How to be a bad girl

[Nami]

Um, hi. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We have a good relationship and all that. The only thing that bothers me is when he calls me a good girl. I really am a good girl. I'm a Girl Scout, go to church every Sunday, and rarely curse. But I don't want him to think of me as a good girl. I want to be bad. I want to seduce him or something of that nature, but I don't know how. How can I be a lady in the streets bbut a freak in the bed?

[EvilEvilKitten]

But of course you can! You know all of those rules you were taught in Girl Scouts, church and by the ladies fo your household? -FORGET THEM. Those rules were developed for two reasons: to protect the male ego and to keep you safe from the revenge of men with weak egos.

So, cut loose. When you're with him be aggressive. You know whai you want so demand it from him. Tease him. Taunt him. Stand just beyond his reach and make him come and get you. When you kiss him on the cheek, give him a little flutter with the tip of your tongue while doing so, or a muted growl and a bit of side teeth action.

Give the man the idea that he's got a tigress by the tail and just watch his eyes light up!

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[CleverName]

I've noticed that the "good" girls are always the ones who say they like to be
"bad" in bed. Is there some kind of connection?

[EvilEvilKitten]

Of course there is. 'Good girls' are the only ones who ask because 'Bad girls' already know.

[Brandye]

Learning to be a good girl is learning the rules to be acceptable, or a standout, in most company. These are consensual rules developed over millenia and they generally keep organized society more or less pleasant.

When the society becomes just two of you, you two establish the rules. You can do whatever you want that does not drive your partner away - and if it does drive him away, maybe you need a new partner.

[Rouge]

I know that my partner (and his friends, when he brags) are typically shocked by my sexuality. I'm very quiet and shy, and some would say adorable, but when the door is shut (in his words) I "turn into a crazy sex fiend" whom he's named Bambi.

The key is to realize that nothing in sex is wrong (between two consenting, informed adults). If you come in, tell him to get on his knees and eat your pu*sy like a good boy, he'll be wowed (just an example). You don't even have to be fully dominant in bed. Suggest a different position (doggy, cowgirl), or talk dirty (it feels so good when you f*ck me like that!). Realize that behind those doors, you can be crazy, vulgar (swearing, etc), dominant, and mean (within reason), and he'll generally appreciate it.

I'd talk to him about it though, as maybe he likes you just the way you are in bed!

[KatieLady]

It just reminds me of that old song I Wanna Be Bad by Willa Ford, lol. I don't think i'm not that bad but i don't think im that good either lol.

[GreyShadow]

knee high, high heel boots, leather boostier, whip cream and a feather boa...

seriously,
I actually learned alot from old movies, the stuff from TCM and AMC.
sounds odd, but there are nuggets to be mined from them about romance through the periods.

[Sekcboi85]

A good girl who is wild in bed? That is my dream girlfriend right there

[sensualGoddess]

There's nothing wrong with being a good girl at all, but being able to channel your sex diva loving goddess...now that's where you have a male right where you want him. As a woman, you want him in awe of you...after all, you're a woman...you give life...and you can take the life out of him just as quickly.

All means, go wild girl. Get in touch with the temptress inside. We know how to tempt the fire, it is our domain