i like a girl and we talk wat do i do

[tank5617]

ok i met this girl rite after my ex broke up with me and i was wayy down and she was there 4 me.then that same day her ex broke up with her.and we've been talkn back and fourth she says im cute guy and that im sweet and funny to.and i really like her we get along gr8 and once we talk we can talk all day and laugh. but wat should i do should i ask her out? stay friends?

p.s shes n ohio & im n texas

[dancingdoc2]

Relationship experts recommend that the best course of action is to not begin a relationship right after one has ended. "Rebound relationships" tend not to work for many reasons, mainly because of dependency issues and needing to be needed.

Better me thinks to simply be friends for the time being and let what happens over time, happen. On the other hand, how long were you dating? If only a short time, and, depending upon the seriousness of the previous relationship, you may be emotionally ready to begin a new one.

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[dancingdoc2]

> but wat should i do should i ask her out? stay friends?

> p.s shes n ohio & im n texas

We just had this discussion a day or two ago in another thread. Please go back thru my posts and have a read.

How can you have a real relationship with so many miles between you? This is reminiscent of life before computers when people wrote letters and were "pen pals".

As for actually dating, what are you going to do, drive/fly to Ohio every week or two in order to go to a movie, have a picnic at the park, go here or there to do this or that? Better me thinks to keep this simply platonic and not read or put more emotion into the friendship than is practical. If the friendship blossoms into something more by the middle of next year then you might discuss how to become closer to one another, physically as well as practically.

As for having an actual up close and personal relationship with someone, it is better to find people to date who live no more than about sixty miles away.

[tank5617]

thx for the help