Sex and dating

[sexyboy711]

look im 15 and my girlfriend is 17 she wants 2 have sex but im not sure about it cuz im afraid of wat she will think can sum1 help me

[dancingdoc2]

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about. If you click on the site's Home page you will find even more information.

If you have to ask, you are certainly not ready. You would be wise to check and double check your sex ed. knowledge by reading the articles listed in the Index, including all those dealing with making out, the one asking the question, "Am I ready...", and especially those dealing with contraceptives.

> im not sure about it cuz im afraid of wat she will think

Think about what? That you do not have any experience? That if you do have intercourse it will not go as well as hoped for? That you will hurt her? That your penis is too large, too small, bends the wrong way? What?

I'd read the article on "experience", also. It's an eye opener for newbe's.

Kids in your age range wanting to engage in adult activities, must be very careful about using three forms of contraception and being responsible. As explained in one of the articles, if you do not have a plan for dealing with the consequences of intercourse, then you are not ready.

My recommendation is to spend a few months just making out with each other. Perfect Necking, Petting, Heavy Petting and Foreplay all before getting to the Intercourse stage--if at all. I know you are curious; however, as far as orgasms go, having them from a good hand- and blow-job are much more intense than from intercourse. Until you know you're ready for this very intimate step, wait.

Guys have orgasms for very different reasons than do girls. Learn about these differences. Girls do not have orgasms as readily or as easily. Learn why and why all the fooling around and making out is so important. Guys can have an orgasm in a whim, not so girls.

Learn why three forms of birth control are recommended.

I recommend that the two of you read the articles listed in the Index, either separately or together, then discuss what you have learned, all before going too far.

After doing your "homework", please do not hesitate to ask questions if something is unclear or you want more information. We are here to help.

I hope this is of help.

[sexyboy711]

we've been going out4 more than a year and we make out almost everytime we see each otherand we've both talked about it several times we decided were gonna hold of a little longer cuz we gonna look a little more since were both virginsbut im not sure bcuz of my dick but its not the size im worrried about

[GreyShadow]

isn't doing a 15 yo considered statutory rape in some states? whether or not it a guy or girl..

[sexyboy711]

well i dont care im in love with her i would do anything 4 her

[bayonet777]

until you break up and someone starts a law suit then youll care

[GreyShadow]

'15 will get you 20' as the old saying goes....

[bayonet777]

Hooah. or a sex pred label

[wet_suit_one]

Aren't sex laws grand?

Anyways kiddo, my advice is just don't. Young life is complicated enough. Just play with each other. It's kind of like sex but better, IMHO.

[sexyboy711]

how do i tell her i wanna wait