losing erection between forplay & putting on condom

[jl80]

There have been a few occurances where my erections completely goes away between the time i stop foreplay and the moment i put on a condom. is there anything I can do to prevent this from happening? Putting on the condom before foreplay isn't possible, she doesn't like the taste.

[EvilEvilKitten]

1. not enough sex is being had
2. oral is part of foreplay - have her incorporate it into her routine
3. her putting the condom on is is the signal that SEX will happen so get that cue into your brain - sex begins in the brain so teach your brain condoms = sex is now
4. find and do the sticky post entitled The Program here on this website

[dlb]

I have experienced that also. It is probably a psychological thing and my experience is that if you don't let it bother you at the moment you can come back quickly. Ask your partner to put the condom on or at least help you put it on. You might have her do some fellatio and cock worship as the condom is coming out of the packet. Keep your eyes on her rather than the condom.

These are things that work for me. I hope they work for you.

[Brandye]

Have her put the condom on you as part of the foreplay. As a young woman, I wanted to do that to make certain it was on properly. Never told the partner that.

[dlb]

very clever Brandye

[Moonwalker]

Originally Posted by Brandye

Have her put the condom on you as part of the foreplay. As a young woman, I wanted to do that to make certain it was on properly. Never told the partner that.

Nice explaination, nothing to add

[e_room_matt]

Originally Posted by jl80

There have been a few occurances where my erections completely goes away between the time i stop foreplay and the moment i put on a condom. is there anything I can do to prevent this from happening? Putting on the condom before foreplay isn't possible, she doesn't like the taste.

Never had this problem exactly. Could it be that you had too much foreplay on your end (feeling raw or overly sensitive). Any problems I ever have stem from my boy no longer being 'game condition.' Like saying 'I keep losing my appitite after I eat all these jalepeno peppers.'

I'd just recommend trying a little more or a little less foreplay, and mix up the type. Also be honest with her about what gets you going. Maybe you need more auditory cues (I get that way when a condom makes me insensitive).

In the end you are probably just putting too much pressure on yourself. It is hard to get your body to do anything if you are trying too hard. Focus on the passion and tension of the moment to get you primed, rather than 'beating ' yourself to death over it.