casual sex partners

[anadalite]

Hi all,

Im not sure if there is anywhere no this site for this kind of question. But how do you go about finding someone to have casual sex with? Ive split up with my girlfriend and am looking just for some fun to remind me that there is fun to be had having sex (sex life was awful!)

Obviously I dont want to join a sleazy dating site thing but is there anywhere you guys know that I can look at or join that is legit?

Or maybe even someone on here in the same boat and in the midlands who fancies meeting up once in a while?

[dancingdoc2]

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As for your request, and depending upon where you live, you will find that many large cities in the U.S. have "underground newspapers" that are often free. You should find that these have extensive personal ads sections. Look in the local or nearby newspapers for personal ads, also. Check out Craigslist.com for listings in your area.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Sleazy?!?! Much like beauty, sleazy is in the eye of the beholder.

Frankly, you're going to have to run with the 'bad girls' - you know - those who actually like sex enough to actually get and be good at it - to get casual sex partners.

Forget Craigslist - the police have battened down on them since most of those personal ads were 'sex for hire' ads and Craigslist are not accepting them any more - not in my area they aren't.

I'd suggest you get in with the Lifestyle/Swing crowd where you will find lots of people out for casual sex. They're great bunch of people and are willing to help newbies out. Unless you're under age 18 in which case, see my previous recommendation.

[Brandye]

Well, it is a trek from the Midlands to the States. There plenty of clubs and pubs in the industrial cities where you can find accommodating women with your same interest.

Better yet, determine what your avocational interests are and join a club focused on those. You will have immediate conversation and who knows what will happen.