older woman

[obfuscation]

i'm friends with a woman who is almost 20 years older than me. there's a mutual attraction and we've gotten pretty hot and heavy but no intercourse yet. she invited me to stay over for the weekend. she's a house wife conservative type woman but who knows how she is in bed. any advice on having sex with an older woman? i get the feeling she might be timid about oral sex and certain sexual positions like doggy style.

[nuttychick]

So She is in her 40's 50's or 60's???

[dancingdoc2]

> there's a mutual attraction and we've gotten pretty hot and heavy but no intercourse yet. she invited me to stay over for the weekend. she's a house wife

So you want your jollies and have sex with another man's wife?

How do you think this would play out in the press if some guy chose your wife to play around with?
And now on that note, I have to "pull the plug" and go to bed, snuggle next to my better half and try to get some sleep with this going over and over in my mind....................................

[EvilEvilKitten]

Timid? She's making plays for you and yet you have the idea she's timid?!?!? You're from Mars, right? She's loaded for bear and you're her plaything...for now.

THINK - she's a housewife - so she's married, and there's some big guy around somewhere. This is not going to end well 95% of the time.

Until/Unless you hear it from her husband, it is not okay to mess with a married woman.

[GreyShadow]

yo...remember me? the guy in the similar situation? with a female 'freind' that's 20 years older? but a widow.

I actually find being able to talk to someone that doesn't leave me feeling like I was talking to a plastic barbie doll freshing...even in talking about adult matters (ok, sex) we can air (ok, my) concerns without that uncomfortable awkwardness. And, the attemp at sex itself, took a long time for me to drop my guard for, but her patience was what I needed, and she didn't have that performance disappointment I would have gotten from someone younger than or my own age.

she's done wonders to help restore my manny long years of flagging self esteem....

so, you never know what will happen until you try.