A girl so wild in bed

[luvuallwomen]

Hi guys. I am from Bombay and new to this forum. In the last month, I met a girl, very young. It was purely a casual encounter with NSA. After the initial chit chat of 5 mins we were in bed. And man that girl was so wild. She was moaning at top of her voice while riding in cow girl position. Earlier i have done sex many times but this was all together a different experience. It has been 3 times that we have done intercourse and i always found her wilder than ever. Actually it was he friend that i was eying but this girl barged in. It is like she stole me from her friend. Her friend knew this thing and she charged into the room, opened the door and asked what the fuck are you doing with him? But the girl in bed was just not bothered about it. She apologized to her friend for fucking me as she knew that something was cooking up between her friend before this intimate moment.

The point to make here is I want to marry a girl like this who can make your sexual life so complete with her never ending hunger for sex. A girl so sex freak she would love to teach you different sex positions (she introduced me one position which i never knew, while in missionary she closed her legs very tightly and also asked me to close my legs also, this was very new and it has become my favorite too). I liked this girl very much for the obvious I have mentioned but cannot marry her. She is from very low social-economical background. Not educated. Where as I work as a software programmer. I even don't know any thing about her family background. What I know about her is she is young, full of infatuations, energetic, good looking, fragile, lean, and poor girl. She is now going to her native place forever. I may not even meet her again.

I am going nuts thinking about all this. I don't know what to do? One thing is sure if I get wife like her then I will not even think of her again. But if my would be wife turns out to be sexually dead, shy typo then these 3 courses with this girl will always fantasize me. In short after meeting her my expectations are high from any girl I would bed.

[dancingdoc2]

I'm not quite sure what to make of this tale. In general how liberated are the women in your country? What qualities do people look for in a potential mate? It appears that a woman's socioeconomic background is more important to you than who she has become as a human being in spite of her family background over which she has had no control. Are you making choices in whom to date and/or marry based upon her background, her present, or her potential? Do you expect your wife to work outside the home, or, to be a stay-at-home mother?

It seems to me from your description of events that you are mainly interested in a woman who is a "sex machine", and nothing else. If so, then you are going to become very unhappy with the relationship in a short amount of time. Besides a healthy interest in sex, what are you looking for in a potential wife? Why didn't you mention they aspects in your post?

[luvuallwomen]

No I am not looking for a potential sex machine in my wife but i know many people ho have their wives least interested in sex or lost the sexual desire over the time that their husbands are looking for sexual encounters outside the home. For me the lack of interest in sex have driven their husbands to cheat them. I don't want to do this. So after meeting this girl I had started thinking if I can marry this girl I will not have to cheat my wife if in case I get the one of that kind. Regarding socioeconomic background it is not a problem for me at all but here in many eastern countries you dont have say over family affairs. And this girl is not at all educated and she was trafficked to Mumbai and was working here as a maid. But now she is free to return to her native.

[RedRoses]

she was trafficked to Mumbai and was working here as a maid. But now she is free to return to her native.

That girl was trafficked?! If I know the correct meaning of the word, it means something like 'enslaved', brought somewhere against her will, is that correct? How awful for her!

I liked this girl very much for the obvious I have mentioned but cannot marry her.

Does this mean you did consider marriage? In my opinion, a longterm commitment such as marriage is primarily about: love. It's about a person you feel a deep connection to. Someone you'd want to make feel happy every day. Someone so special; your life would feel incomplete without that person. Did/do you love this girl? A relationship is about so much more than sex (as the doc points out).

but here in many eastern countries you dont have say over family affairs

This intrigues me... Does this mean you're not allowed to choose whom you marry?

i know many people ho have their wives least interested in sex or lost the sexual desire over the time that their husbands are looking for sexual encounters outside the home

Being a sexual 'match' is one thing, but: whether it stays that way over the course of a longterm relationship is another. There's no guarantee... It's something you'd need to work on together (no wonder it's called: making love ) and show respect towards each other. The integrity and staying truthful in your relationship is up to you and your future wife to handle (I would strongly suggest: do not lie to her and do not run away from problems). And no-one can guarantee either that you'll find a girl that will have sex with you as the one you describe. Sex is different with each person (or so I'm told). And different, does not mean less pleasurable!

I'm no expert; I'm (merely) in my first relationship that has lasted for about 2,5 years now, but I'm sending you my thoughts and questions, hoping they help you

[Brandye]

Right on, Roses. Even with the high unemployed population of India, household help is becoming scarce. Hence the Trafficking. It is estimated that more than half the young women moved as maids or service workers are indentured in some way and many end up in the sex trade. I read the original post as somewhat delusional and am aware that even with the caste system now illegal, it still has sway in Indian life, Then there are the 150 dialects, about the same number of religious cults and on and on. She would be better off getting back home but, if she exists, is likely doing what is necessary to remain in a city with a middle class.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Women who accept, embrace and rejoice in their sexuality (wild in bed) are not the kind of women who meekly accept parental dictates regarding marriage etc. since, in order to embrace their sexuality, they have to overcome and discard what her parents and culture have taught her about sex and gender.

If you want to marry such a woman, you are going to have to step up and become the sort of man she can respect. You will have to become more independent both in your thinking (ex caste) and behavior (ex meekness).

You can expect her to challenge you, ask you questions, demand reasons and so on. As to cultural constraints, you could move.

Well, you won't be bored.