I'm running out of options.....

[Zr2_EQX]

How many times an a horse be beaten? You people are all suckers. Frankie is an attention seeking jerk. Let it go and ignore him.

[dancingdoc2]

Frust, you are covering old discussions. All this has been said time and again and for months and months.

As for Franklin's appearance, several months ago he submitted his picture and I immediately told him that he was a handsome young man. He may not like his protruding ears, yet as for how I see him, he is a great looking guy.

As to why "every" woman he encounters tells him otherwise or simply does not like him for one reason or another, he needs to circulate in a different circle. He is too critical of himself and as you pointed out, others. It almost makes it seem like his identity is tied to whomever walks beside him. {If she looks stunning, so will he by osmosis.)

[Frust]

Sorry, I did not know that this was an old discussion. If anything, I hope new members will be able to read through this and reflect on all of the advice that was given.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

Frust, you are covering old discussions. All this has been said time and again and for months and months.

As for Franklin's appearance, several months ago he submitted his picture and I immediately told him that he was a handsome young man. He may not like his protruding ears, yet as for how I see him, he is a great looking guy.

As to why "every" woman he encounters tells him otherwise or simply does not like him for one reason or another, he needs to circulate in a different circle. He is too critical of himself and as you pointed out, others. It almost makes it seem like his identity is tied to whomever walks beside him. {If she looks stunning, so will he by osmosis.)

Hi, Dancing Doc.

During my three years in college I have met many different people. Different women from different circles also find me to be very physically unattractive.

Originally Posted by Frust

From a girl's perspective.

It seems that you are (in your words, not mine) not extremely good looking. Which is fine, obviously you work out and you try to look good which is what is important. I think it's great that you are trying to improve your looks, as others have said to some extent this is something we all care about..

But I think your problem is you are expecting too much out of a girl. Why does she have to meet everything on your check list? She has to be white. She has to dress up all the time. She has to have a certain religious view. She has to have a certain intelligence. She has to be skinny. I think you should just relax and get to know the people around you. You might find that you have a lot in common with the girl next to your dorm, even though she might not be religious. Just a suggestion.

A woman does not need a certain intelligence. She just needs to be smart. She does not need a 4.0. I'm not looking for someone who is unintelligent and lacks common sense.

You missed understood me about dressing up. I just don't like girls who like to dress down into torn clothes, sweats, gym clothes, etc. I'm perfectly fine with a girl wearing a pair of blue jeans and a shirt.

She has to be slender. I take care of myself and demand for the same in return. I'm simply I'm not attracted to bigger women.