

[tank5617]

lol man good im glad its natural lol thx and yes im moving on cant fix the past but you can prepare for the future. roll with the punches

[EvilEvilKitten]

It takes time for those chemicals in your brain that assist "pair-bonding" to dissipate - to "let it go". Know that in the future, you won't even remember her name or what she looked like - or care. Just how humans are set up.

[dancingdoc2]

Every time she pops into your thoughts, change your mind--think of something else. This is going to be a conscious effort that you will do over and over and over.... Eventually, as time passes she will come to mind less and less; however, the only way I know of to change your thought pattern is to do as I have recommended. Easier said than done, I know, yet it works and I've been recommending this to others for years.